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The Secret of Successful Relationships: Rupture and Repair

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I love School of Life, but using an example such as infidelity as a starter for a vid about repairing and forgiving is abhorrent
Comment from : @thomasflanagan505

If your partner has cheated on you, or has hit you, they do not love you They do not respect you They do not deserve to be forgiven They Will do it again Just Leave
Comment from : @jessicahay9305

Be 7:04 beb reatated mocking and joining on of me with others new life and growth and wen❤it's a no go even universe will agree with you
Comment from : @MsDestinydiva

Thank you so much and thank god I found this video, yes young love can be tough and yes I have a whole life to find a new love but I don’t want too I am struggling to keep this relationship alive but boy am I ever finding new ways for her but this video is so perfect, the right reasons to fix a relationship and explanation for ever topic is this video and how to follow is so… I can’t describe but thank you so much and this made me feel better about everything:)
Comment from : @jakemartell5094

Healing isn’t about finding someone new; it’s about finding yourself first This episode was a game-changer!
Comment from : @PodcastHeart2Heart

This felt so heart-melting I really miss her and want to put in practice al of this with her But she grew tired and that is totally valid I need to move on
Comment from : @ovalleDrums

Sometimes it feels so hard I've been in a relationship with my girl for 2 years now and many of you might say that's nothing but for young people like us it is It has been the hardest and most beautiful two years of my life simultaneously and I really think she is the one Thats why I am not afraid to fight for what we have no matter how high the cliff to climb gets Thank you for this video, it gave me a lot of hope
Comment from : @Maxcraft12

Not to be dramatic but, You might’ve just saved my life
Comment from : @guadaluperios3252

feeling very lucky to run into this video a day after getting closure on an awful breakup we were codependent with each other, he was insecure, and i was controlling and verbally abusive after 2 years of putting him through hell he told me hes not upset with me and wishes me the best, and that with enough time apart to grow and heal we could be friends i respect him enough now that i am willing to let him go and become our best individual selves we had a long phone call yesterday and his feedback was nurturing i hope we can be together again someday but even if not i am so proud of him for standing up to me i love you, nat
Comment from : @vasilikivlastaras5255

Thank you
Comment from : @Imnatilus

I lalalalovee that the husband has a coach's whistle toward the end My partner is a football coach and we're repairing a rupture now He is a good man, and I love him very dearly
Comment from : @solsito121995

Maybe there is a big weakness behind every evil So what sould we do? Love the evils?
Comment from : @umutkara739

This should be required viewing
Comment from : @jflsdknf

I have a relationship some would consider a small amount of time or large amount of time 5 years Some things were done that would cause a break in relationship but instead of giving up We tried again and worked to build trust while allowing forgiveness It's hard, but it's worth it I dont see this person as a perfect person anymore I see them as grey, with flaws, and I accept that In my opinion, long-term relationships and the love involved is a choice At some point, i believe the feeling of love disappears or is not noticable, it changes and becomes a choice to love someone You have to continue to work on each other Just like what you agree to before getting married, "for better of worse, you will love each other" In my opinion,"for better or worse, you will choose to love this person forever," is much better Im still fairly young, so i have much more to learn, but it's what i learned so far Learn to forgive and choose to love
Comment from : @matthewklene2264

Patience is a beast You can learn so much with patience You can lose yourself on that journey, for some reason I came out way stronger
Comment from : @dxn0001

That part of the woman comforting the mouse is very powerful but dangerous It can perpetuate a violent cycle, I talk from experience If someone hurts you and is not emotionally mature enough to apologize or repair, you end up exhausted by comforting THEM for hurting YOU
Comment from : @frida_m4426

i find myself being very hesitant around people that cannot or will not apologisethat is a BIG clue for me and makes me think hhhhhhmmmmm??????
Comment from : @corinaspfx

I hope we can repair what we have I miss you, love I'm sorry x
Comment from : @dannywebster1427

That ending was gold
Comment from : @BungarangYT

I love this man so much I can’t imagine my life without him Things aren’t looking so great as of the moment but I pray we both are able to grow together
Comment from : @katiesoriano8908

My relationship is dying We were just 2 people who hated ourselves who learned to love each other and later learned how to hate each other It’s fucking sad…
Comment from : @EllaSanabria

My relationship is dying We were just 2 people who hated ourselves who learned to love each other and later learned how to hate each other It’s fucking sad
Comment from : @EllaSanabria

