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Why you should never lend your friends money

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They're not your friends if they know you're struggling and don't offer to help!!! gtfoh
Comment from : @CelesteDesnoes-s7t

People who borrow without paying it back have an unrealistic view of money If you continue to give them money, you only feed their delusion
Comment from : @Alphabro88

This happens alot
Comment from : @MohammadIrfanAnsari

Holy smokes If anybody axe me, I'd be quite upset
Comment from : @thormidthagahast8914

That's pretty sad when a friend will hit you with an axe to get some money
Comment from : @cbones3346

Use that money as a bait to know if he's really your friend
Comment from : @judahsawyerr9348

I found this out the hard way😢😢😢
Comment from : @310MANRUTH

True
Comment from : @Joska517

I’ve had 15 year friendships who have never asked for money or material I do have newer friends who are comfortable with asking for things more frequently and thats what separates your lifelong relationships from your temporary ones
Comment from : @nellsluna9242

You have to force it
Comment from : @Anorch-oy9jk

My mom said it best “ don’t nobody owe you ish”😂😂😂
Comment from : @msshann187

If you don't lend money you might lose a friend, but if you lend it, you'll lose your friend and the money
Comment from : @ELM3LVIN

Yep I will never lend money even if he’s crawling and begging I’m done !!! lol
Comment from : @jl285

Just lent 500 now they acting funny
Comment from : @shawnfranklin2227

My meth addict friend is in jail and keeps asking for money for commissary
Comment from : @nathaneylar4263

🐻
Comment from : @tjgotkicks3466

It's too late for me now
Comment from : @thenotorioushardik

You don’t sound like a good friend you sound selfish as hell
Comment from : @3-13ENT

I’m not askin for it back , tho
Comment from : @3-13ENT

Fax
Comment from : @OBM_ll

I don’t even need 3 reasons 😂 just two words It’s mine
Comment from : @djtrakakadrunkpoet8598

Correct I made this Mistake In “Good Faith” Lost 750
Comment from : @EthanAranda-pd8tn

I have given money to people who have been struggling and never wanted it back
Comment from : @melenico4512

Not always true brobrI borrowed $3000 and payed it fully back over the course of 6 monthsbrbrI never dragged paying them back, i had full intentions of paying back, i would of sold anything to pay that loan back instantly if i couldnt pay backbrbr9/10 times isnt accurate bro, you blowing smoke out your butt now
Comment from : @imaginableAudio

If i borrow im not buy bro a drink im paying interest🎉
Comment from : @divinebrilliance3781

Stop lieing bro if your friend austin ask you for money u will lend him😊😊
Comment from : @Sean-js4el

Bro, you talk the most shit 💩
Comment from : @dean9330

If he my friend,how is that jeopardizing our friendshipif he need help who he suppose to go to?can go to an enemyunless u talkin bout him having the money and not wanting to pay back
Comment from : @festusaniemeka3350

Thanks for the amazing content FIT
Comment from : @dannyrwagamba

Going through this right now and it’s hell to get it back
Comment from : @jalilchandler1270

I lent $500 to help someone get their car out of the shop, and when I asked them for my money back months they blocked me
Comment from : @JoniseRimes

Not only will you lose your money and your friend but you will lose a lot of people too because you will demand your money, your friend will guilt trip you and falsely say you're abusive and tell everyone what a horrible person you are and you lose everyone
Comment from : @MattsGamblingSlots

The worst part is after 3months asking about the money they owe, and they give you the "oh i forgot all about that"subtracted very good friends because of that And that point, i didnt bother and just walked away from that friendship You feel guilty if you dont borrow money, you gotta say no, and that also can destroy that friendship, its a losing battle on both sides
Comment from : @thepanman8

Charge interest
Comment from : @t_ech

I gave 5k to my friend and its been 8 month and she is not returning my money Guys don’t give money to anyonenowadays u cant trust anyone
Comment from : @Keerthi_3001

If someone ask You for money, most likely they are not in a position to pay back, their bills and personal stuff will come first , before yours
Comment from : @oscarchs2239

Thing is if you’re my friend 9 times out of 10 the money I’m giving you is tied with me saying I don’t want you to pay me back You’re paying me back in friendship and if that were to ever fall apart thing it was a gift You still don’t owe me anything brbrWhat kind of friend/ family can have more than enough money to help family/friends even just a little sits there and watches
Comment from : @Strength_In_Wisdom

Don’t give away anything you can’t afford to lose
Comment from : @mercedeswilkins5566

Your family as well
Comment from : @ashleyadam955

When I reject to lend money he probably abuse physically and emotionally This is the second time and I am planning to leave but I was staying as he said this hard time (over 15 years) I am the only one who supported him and all of his friend and family ran away He said if I left he would jump off the building to end his life He’s father of our 1-year-old son I don’t know what to do
Comment from : @kristylei2439

Lol I gifted a friend of mine 11K 😂😂😂 now I feel like they're using me and I'm thinking to end our friendship
Comment from : @loveQatar

I try to think objectively same way a bank would I lend small amounts to see if they pay that back and how long they took if they got a good history of paying me back i dont mind lending out more and even upping the amount certain amounts ill never go over though
Comment from : @jaylenlenear3944

