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My Wife Left Me A Year Ago (Is It Really Over?)

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I assume antidepressants played a part they always do
Comment from : @CalicoBeatzTV

Dude, its over Get divorced and move on I would not stay with a women who is cheating This is done Move on
Comment from : @timothythompson4036

Poor guy His wife was having an affair and not only did she try to find a new man, she thought she could take the kids with her
Comment from : @deadshot8077

I don’t think John should have been so finite and smug about it This happens often because of childhood trauma and perimenopause The one leaving is in emotional turmoil, and no one knows what they may decide to do
Comment from : @russellheyns1846

Dude, she left you years before that Women today are not near the quality they were decades ago Most of them are screwed up by their mothers Hypergamy is real and specifically a female trait, just like having frenemies, just like venting they are all horrible female traits This is coming from a widower who was married for 18 years, women do not have the capacity to love as deeply as men do, they do not today have anything that would be described as emotional maturity or character There is absolutely no reason to marry, there is no benefit for you as a man to sign a contract that only screws you over in a system that is stacked against you
Comment from : @edwo6648

It shows that the daughters are too close to the father, and they have a trust between themselves There is no loyal and trust between the daughters with the mother I agree with the Dr John says on this show I love this
Comment from : @hkuruhk

She left hubby with the debt, and moved out for another (married) man? I guess she found a new man to financially ruin with her overspending Hubby is clueless
Comment from : @Brenda-t5r

Isnt it funny how quickly he explains the faults in the marriage he has? Yes, she left but, maybe there are things about his behavior that has forced her to move out?
Comment from : @Dollygirl66

She’s banging another guy
Comment from : @MarsH-je3jv

I love her! That’s meaningless She doesn’t love you Chumps live on hopium
Comment from : @MarsH-je3jv

Interesting that he didn't approach her he sneaks into her phone and took pics? What a loser
Comment from : @phyllis9750

delusion is wild
Comment from : @zampai

Women hurt us in most bad way
Comment from : @Ayushsharmah

Love how he paints himself as perfect She had a reason to check out It's not just thst she's done She's been unheard for a long time and gave him his own medicine It's always spending is the complaint How much of that was her being forced to spend on him and the kids? Sometimes the true story comes out when you hear both sides
Comment from : @jenniferstitt8506

She’s banging another man
Comment from : @MarsH-je3jv

I would put everything into my children especially if they trust me like this So proud of your 13 year old Time to move on
Comment from : @benjaminjones4008

Being separated for a year is law in NC You can get divorced earlier if you both agree on a date; I know because I’ve done it
Comment from : @AaronJ-hc8sx

A year means it is over She left not just you but her children too, she was cheating, and she left to be with her affair partner If she comes back it will be because her affair partner dumped her not because she loved you Divorce and do not take her back, ever
Comment from : @JohnJackson-e9z

Really silly state law In NC regarding a year of separation before divorce paperwork can be finalized
Comment from : @gwynnblade9160

Wife moved out almost 6 months ago and she still thinks we have a future I feel you Radical acceptance
Comment from : @nbk12nv

A bad woman can wreck your life
Comment from : @stephengallagher2209

I hope he canceled allthecredit cards She spinds like a 14 yr old Make money, spend it all right away, life is too shortt to save? What kind of logic is that I hope he contacted the married dudes wife and let her lnow whats up
Comment from : @ronhall5395

It’s over Divorce that rotten piece of garbage and move on with your life That woman is made for the streets I hope the kids disown her This guy should have took the bull by the horns years ago and put his wife in her place Because he was weak, she took advantage of him in the most despicable way I hope karma finds her
Comment from : @Pilled_red

Yes, lawyers prolong cases to get paid, doctors keep you on meds to get paid, therapists keep you longer to get paid, criminals are on the streets longer so police gets paid, taxes are deducted from us to keep us in an enslaved system…great system
Comment from : @Highlyguided40

Guy dodged a bullet, he should be glad she's gone
Comment from : @mikeinmelbourne9491

In Canada, you have to be separated for a year before you can divorce In addition, if you live together for more than 6 months you are legally in a common-law relationship, which means you have the same status as a married couple
Comment from : @jengoodwyn2715