My relationship is dying We were just 2 people who hated ourselves who loved each other and later learned how to hate each other It’s fucking sad
Comment from : @EllaSanabria

Certain things should not be forgiven as a matter of principle, common sense, and self preservation brbrInfidelity is one of those things
Comment from : @marpro212

I feel defeated, broken and lost
Comment from : @brandiva96

I feel so seen rn, ive been saying this for years
Comment from : @zamarion101

I like a girl in my school and she too likes me but she doesnt know i too like her but i like her alot i stay in my boundaries but what is triggering me is that she shaked hands one time with a boy whom i dont like but she doesnt do like this but she done like that once now i am not able to forgive her and pondering why you didnt avoid that like that i am becoming rageful that why did she done like that what should i do
Comment from : @siuuumorto

🎉
Comment from : @ujjwalsevra2249

No wayyy the birthday on the calendar is my girlfriend’s birthday
Comment from : @brad3201

woah
Comment from : @binkope4319

This was good untill i was hit with adverts every 2mins which made me annoyed and looked for another video
Comment from : @Pdtuning

Why's the animation only showing the man doing the apologizing & never the woman? Is it 'cause only men should apologize? Is it 'cause "women are always right"?brbrLol just kidding of course After that observation, I had to😂
Comment from : @LincyMcGabby

You can’t teach a turnip Turnip can’t learnbrbrAnd you can’t get blood from a turnip
Comment from : @paulsolon6229

Nice videobrbrIs this video accurate?brbrIt takes two Both persons wd have to listen to this video and both think that the pts make sense, let’s try that way brbrBut that’s not how things generally go Let’s face facts At least one party doesn’t/can’t listen to the advices, is steamed by them, dismisses the whole process as hogwash brbrIt takes two Two genuine people, w kindness Success doesn’t happen often If the other is not genuine and not kind you gotta face facts You gotta leave Your time is the greatest gift to the other, it’s also your own most precious resource
Comment from : @paulsolon6229

You all agree that this should be done when you want to still walking and growing with someonebrBut when you dont want this, you think still is important to repair the bond or communication with the other part?
Comment from : @macelbayardi8453

🌻
Comment from : @Klingbing_aufm_Ding

I don't know why, but most messages from "school of life" never stick after the video brIt's like a lot of talking, but not really saying anything
Comment from : @veero8130

And now, all these years later, it occurred to him that the horribliest fact of human existence is that broken hearts mended
Comment from : @parkswhite

Thanks
Comment from : @remnantwatchman

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Comment from : @Dorothy___q0j2

it will get easier
Comment from : @dieuanh6668

Beautiful
Comment from : @GazRockK

I have had some really bad relationships and I have a lot of good ones The ones who put you down and insult you acting like they're giving you constructive criticism and trying to help you can be deceiving but remember to let go of these people and protect yourself because you don't deserve it You can ask everybody you have good relationships with and they'll tell you are a great person and you deserve respect These are the ones who give you constructive criticism and respectfully correct you and help you to live a good life which you will And you'll get the pleasure doing that for them too and it'll build your self esteem and self love, care, and respect and sense of self worth
Comment from : @annettehansen6047

Really highlights the differences among my most major relationships over the span of about 20 years The first was all rupture and very little repair, endless fighting, passive aggression, public shaming/derision, etc The second was completely bereft of rupture because both of us were too avoidant to even address our issues and settled into a semi-comfortable rut until it drove me into therapy because I felt terrible every day and didn’t know why brbrMy current relationship has a reasonable cycle of rupture and repair after I’ve finally learned that ruptures aren’t the end of the world and that we’re both adult enough to resolve them peacefully Now that I see them as opportunities to understand each other better and become closer, I don’t avoid them like I used to And sure enough, every time we repair, I feel more satisfaction with our relationship and more trust for my partner
Comment from : @SweetheartTheDrunk

I think this video is presuming that the relationship is not toxic or abusive and is instead addressing the basic workings of romantic interpersonal relations
Comment from : @docusi2674

Amen!
Comment from : @jasonw2696

How to fix things with other things, at tv show of it would be great, plus i am 33 years old today? Maybe more comments later?😢
Comment from : @brandonhowarth2402

Why is the cartoon "man" the depicted as the cause /fault/guilty for the resultant negativity in this video? It's never the woman's fault?
Comment from : @user-gs9ll5ud4c

5:21 Is he being sarcastic here ?
Comment from : @someguy1883

This was just what I needed
Comment from : @sandyrocketmail5

Thanks
Comment from : @orestessantander1275

you do all these things for people and still end up in one sided relationships
Comment from : @kigenm247

