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How To Rebuild Lost Trust In A Relationship

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Comment from : @MassMade12

Content begins at 3:00
Comment from : @caveymoley

You can’t rebuild trust with a narcissist
Comment from : @PokeTatum

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Comment from : @bullishbitcoin

What I did was of no malicious intent I was fearful and concerned for her wellbeing and was taking advice from all the wrong placesbrbrI desperately want my friend back And to rebuild what we had To let things flow naturally this time brbrIn my attempt to prevent myself from sabotaging things I ended up sabotaging things in the worst way possible…
Comment from : @The_Barroth

I’m just really trying to watch this to see if I will feel better but my heart is aching, and every moment feels empty without him I'm holding on to the hope that we'll be together again, and my happiness will be restored
Comment from : @VerdaRambo-s1k

What’s the point now the vibe is off move on
Comment from : @chanpoteat3037

My guy got another lady pregnant n i am finding it difficult to trust him again after he still wants the relationship 😢😢😢 wat should i do
Comment from : @modestagbeku1467

Some people told me I should give my friend a space because she was hurt but I feel like I want to talk to her
Comment from : @JoannaAprilLumbad1989

My best friend forgiven me but she is still angry at me
Comment from : @JoannaAprilLumbad1989

Even my trust with the 12step people
Comment from : @artdenattic1

You don’t know how much I needed to watch this It feels like this video was made for me My partner and I broke up three months ago after four years together, and I’ve been struggling to find a way to move forward
Comment from : @ValerieRittenhouse

1 Communicate (frequency and detail)br2 Connection (listen, talk, sort things out)br3 Talk (what’s wrong; new agreements and commitments; documents the agreement)br4 Keep a positive story (both parties focus and communicate positivity about each other)
Comment from : @Lerumles

This is so inspiring My mind has been consumed with thoughts of him It's been six months since he left, and the pain feels like a physical ache The laughter, the memories, the adventures they're all gone I've tried to distract myself, but the harder I try, the more I think about him How do people truly move on? The memories are still so vivid, and I miss him more than words can express
Comment from : @AnnetteStaley

I love the saying at the end of this 😢
Comment from : @andrewrogers9928

what if your dishonest(lie) come from bieng bulleid during the school times ( 10-20 age ) and you go of school going into work but never healed from your past traume, so you keep using lies to protect your self from truth? not sure what you call it, when person is still running away from it past, and keep using lies to protect them self, even in relationships?
Comment from : @jacovanderschaaf3044

Please Lord let me sit still for this one
Comment from : @KingJamesRadio-e7u

Me l lied my spouse than my children are of one father now my sister told him that they are of different fathers now he cant trust in me 😢😢
Comment from : @MulokoreNicholas

Never take advice from others who don't have to experience the same results
Comment from : @joplanjanice

I like how I feel like I’m not the only one going through so much, I feel a sense of community in the comments, ur not alone 😭
Comment from : @angelderek5972

losing the love of my life, i appreciate you, i will work hard
Comment from : @ssoirr

I needed this ❤
Comment from : @JacobDover-s4m

❤ love this, incorporating into my life
Comment from : @mimidillon3492

So how do I fix it 😭
Comment from : @amandadubuisson2272

Basically me an my bf had an argument of how this girl I didn't even know who she was when I could of asked him about an now he thinks I'm jealous cause he thinks I dnt trust him idk how to handle tht it's getting frustrated 😭😭 on things how I hurt him dnt mean to
Comment from : @amandadubuisson2272

I don’t think I could ever trust my ed husband He’s never apologize for his behavior
Comment from : @FoodNerds

I don’t think the positive story part is gonna happen…😢
Comment from : @OnSchoolyard

People handle me all wrong
Comment from : @rachelhope7194

At least I didn’t cheat
Comment from : @Codyjg

Now the much truth I am saying I am losing her more
Comment from : @zensol9605

Thank you ❤
Comment from : @sarakunkes1547

starts at 3:00 guy waffles for so long
Comment from : @manav_

thanks
Comment from : @adventurepixel0

Point 4: What if the friend/spouse/family member is making all the changes apart from in the specific area that is the most damaging to you/your relationship?
Comment from : @SW1V2HB

