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Boost Your Emotional Intelligence: Skills for Better Communication and Relationships

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you know we all wantedbr to say "this one fucker at work" lol
Comment from : @freeglee3482

Hi Jeff, I truly appreciate your program and I believe I am also benifited from thembrI have a coworker who can just gets every one on her side no matter what
Comment from : @redcherryblossomgrowing9901

i hope next video you give some point text in video
Comment from : @almaisaks

I have been watching your videos and am learning a lot They are helping me to learn about myself and how to deal with current conflicts with certain coworkers Currently
Comment from : @sigtflow

I’ve written off a few friends bcs of minor behaviors that bother me Two times it’s been bcs a person talks incessantly about themselves and I can’t get a word in edgewise Should I be telling them this instead of just fading away or ghosting them? What’s a kind way to fade out of a friendship OR what’s a good way to lovingly tell a person that their communication style is off-putting to me (and probably to others)?
Comment from : @yvonnerenoult1819

Everytime I set it up on my time instead if their demanded time, it always goes back to I'm not cooperating and they are the victim I am forced to work with this person and that person is succeeding while I suffer They must be a sociopath
Comment from : @tacohiker

Jefferson, your mantra “what triggers you teaches you, is absolutely brilliant I intend to use it often with myself with my friends with my family with my students Thank you
Comment from : @RandyKirk_YouTubeChannel

Please cover how not to cry when taking about yourself Past or present Its so embarrassing and always at the wrong time and place
Comment from : @jessicaparrott9485

My issue is I don’t think about what I want to say until later I wish I could be enough in the moment Yet I have learned to circle back after I have had time to think
Comment from : @joannerichardson6001

Grateful experience
Comment from : @lornabartlett2744

❤ Are you using your phone to record? If not what are you using?
Comment from : @KJ-zr2ko

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Comment from : @babus8406

Hi Jeff I don’t know if you will read my commentwould you have a video on how to work on improving communication with spouse ?
Comment from : @tarpankg2777

I'm opposed to cloning -- however, the world needs more people like you Jefferson : ) keep on sharing communication tools, and those of us who are listening and learning from you - will help make the world a better place
Comment from : @אלף-תב

Thank you!!! I'm from Angola and i love your videos
Comment from : @MendesJoyce-v1q

When it's a person with a toxic personality, don't tell them that what they say upsets you brThat is food for their ego, and data gathering to use against you againbrThe pause, and saying I need time, I don't have time for this right now or I'm not ready is betterbrSets your boundaries without adding to their data set against youbrThanks Jefferson!
Comment from : @memyself9518

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Comment from : @bubblestea9003

Very nice insight! two questions and support:1) How could shy individuals erase and outshine their ability? because most of the time such people miss many opportunities! What is the mechanism to show your capabilities to your employer?
Comment from : @abaytesfaye2619

Thank you for these 3 tips, Jefferson They'll help me improve my Ei I love your podcasts They are short and really instructive
Comment from : @Djeud004

Really enjoy your podcast It's very informative and I've shared it with others Particularly enjoyed this one on emotional intelligence I don't believe I've ever heard or read a definition of the term, though it's frequently used You have a very watchable style and great delivery Thanks so much and keep em coming!
Comment from : @gretchengreco154

I really need to put it in to practiceas you say JeffersonI need to know my bottonsthank you very much
Comment from : @GoldmanViena

I never realized that emotional intelligence in a man was so very attractive to me, well now I know 😂 knowledge is power!
Comment from : @SarahMarie-j2n

Think of cattle goad
Comment from : @heidiwatson8447

!! Thank You !!
Comment from : @sheilapendley1716

Someone that delays and makes false promises and they say “I will” but never does They say “I care” but make no effort Don’t know how to deal esp when it is a fiancé
Comment from : @NN-fz4pd

It’s really nice that you are helping others while you are in pain
Comment from : @Patriciasunshine

Great instructional video Thank you! 👍👍
Comment from : @JoyKennedyHughes

Very useful! Thank you ❤
Comment from : @lilylelob

Great! Thank you Jeff
Comment from : @focm888

Bloody is not a bad word! 😀
Comment from : @Calamitytoo

Totally agree with this! Emotional intelligence really is the key to smoother communication I used to get super defensive in tense conversations, but learning to pause and say 'I need a moment' made a huge difference br brI also joined the Sense of Humor Improvement Program by Habit10x, which helped me realize that humor can be an effective tool to diffuse tension—if the timing’s right Often, we’re afraid our humor won’t land, but it’s about connecting, not proving a point
Comment from : @Jedi_Master_Krish