Being in a relationship after years of singlehood is teaching me a lot about myself 😅
Comment from : @nicky_bee

Beautiful video, and insightful
Comment from : @PierreLouisGagnon

It sounds good, but there's people that have major trust issues, and no matter how hard you try, they'll never trust youhaving said that, the video was candid and constructive Thank you!
Comment from : @badraven_indieauthor

I’m very good at destroying my relationships 😢
Comment from : @Daneiladams555

MOG l love you, l love your teachings I am from Byo, l would love to attend ome of your services How can l male this possible, munowanikwepi in Harare l suppose
Comment from : @percytpercyt1246

This is a very mature and insightful video that advocates for taking an empathetic approach to conflict resolution It’s easy to cut people off when they don’t live up to our expectations, and much harder to put in the work, heal and rebuild But relationships that do the work of restoring trust, understanding each other and “repairing” often turn out to be strongest of relationships Of course, all parties involved must decide if they think the relationship is worth restoring in the first place
Comment from : @hickamsdictum

Animation at 1:13, am I counting three? LOL
Comment from : @christophermichael5764

So beautifully put and so true brbrThere are no happy endings because love never ends Philip Zuco
Comment from : @Philip-Zuco

Thank you so much
Comment from : @injuwrd

If you’re ready this, I love you
Comment from : @Naw1dawg

Honestly I feel like this only works if the other person has the same mentality
Comment from : @LungaMasilela

Thank you from the bottom of my soul for the video I am going through a moment of finally repairing myself and my relationship , these last few weeks I realized that I hurt my partner so much with things that I had not even thought about in years and that caused a huge invisible rupture between us I still have a lot to learn and to teach too, but although those moments of rupture are ugly and seen as impossible to overcome, they are 100 necessary, otherwise the relationship never advances, it never matures and it remains there like a fragile vessel that looks perfect from the outside at any moment can fall and break into 1000 pieces and never could be repaired again
Comment from : @valentinacuervolara331

This script is fucking fabulous
Comment from : @lolavideography

I’m feelin’ like if you do find it in yourself to forgive, oftentimes they still judge you for being “weak,” “too much of a people-pleaser,” and just generally warrant another round of an abusive cycle
Comment from : @dolladollabillzyall

If it doesn't say a relationship with God, its statistically bs
Comment from : @benink5690

We have been at war to long to repair anything
Comment from : @Rugz-smoke

I’m willing to become better, but I don’t think she realise that I try my hardest but I’m afraid it’s never gonna be enough And I know I want to fix the relationship and be with her forever
Comment from : @HLXDx

I'm sorry A 😢
Comment from : @InGodITrust-u2c

Thank you!
Comment from : @jensen5668

Never marry someone that you only see as an opportunity, marry someone you know as a human being already… that’s the secret
Comment from : @mheiseus

Some ruptures occur not because of the teacher, but because of the learner not being able to creep very cool And you can keep your cool as much as you want You can literally feel internally calm Understand defensive, and if the person who’s being defensive and difficult will not bend in anyway And choose anger over communication, they will definitely be a rupture
Comment from : @amandakdasilva

1:03 Nudity 😂
Comment from : @HoLeeSheet

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Comment from : @10Sectotell1

This content is a beacon of understanding Reading a book with akin themes was a life-enhancing experience "The Art of Meaningful Relationships in the 21st Century" by Leo Flint
Comment from : @CandyLemon36

There's so many people on this planet only settle when meeting perfection Nothing less Best of luck!
Comment from : @dietergen

Why is he the one kneeling and begging while she’s having threesomes and affairs with jacked up dudes? 🤨
Comment from : @JDGRealEstate

You are my most precious brThe brightest Star in the SkybrDeserving of my Best brThere will be no other brAs I am yours asyou want Me brMy Dream manifest brI may fail you at timesbrI will always strive to correct what I have fumbled brI never give up brYou are light and beautiful brAn ever blooming RosebrOf Every Kind brYour are adored and CherrishedbrI may be clumsy at timesbrBut will always find level ground to support you when you need or want it
Comment from : @klauskeast9475

see: OpenAI
Comment from : @samnxa

In my experience the hardest thing is to admit that you have no idea about a topic Accepting and being ready to look like an idiot in order to be teached and ultimately to grow I think this is one of the highest forms to be vulnerable to one another and to the worldbrI still struggle with this, but I try
Comment from : @skarqen