My wife and I were together five years and one day I came home from work I walked in the house and I caught my beautiful wife cheating on me, And five weeks after was cheating on me without me knowing one day she come up to me and told me she was divorcing me, And I can't stop grieveing of her and she has broke my heart she was the love of my life And now she has ended our five years of being married
Comment from : @ashleygregory3162

Sounds like the wife calling it off and moving out was doing him a favor She knew it was over, let her go Quit making her act worse and worse to get you to let go!
Comment from : @Catseye189

God I feel so so bad for this man! He seems like a massive push over and very trusting which is sadly such a fantastic thing to have in a partner (if you're an abusive arse hole) but it's really not good for him Man I feel bad for these people, i wish this man all the best and hope he can see she wasn't the right one at all
Comment from : @rungeon83

If he was surprised that she moved out, he wasn't paying attention
Comment from : @donnaflynn8064

I live in Va and if you have children you have to be separated a year before you can file for divorce
Comment from : @mj12a58

Divorce her a$$ simple
Comment from : @robertreynolds2726

Just let her go She's cheating on you and wasting your money
Comment from : @whiskersredwood

This guy should run a credit report and verify if there are some debts that she is doing and are affecting him That’s something to happen in the background, and only shows up when the letters from the bank arrives
Comment from : @CaToRi-

Yeah California is like that too, one year mandatory waiting period after filing for divorce
Comment from : @betitos11

There is always two sides to the story Just saying
Comment from : @Chosen302

You gotta have the self respect to walk away Life isn’t over It’s just a new beginning
Comment from : @vengeance8924

Yes - in some states you have to be separated for a year before you can file for divorce
Comment from : @ncdougherty

I don't know why nice men looooooove nasty women
Comment from : @freetreebees

That's the South and North Carolina law You have to be separated and not living together for a year It's asinine
Comment from : @swiftkarma4436

He is feeling guilty and is struggling with the idea that it's his fault that she left This is why she asked should I have let her keep spending The overwhelming guilt that you may have been at fault for something like this that you never wanted to happen or see happen, is huge and it prevents one from making any moves
Comment from : @mangispangi

“you’re choosing to not grieve” man, that is super real hope is a dangerous thing you gotta grieve feel sad, hell cry if you need to but you can’t hang on to women that are gone
Comment from : @elscrilla

Of course she's coming back Jk
Comment from : @chada75

Sorry to this man
Comment from : @irumkhan3381

The 30 thousand dollars of her credit card debt needs to be her problem and not something you should be help her with If she keeps spending over saving, than she needs to learn how to get out of the deeo water It should not be your problem
Comment from : @sakurisake4201

Hire a pi Here in SC it’s criminal adultery You can get divorced in 90 days
Comment from : @3chunter307

he still thinks there is hope how sad she sounds like a bad person
Comment from : @jakebaca264

Cause I have thirty thousand dollars in credit card debtbrWhen they call, I tell them I can't pay it back yetbr(Credit card debt)brTomorrow, I may buy myself a dining room setbrOr this Boba FettbrCredit card debt, credit card debtbrCredit card debt
Comment from : @parkerprevost7716

This sucks He sounds like a good guy My completely uncsolicited and nonexpert opinion is sometimes the universe removes from our lives that which we cannot see is poisoning us You sound like a great Dad and all around dude You cant see it now but blessings are on the way
Comment from : @BigBobbyBoLo

"Life is too short to NOT save money", was one of the most comically profound things I've heard in a long time 🤣
Comment from : @livinginoklahomacityofficial

The marriage is over He needs to find a counselor for himself and his daughters If his ex would be willing to go to post divorce counseling, I think he should investigate that as wellbrbrThe caller made a comment that concerned me He said, “I’m not abusive I don’t abuse her” From my own personal experiences, that means he has been abusive towards his wife Abuse comes in many forms I would be interested to know what his wife experienced during their marriage
Comment from : @tspencer661

One spouse or the other must have resided in North Carolina for at least six months and the parties must have been separated for at least one year with the separation intended to be permanent When those two requirements have been met, either party may file for an absolute divorce
Comment from : @kathyb1011

Living apart for a year when you have kids in Virginia (unless there is abuse) or other extenuating circumstances
Comment from : @hikikomori5