It's not me who needs to learn how to trust or to prove myself brI would protect you but you know what's happened
Comment from : @eamonnmunroe6102

I checked her messages without her consent and now its like shes never gonna forgive me Or things wont be the same Ionno what to do cuz she's the only amazing thing left
Comment from : @Facodelive

Thankyou ❤️😊
Comment from : @crystaldance5731

I want to trust and i want to be trusted again i didnt know the mistakes i was making and i really hope to fix things with myself and the relationship i have hurt
Comment from : @BEARMEATCRAYON

it's hard to start trusting someone because the pain is too deep
Comment from : @devinatalks

"Sooner or later it's gonna happen", like it's a normal brYeah, that statement makes the cheaters happy brThe fact is you cheat only if you want to cheat
Comment from : @Lax_amz

Self forgiveness is a road block for some people It’s one for me
Comment from : @robertpronovost3839

4 suggestions yet worth their weight in gold!!
Comment from : @hasanalash1085

he cheated lied and left and here I an trying to learn how to trust him again after we decided to try again
Comment from : @gal8363

I believe when trust is broken, it can’t be rebuilt with the person you once knew That person is gone, and now you are with a completely different person brbrUnlike a glass vase, I see trust as a measuring cup You and your partner are the water inside the measuring cup and it’s at 100 When trust is betrayed, the jug tips over and now it’s capped to a maximum of 90 or even as low as 20 brbrWith trust going forth, you have 2 options: you can either pour the water in a smaller cup to achieve the 100 capacity again or you can dump the water out completelybrbrThe thing about transitioning to a smaller cup is now you don’t know anything really about this person except the idea that was presented in the measuring cup This smaller cup can end up being the best, but it won’t ever be the same as the previous measuring cupbrbrBesides cheating and abuse, sometimes the smaller cup isn’t the bad option because the reality is no human being is perfect, and the harsh reality is most relationships formed in our time end in the smaller cupbrbrEdit- Just to clarify, if there’s cheating and abuse involved, it’s always best to just dump the water immediately
Comment from : @rzaq9302

I need a lot of help with this one
Comment from : @CardoStuart

😢 i can't brwhy its so hard for me 😢
Comment from : @moniquecamapatagnan

I'm here watching this from now on to work on rebuilding trust from the people that I love the most, especially my mother and girlfriend 😢
Comment from : @djjd1music

I'm writing this and I'll come back after some time If hope we could fix things together, if not, I hope it ended well
Comment from : @nn47_

Please say prayers for me and my husband Travis Michaud for our marriage and our finances and our job searching for job offers
Comment from : @SuzanneMichaud-ns2mj

This video has given me hope to keep on trying to regain trust
Comment from : @iperez9527

Number 4 is magical Thanks
Comment from : @lamyahomaydan6131

It can't be returned
Comment from : @Undermineded-333

No NonsensebrFalse Projection
Comment from : @aishdesai

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Comment from : @aishdesai

❤
Comment from : @nobodymandgaf420

😢😢😢 this was helpful
Comment from : @celineK22

Thank you for the advice, this is one of the best videos ive seen in recent history My partner who ive been in separation from for a couple of months turned me onto your video Everything you said makes total sense and im hoping i can use the ideas you outlined to try and reconcile with her Your first point of communication is something i need to work on within myself I think if we can put these steps into action our relationship could be alot better than it previously was
Comment from : @OnMePatmalone

"Expectation is the root of all heartache "brbrbrWilliam Shakespeare
Comment from : @chrissemenko628

What if the person asks for space thobrHow do you have that communication
Comment from : @wrenshoe3782

Amazing
Comment from : @stewartcaper

i have hurt two of my closest female friends today and i cant say sorry enough brit was all my fault and they did say they have forgiven me but didnt talk to me all day during schoolbri feel like i have lost their trust and i need help to fix up this mess please
Comment from : @Sirachaaaaa

He's trying to rebuild the trust he lost but i think the problem is me He's trying but i think he doesn't He's changing but i think he's still the same person who lies, who cheat, who hurt me I know hes trying but my mind won't accept it and i hate myself because of that 😢
Comment from : @miguelbalustre9629

