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How to Rebuild Trust After Lying in a Relationship

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I lied to him because I was scared I was going to lose him But because I lied I lost his trust anyway but now he and I are working on getting trust back
Comment from : @Brittany-f9y4g

I lied so many times and I’m trying to work on myself and get better as a person and being more truthful
Comment from : @antmoney678

I broke trust with my partner more than once about my past I have acknowledged that I wanted to avoid the conflict and didn’t want to lose my partner I have taken full responsibility, I truly want to be a better person for him and I’m working on myself to achieve that He deserves to be valued and respected completely Any advice?
Comment from : @LeilaniRodriguez-26

To a narcissist,they believe if their crimes happened a long time ago it should be forgotten and forgiven What a twisted and convoluted thinking They don’t have any conscience By Amelia
Comment from : @arthurbalcita4851

Narcissist do not have any intentions of rebuilding trust with anybody By Amelia
Comment from : @arthurbalcita4851

I lied to my gf about venting to my family (particularly my sister which they both aren’t on good terms) about our problems I lied to her face and she caught me red handed when she asked me to look at my phone and I did show her and she saw the messages I was scared of conflict because it’s normally not a healthy conflict resolution we have We have a daughter as well but I have broken her trust before and all the progress I have made is gone We haven’t had a healthy relationship and I am taking this time to really reflect our relationship and see what is the right direction to go because we are having problems regularly and our daughter is seeing it and feeling it I just want my gf to be a great mother and myself be a great father together or apart
Comment from : @eddylhdl2688

Thank you so muchI really need this 😭👏
Comment from : @Lapynsuklang

Heyyyy I really need your adviceI lied to him several times but now i want to resolve everything i want to gain his trust backbut he tell that this is not possiblebut I don't want to lose him please help mewhat should I do now ??? 🥺
Comment from : @_the_rawcanvas

should i send her this video lol?
Comment from : @jayce3839

THANK YOU THIS HELPED YOUR THE MAN!
Comment from : @COSMIC9987

Definitely one of the best videos on approaching this issue! Others are absolutely terrible and make it sound like the victim needs to do all the work There ARE things the victim can do like not continually guilt trip and help communicate ways to rebuild
Comment from : @ianindorf6762

Thank you I needed this God bless you 🙏 💜💯
Comment from : @kaji9883

I mean what is there to rebuild when I told the truth to my old lover We are not rebuilding nothing, just forgive and move on People make mistakes so just forgive and move on from anybody not just a past lover but friends old neighbors
Comment from : @AmberHarris-e8v

Thank you for this video Im watching because im a liar Yes i tell lies I thought i was taking ownership after every lie I was defensive and dismissive I got given chance after chance Ive broken the integrity of our relationship and caused pain and shame The thought of doung that to my partner hurts deeply Im now in therapy and working on myself to get to the root of the problem Lies are like drugs and alcohol Once you and admit the problem and seek help, it doesnt stop there Its a lufes work I trust myself to continue putting the time, effort and hard work into it Id love nothing more than my partner/ex to recieve this, but it's not my decision to make and is out of my control brBut what is in my control is my decision to continue the the effort and hard work to ridding this awful habit
Comment from : @MENTALHEALTHWITHLUKE

I am one of those that have an ongoing pattern Of lying from childhood I’ve come a long way in less than a year I want my family back, we’re stronger together and my ex being a single mom with our child is destroying me
Comment from : @posic3073

my man says he doesn't want me to be his "parole officer"
Comment from : @sashaperez6552

Hmmmm brYour Relationshots are most enlightening!brWould you consider br33 years of deceit in an effort to continue an extamarital, emotional affair a pattern or a one-time event?brAlso, what would be a reasonable amount of time to consider rebuilding trust after this?brIf he started from DDay onward being faithful for as long as he was unfaithfulplus one dayI would be 105 years old Is that a reasonable goal?brPlease advise
Comment from : @candacekuhn8589

But can time and space brings an permanent gap and separation after sometime???
Comment from : @anjanaasrisenthilkumaransu5730

thank you for making this video i just lost the trust of a person i really love
Comment from : @Candiy-b1s

Thank you so much sir
Comment from : @BaybeeLucy_

I’ve lied on three separate occasions to my partner to avoid conflict He doesn’t think he can let go of what I did We are broken up & taking some time apart Im using this time to really self reflect & to try & break those negative habits/tendencies Ive had I WANT so desperately to rebuild trust, I just dont know if it’s possible at this point after what I’ve done to him No infidelity whatsoever Just lying
Comment from : @allypickens3727

This guy is 100 right on
Comment from : @Winorbeginagain

My relationship is really going the way that seems hard for me ,I lied because I was scared not lose her but tried to open up several times but I didn't and now I did but really hard for me and her because both are so emotional people Please Ineed your adviceI will be grateful for that
Comment from : @christopherfofanah3063

HOW! I believe in rebuilding trust back to what it was before it was broken Thank you for explaining it so well to help us communicate it and work on it
Comment from : @mireillenshad

It’s so hard after all the lies I’ve told her and broken promises with no actionbrbrNow that she is not treating the relationship like she used when we first started, with constant and quick communication via text Is driving me nuts, because I know she isn’t doing anything wrong brbrIt’s just knowing that I’m being ignored as a lesson and her needing space and time to process and see my actions It just drives me crazy and I have to keep telling myself That I caused this, not her Yet it still enrages me, but I know I must tread lightly or wind up ruining it for good this time around brbrAny advice or suggestions would be greatly appreciated
Comment from : @TheCHUBBSNJ

Excellent thank you
Comment from : @ulisesgonzalez8968

YOU CAN'T REGAIN TRUST, IMPOSSIBLE, UNLESS YOU GULLIBLE
Comment from : @michaelpostell799

you hit it on the head Am ready to start the road to restoration of trust thx Eric
Comment from : @harrdocc

Please for me Staying consistent and being patient are extremely hard I get so angry sometimes But I have to leave the room and pray
Comment from : @Anonymous-uv7xd

Great video sir You also mentioned a video about when taking full responsibility is not acknowledged Will you please send me the link?
Comment from : @ericbingham3738