After 13 years of marriage she breaks up with him over a text message?!?!? Man, that’s rough
Comment from : @jsy3359

I hope he has some good friends who he can rely on He sounds destroyed
Comment from : @NeccoWecco

Dudes so clueless It’s over Get over it Move on
Comment from : @ivanvargas2425

Emperor Palpatine : Come to the "Red Pill" 💊 I mean the "Dark Side"
Comment from : @obigerald5834

His 'wife' has contempt for him - what part of biOVER/i/b doesn't this guy get ? Why would anybody with a pair want such a woman back ?
Comment from : @thelimey351

Was here 6 months ago She woke up one day and decided this life wasn't for her No complaints, just she wanted something different She ended up being unfaithful and leaving and she cut everyone of our friends off and moved across the country Thank God we didn't have any kids, but the person I married is dead
Comment from : @777thejesusfreak777

All y’all focusing on the length of separation before divorcing are missing the point: this poor sap needs to get it in his head that she is gone and not coming back It sucks, but he needs to let her go If she had left say, last week, he could talk about saving the marriage But she has been gone a year
Comment from : @KVW110

what a great heart Jhon Delony has
Comment from : @davidlopezmeseguer4343

He is a good man
Comment from : @davidlopezmeseguer4343

I help people get divorced and every state has different requirements and in North Carolina it requires to be separated for a year to be able to get an “absolute divorce”
Comment from : @floridadivorce

I would love to meet a man like you I wish you the best 🙏🏼🙏🏼
Comment from : @vv6601

Your wife is awful and is hiding more secrets than you will ever know
Comment from : @mikedoyle5901

It's over She's getting ran through by other men Have some self respect and forget about her
Comment from : @anthonywebster8638

Please get some professionalbrCounseling If there was a chance you all should of been in counseling youbrWill find someone that deserves you
Comment from : @kennethhall9202

Always amazes me when clueless people refuse to accept what's right in front of them Geez This guy should count himself as extremely lucky He already has custody and I'm sure once the divorce is finalized he'll keep the bulk of the assets
Comment from : @afcaton1

He wasn’t being the leader of the marriage and she was walking all over him
Comment from : @n3rdpl0w

He needs to YouTube “Rollo Tomassi · The Basics ONEitis”
Comment from : @n3rdpl0w

once a woman has affair, she checks out mentally the marriage was over
Comment from : @n3rdpl0w

I think he misunderstands He can legally separate now A year later divorce is final…this is typical He needs a better attorney
Comment from : @mrskitty7929

Some states require one whole year of non cohabitation
Comment from : @grantmoon624

For him to get custody of the kids over the mom is extremely tellingbrbrThat's a shocker This is a blessing in disguise Do not go back to this woman dude
Comment from : @random-nz7dy

What’s wrong with women these days? 32 years ago my husband left me when I was pregnant I would’ve loved a loyal husband like this caller and guys in the comment section Now it’s the men going through this Is this the progress we worked for ladies? SMH
Comment from : @cjlive5182

Why did he marry her in the first place? He had to know what was going on
Comment from : @Wyo2Wis

bro she used the money fights to get out the marriage and was cheating on your the whole time let her go and move on
Comment from : @702prodigy

This guy may not know it but this may be the best thing that ever happened to him, she sounds like a financial disaster He no longer needs to worry about her spending
Comment from : @Jane5720

Wow, so sorry my friend Sounds like she's a first class loser Life is all about her
Comment from : @ARKenMan

I’m in NC - In NC you have to be separated for 1 year until you can file for divorce
Comment from : @amandawalker1196

i'm just shocked that John has never heard of the mandatory one year separation I live in NC and no one can get a divorce without being separated for one year first This is the law in many states
Comment from : @sydcash1626

I'm sorry youe facing this buddy but things will get better and you will find better things
Comment from : @Thesussysuscat

Us guys need to protect our hearts like they protect thier phones
Comment from : @Thesussysuscat

I disagree completely The marriage is definitely NOT over It's obviously a mess but not over She's lost and having an identity crisis aka mid life crisis Needs to resolve her own demons from childhood and beyond This isn't about over spendingthats just a symptom
Comment from : @brandon6231