This really helps Thank you very much for sharing!😌
Comment from : @stetzify6694

Love you bro! Thank you so much!
Comment from : @enochvkhandagle908

Please pray for me
Comment from : @AaronCagle-ru3fj

I lost my moms trust today she hates me 😢
Comment from : @suzannechaval

😅😅
Comment from : @bebiboodhoo6921

Thank you so much I recently made a huge mistake with someone that destroyed the bridge between us This video has given me amazing groundwork to move on and try to regain that trust
Comment from : @ChargedBonsai98

My girl has trust issues with me what can i do to change 😢
Comment from : @auyushverma526

Ok but how does 'one believes ppl can change, one thinks people just are what they are' Work?
Comment from : @elderlynahum7663

I will start with the communication,once sucess i will comment here for sure
Comment from : @deroy7360

Not trusting her broke her trust in mebrIt's complicated but i want to show her i trust herbrI don't know how
Comment from : @d4darwin458

Thank you, very happy to come across you channel🙏🏽♥️
Comment from : @ShellyShellvirgo

This was life-changing advice for me I needed to hear this today - thank you so very much!!
Comment from : @glazedconfused

I thought I'd give my partner needed more space to rebuild it So I need rebuild that communication
Comment from : @fef9700

Your here because you F’d up
Comment from : @alonenomore3346

These 517 k people need someone's trust this world is cruel
Comment from : @RUBY-uo5rl

Lying is the biggest trust breaker and some people just never quit They lie and sneak I didn’t realize my person was a liar until recently
Comment from : @Tamarjit1

Thank you for this
Comment from : @LUxo323

2nd chanceoka 3rd, 4th, 20thnot so much At a certain point you realize that some people can change but some cannot change
Comment from : @riffrobin474

I appreciate your positive outlook! This video helped a lot
Comment from : @Mollyyrosen

Thank you
Comment from : @kaleeqanderson2608

This is such vital information, thank you for sharing
Comment from : @garden_gems

Thank you for this sensitive discussion I think it will help me make a better relationship with a family member Thank you
Comment from : @kerrylattimore2684

I really need to hear this again ,i really love my bf and want us stay happy ❤ thank you
Comment from : @vania2715

But what if you broke a promise to your best friend and they are unsure if they can ever forgive me
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Comment from : @samanthabarnes070

These are great if BOTH people have the communication skillset and willingness to be honest I had to breakup with my boyfriend because he didn't have the ability to communicate honestly He has deep feelings of inadequacy that he needed to heal I realized he wasn't going to be able to rebuild trust with me because lying was too deep a habit I wish him all the best though
Comment from : @happygolucky9004

I hope this works I did something very terrible without even realising but my intention was not wrong I love him so muchplz pray for me only for 2 seconds ❤️❤️😓
Comment from : @puja7216

Does this apply to physically abusive relationships? brMy boyfriend has been drinking alot and physically, verbally,, and finically abusing me for a year and a half I finally decided to leave I broke up with him for a month He says he is a different man now He wont drink and all of this He honestly does seem to be different and doing much better, but i just can not trust him Its so hard because i don’t want to be in that space ever again…
Comment from : @RohiHabibi

I cannot let go my negative feelings because my ex would never actually "do" the verbal agreements we settled on We never had it in writing because he always complained about how much work went into rebuilding after he cheated, (he cheated for 5 yrs, we were together for 6) I told him I don't know him and he has to show me who he really is, and all he does is say "I'm not doing anything bad anymore" but refuses to show me proof since I already saw 5 yrs worth of proof that he doesn't actually love me He says "we can't just move on, we always gotta stew on it and make everything a problem" That 100 does not sound like a boyfriend that feels remorse for what he's done Instead, it sounds like a child
Comment from : @wyldfaeth

Amen! This was great
Comment from : @jocelynf4209

Sometimes there's nothing you can do Sometimes, you have to just take it as a learning experience, vow to never repeat your mistakes, and move on with your lifebrbrIt's hard, but sometimes that's just how it is So accept it, learn from it, and move forward
Comment from : @thecowboy9698