I never ask for money with anyone even if I desperately need itbrBut my frnZ take money from me but they never return, after a long gap they do the same againbrPeople are really bad They take advantage of goodness
Comment from : @Vinod-yn2uq

Dognut
Comment from : @Timetomakeytgreatagain

Bro what kind of friends u b having😢? A dude gotta kno who his friends are honestly Cuz if my boys are in need best believe I'm helping them and trust they'll pay back As a matter fact I don't lend out money I'm not afraid of losing! Let that sink in
Comment from : @jaysfacts3842

Such a good video, straight facts and to the point
Comment from : @Luka23567

Who the hell says that "money doesn't matter relationship"? It's retarded
Comment from : @jeremybriggs6951

Some end up in the grave Not good to play with peoples hard earned money
Comment from : @Ghanaba23

If he pays it back 2 days later every time, its cool
Comment from : @Jtwe

I see your point but dont completely agree Sure a lot of the time they dont pay back But I believe in only giving money and nlt expecting it back Because it may ruin the relationship let it go
Comment from : @TBlock1347

If one has light in himself, is traitfully kind, he is the one who to be kind back to 😊😊
Comment from : @AndIChoseToSpeakFAX

Give them money and you won’t ever have to see them again You can pay off a lot of people with $100
Comment from : @d0cn0tes

FitX, I disagree with this one, it's not a universal stuff, u were in Nigeria, i should know how some of this stuffs work, I think lend to those that seem promising and busting their butts at legalWorkI disagree
Comment from : @marcelezenagu9874

If you really wanted to help don’t expect that money back in time can afford to wait don’t give them if they can’t give you back think of it like you given sathakka … Teachings of prophet mohammed (may peace be upon him)
Comment from : @mypokemon

In 1992 I lent a friend of mine RS10K, few months down the line he asked me for more, when I refused and asked him to return 10k, he refused Now we become strangers!
Comment from : @bidz1947

A real friend keeps their word Every circumstance is different There are still people with integrity who struggle and still will work hard to pay back what they borrowed on time There are still friends who will have your back come rain or snow Just because they ask me for help does not mean that friends devalues our relationship It just means they are human going through a down moment The issue is not lending money, the issue is lending to the right person
Comment from : @covenantsam9150

Bout to send this to my cousin 😂
Comment from : @DontCensorMuah

I've had to remind my brother to pay me back Did he? Yes, but the disrespect to forget is not something I forget
Comment from : @struggler8532

Facts
Comment from : @alijahcordova8359

If you lend someone $20, and you never see them again, it was probably a great investment
Comment from : @javabeanz8549

There was very very few times I had to actually ask a freind for money I pay no later than a week Every real man keeps his word
Comment from : @duckyh9712

Facts , straight facts
Comment from : @BustingNUTS

@FITXFEARLESS you make a really great point but what if anyone of your small circle of high value male friends asks you to front the bill for them while you’re out with them or dining out & they have a “consistent” history of paying you back any money they borrowed from you the very next day Do you still believe they shouldn’t be given a loan?😳😳😳🤷🏽‍♂️🤷🏽‍♂️🤷🏽‍♂️🤔🤔🤔💭💭💭……
Comment from : @TheFitnessGamer365

Usually when a friend asks for money I never think of returns because I know that money is Gone
Comment from : @ryuuukiamv387

Aks you
Comment from : @andnew1335

Most of the time if they have to ask you for money they can't pay you back The best thing to do is evaluate your relationship and just give them the money if you can afford it,
Comment from : @jslade60

Negro brbrI need $5 brbrIf ppl don’t give it to me, they were never a friend ✨☀️
Comment from : @arielmaliha

And that's why I never ask for money from anyone
Comment from : @sleepers123

They might “axe” you
Comment from : @gjte2947

Any homie that I’ve lended money to, or borrowed money from, the money has been paid back💯 this dude don’t have real homies if they don’t pay him back Bro advises not to lend a friend money in need, and also advises every man gets a manicure/pedicure weekly, buy a $3000 LV bag, and hire a maid to clean your house, what in the actual 😂😂😂
Comment from : @BrownPatriot316

If you move with people that are like you you have no worries and guess what they don't have to ask we're that close I know and you won't have to ask for it back
Comment from : @hardtofollow3685

Facts tho they usually broke to
Comment from : @joshuaBrooksnicholas

I have given friends money with the mindset of I don't want the money back
Comment from : @jayd6446

Bro it’s not that serious
Comment from : @mark26mw

My brother and Me (adopted) don't borrow money from eachother if one of us got it we both got it We all we got
Comment from : @SkylerDouglas

I dont lend but i give and help them
Comment from : @matrixglitch6876

Yo fitx I got a girl I rly like and she doesn't speak good English what is the best way for me to tell her I'm interested and be respectful?
Comment from : @ianreynolds4080

Id rather bless my homie with money no string attached than be expecting to get payed back and potentially ruining a friendship And most likely I wouldn't give it to A homie that's asking to borrow money you bless your homie that never ask for shit but u know need help
Comment from : @ianreynolds4080