Absolutely brilliant! Thanks
Comment from : @ATitoBandito

You look like Mickey Haller :D
Comment from : @NicuNai

How do you avoid the triggers?
Comment from : @laurakosch

Man, this is some beneficial information, and I will buy all of his books
Comment from : @justinritter9303

I needed this
Comment from : @asvpjoeyevdo9798

i have a question? how to address a difficult situation as being the bearer of unwanted info both necessary and affecting on the life of the one you are talking with, and unsure how to address itand they know it!
Comment from : @sandeeforeshee3567

How about a reel or podcast on how to quit your job?
Comment from : @rogercroley5428

Thank you! Helpful advice even in the family dynamic situation When my father was in his last hours, my sister was alienating all of us, triggering unnecessary negative emotions at a time we should have been supporting each other It made everything worse I ended up yelling back, which in hindsight was not appropriate I should have taken that moment and stepped back There is still an unspoken tension to this day
Comment from : @jodieb3871

As usual I enjoyed that episode brI learned how to deal with emotions , and the most interesting phrase when u said that “ what triggers you, teaches you “, it warmed my heart as well my brain to recognise the thing made me upset… thank u ❤
Comment from : @اميمةالعكباني

Thank you for your wisdom Would you please explain what you mean by boundaries and how to set boundaries Thanks
Comment from : @barbaraavrahami3836

I loved this video, I AM learning English now
Comment from : @DyllanAssumaneFernando

How do I let go of triggers?
Comment from : @mpk_666

Oh, I love the "I need" statements! I'm a court stenographer, and sometimes witnesses and attorneys start talking at break-neck speeds and I could never think of a QUICK way to let them know to slow down!! I will definitely feel more confident to say, "I need you to slow down" This is great! (Discovered you on Mel Robbinsnew sub to your channel!)
Comment from : @Allthegoodthings4U

Interesting
Comment from : @StChristopher-d1t

I need to learn why there is a button there in the first place Thank you foe sharing the messages to me
Comment from : @Profsomboon

Although I love the content, everything became a little suspicious when I notice that the host is making a video in a car
Comment from : @CooperJeanne

Great podcast!! Thank you
Comment from : @sanddbj6037

Thank you once again for your contents It helps me to be a better communicator and it is a constant improvement for me to learn to have better relationships within myself and my love ones!
Comment from : @manolaykhounviseth1864

''Get my goat'', meaning they'e extremely irritating,
Comment from : @heathersoper6923

I need this because I could lose it and I don't need to lose it I court
Comment from : @heathersoper6923

Keeping emotions in? My husband projects it all in me and, I am to blame for everything! I wish it was as simple as his keeping his emotions in😊
Comment from : @christinemolaro7754

Thank you, so much for helping us know what words to use in situations we face and how to navigate them
Comment from : @bonniesass8265

Thank you ❤
Comment from : @Lovemusicandtarot

I am from Jamaica and I benefit from your contribution Involve me in your New initiatives please
Comment from : @edu-buzzja5150

I ENJOY listening to your tappered presentation
Comment from : @edu-buzzja5150

So thankful I ‘happened’ to hear your insights and wise words I can tell you care about the heart of the person You’re helping us communicate better one conversation at a time! PTL!
Comment from : @lisaannzeigler2672

Yay 😁 I signed up to weekly newsletter
Comment from : @evelynmartinez3436

your videos are brilliant, so helpful Thank you
Comment from : @carmalmcgaugh7238

How do I handle the behavior of a disloyal team member
Comment from : @marionhendricks8422

Thank you I so needed to hear this
Comment from : @mauraronda1265

Well appreciated
Comment from : @aaeeeshaleee2635

Thank you so much that helps me a lot but can you please tell me what to do when some one doesn't want to share or communicate ??? how to respond to a silent treatment ????
Comment from : @dakshayaniyalamilly1109

Wow! I am always amazed when I listened to your podcast You are really brilliant and helping us in so many ways Your deliveries are so simple and so positive Many thanks from canada🇨🇦
Comment from : @jocelynetesta9373

How to explain "bloody" In English it can mean exactly ehat is says, " a bloody piece of meat" - meat dripping in blood When the Brits use it is odten used as very is, big, very Bloody great would mean that is really good A bloody beautiful girl eould mean a really beautiful girl It is to Brits a swear word although not a severe one I would not use it in front of my parents, children etc Hope this helps
Comment from : @CRJ100

Hello Jeffrey, Wow, you're on YouTube! I've been following you on Instagram for a long time, and now I have a much longer video to watch and learn from, thanks!
Comment from : @makssanchez1607

"We don't see the world as IT is We see the world as WE are"brVictor Frankl and Covey talk a lot about this Great video!!
Comment from : @timnichols7760

You answered a question that I knew in my heart I knew the answer to You simply confirmed it for me God bless you!
Comment from : @karenlowes7802

You have been very helpful, Jefferson My bottom is when individuals mislead me or tell me a lie brIn my business, I deal with tax law and the actual facts of the issue A third party who does not answer the client's questions fully may mislead the clientbrWhen it comes to the IRS, transparency is critical They place the burden of proof on you, and any misrepresentation can lead to severe consequences In a recent case, a third party misled a client by claiming the IRS was entirely wrong without providing any evidence to support their claim This left me in the unenviable position of having to prove the truth I was misled by the client and the third party Some of my emotions are very high, and I would like to let them have it This will not be good for either party I learned from this to put only a position once I have all the facts Thank you again for this video
Comment from : @raulpendas

Best video on EI
Comment from : @ydmkid1732

Thank you a million x
Comment from : @katherinedagostino1163

You're very well-spoken and an amazing speaker with good topics and great solutions! Thanks!!
Comment from : @RhondaHurtYaYa

Hello Jefferson, thanks for all these great tips! I appreciate how you break everything down I do know the explanation about why we say don’t let them get your goat Racehorses travel from barn to barn and they have a companion goat that goes with them to keep them calm and relaxed If you want a racehorse to not do well the next day, you steal their goat to make them nervous Hence the phrase get their goat Have a good day!
Comment from : @cathymcelroy1794

you are my guru happy 2 of tripped/found u, stay well bro!
Comment from : @doriannemosich232

What about when they don’t respect it? When it’s your spouse and the spouse is a narcissist, it’s really hard I am trying to learn how to manage my emotions
Comment from : @lisahaslam7527

Sitting and talking in a car is distracting, don’t you have an office
Comment from : @karenlee8362

Gosh I'm so glad I ran across your page on Facebook! I'm 58 years old and I'm learning sooooo much about communicating effectively Thank you ❤❤❤
Comment from : @msknucb1762

I am pranay from India Thank you ❤
Comment from : @PranayDigi

What do u do, whenever you meet a certain person, they r always on their handphone?
Comment from : @shantiasnani7065

I “needed “ to hear this again
Comment from : @angelanew72

I’ve been following you for a year or so… Thank you for investing your time in making these podcasts! You will probably never know how useful your podcasts are! Thank you, thank you!
Comment from : @AmberRue

One of my trigger is to be lied on OMG
Comment from : @reggaelvr68

I know now to keep my mouth shut about my life style They seem to hold against you I In other words I work two jobs And they always seem to have sarcasm about my money I make and why am I working too much They don't know a circumstances that I am about to retire and I need the money to live on because they are much younger than me
Comment from : @cindyramsey512

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Comment from : @Iam_evolving

Wow, Jefferson,brIn all the uncountable videos I have watched about grounding and emotional intelligence when contending with unstable loved ones, never once was it clarified to mean it is all about your own personal emotions introspectively; I always thought it meant how to navigate and handle the emotional inventory of the person you are trying to reason with when they refuse to reason on logic or facts!brSo enlightening!brI am seriously and repetitively listening thru all your videos to sound this your valuable insights down deep so I can use these as tools successfully and with precisionbrSo grateful for your content
Comment from : @nakiazagorski5361

I want to know how to stop women hurting me when i go out dancing
Comment from : @carrielegg5480

Thank you so much for the great work you doing, you are teaching us so many things that are helping us to live a better life Your contribution is so great to the society Thank you!
Comment from : @maramariajarvis3425

The expression, "Get your goat" means someone has said or done something deliberately to irritate you Origin, goats were put in a stall to irritate the horse
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