| Title | : | What To Do If Friends Ask for Money | How to Handle Lending Money to Friends |
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Get them a gif card only brWe love doing this!brWe keep gift cards with the receipts lying around! Comment from : @Faceless_Mailjam |
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There is a song that goes like this: ther’s nothing going ON but the rent Comment from : @Faceless_Mailjam |
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Girl you loan out the money or I come home get up the next morning and I got 4 flat tires and I had to buy 4 new tires three time and the last time I got a camera! Comment from : @Faceless_Mailjam |
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Very educative Comment from : @KevOtieno |
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Collateral! Guns, gold, electronics, title of their vehicle Write it up, have them sign the document Keep the collateral in a hidden place If they flake on the repayment, the collateral is yours Include that in the contract Everybody needs to be on the same page I will not hunt them down for the $$ and waste my time Comment from : @duanewolfe2321 |
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Don't disrespect me by asking me for money Comment from : @growlingleapard7868 |
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Don’t lend it Comment from : @aithris8567 |
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The best rule is to never lend money to acquaintances, friends, and/or relatives Most of the time their just deadbeats or aren't living within their means Comment from : @kenberry8504 |
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Never give anything away you can’t afford to lose Comment from : @mercedeswilkins5566 |
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You are not a bank so don’t give money away Comment from : @mercedeswilkins5566 |
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Never loan money to family or friends It changes the relationship between you and the person Comment from : @TedWentz |
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oh god i am going through this right now with a friend, she always asking me for money so she can buy stuff, i'm going to do my best and learn to say no more often Comment from : @muumuugirl |
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What if it’s your sister who needs money for surgery? And you don’t know them that well at all because they live in another country? Should you help even tho you are barely making ends meet? Comment from : @Neoncaffine9915 |
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I don’t lend money because if the person dies, I wouldn’t get my money back 🤷♀️ Comment from : @sacoope1 |
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How to handle it? Easy Don't do it It's very nervy and frankly, ignorant, for adults to ask other adults for a loan I have been stupid enough to do it in the past, twice, and it was well over twenty years ago It didn't end well and all but ruined a friendship I just say my money, my liquid anyhow, is tied up in money market accounts - which isn't a lie, but in reality, no one asks me for money anymore Mature people don't do that type of thing, and if you find yourself around people who do, leave the "group" Comment from : @dyates6380 |
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My go to is give me 30 days to get that to you Comment from : @marleyjanim5033 |
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Just say Noooo! Comment from : @thefunfam1433 |
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I never have money Although you do Never lend money, lend a hand Comment from : @gusklemp3477 |
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❤❤ Comment from : @paulnkhoma568 |
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A girl I know keeps asking for money I said no she keeps on with I have a 2 yr old kid I have no job family won't help I said we'll get a job or sell your body on the street I don't really care you do you she blocked me instantly result I still have my money and I'm happy with my money lol 😂 Comment from : @e-bike-bys-vykken7422 |
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The amnt of money I've given or "loaned" out in my life would be enough for a high downpayment on a home in NYC I get frustrated, because it's like they dont' give a f*ck about your budget or what's going on in your life it seems Comment from : @TheManTheMythTheLegend-bx6vu |
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If they cant handle you saying no, you need to find new friends Comment from : @supercaptainbatdoggy |
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I have a friend I keep loaning him money he stays with his girlfriend, his girlfriend not working now they can’t pay the rent now They ask me every day for the money I don’t feel comfortable loaning him the money because every time a loan him money before he never pay me back Comment from : @lurycharles-pierre122 |
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Good Comment from : @martinmusokem5765 |
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Very cool video 😎 Comment from : @griso107 |
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Got a friend whose life is one never-ending money crisis Been friends 25 years and he has paid me back the two times I've loaned him the small sum of $500 I'm not worried about being paid back, it's that he now thinks he can count on me for a quick loan And if I don't break the cycle, the cycle will continue I don't mind lending to a friend IF it's a true emergency like he'll be evicted or have his car repossessed, etc But now it's just small stuff like he's going on vacation and could use the extra cash type situations Comment from : @lolaclyde7915 |
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"No" is a complete sentence Comment from : @timothygenaw2199 |
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my friend needed a gym membership and i paid for him its been 3 months now and he still didn't return it back even asking for it twice i urgently need the money i don't know what to do Comment from : @veganrex_8 |
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To the people that were really genuine friends, to the people that never asked for nothing but gave when family needed it, to the people who got turned down by these so called friends and family with excuses when you needed help in your darkest hours, days, months and years Always remember Today you can be a KING and tomorrow you'll need the help of others That's how FAST life can change You keep being that genuine person regardless of how people treat you, regardless of your circumstances It WONT last forever Always TRY to do good and be pleasant in the eyes of GOD One day they will need you They ALWAYS do! ✌ Comment from : @sheedshaad1283 |
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Quite helpfulbrThanks so much 🤝 Comment from : @Army-btsstarcrown |
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well said Comment from : @saunaknandi1814 |
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Nooooooo friends are more prone to jealousy and taking advantage of you! Lending money is dangerous Comment from : @patrickturk8957 |
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💯 Comment from : @bobmcdonald6638 |
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Some people ask for less amount that they can payback, to build the trust that they have repaid, but ask for more after sometime that they cannot pay Comment from : @rohans7194 |
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I've been in this situation for quite a while I was friends with an ex co worker about 6 months ago After awhile he told me he was falling on hard times and needed help So whenever he asked I started sending money for food and rent He's told me several times that he'd pay me back but I haven't gotten one cent from him A few days ago he wanted me to send him 80 bucks to pay his internet bill I finally reached my breaking point and told him in the nicest way possible that I won't be sending any more unless he pays me back like he said He said "Things happen and I have bills to pay" I understand that but everyone has bills to pay Point is if you barrow money from someone there's only so much they'll give before they reach their breaking point They are not entitled to YOUR money Comment from : @JazzGaming26 |
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GIVE ONLY 2 or 5 OF THE MONEY ASKED , IF YOU HAVE BTW Comment from : @venkatamangena3065 |
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Thank you Comment from : @10SecondGames |
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Another tip is to avoid discussing your own finances with family and friends For some reason they will think that you owe them something if you're managing your finances without complaining Be just as broke as they are and you won't get bothered Comment from : @thedeal9526 |
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I'm so dumb Now, no one will get blood outta this turnip Comment from : @moodydearest |
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my family gave 10000$ to family friends It's been 8 years They never payed back But they are in good position to pay back and craziest thing is they also blocked us on social media, changed contact numbers It's a mental pressure whenever we think about itbrbrMoral - never lend money 💰 even how badly other person needed help We also can always support in other forms If you can just donate Don't expect back It's good for your own health and family Comment from : @akhilapodupuganti4089 |
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I love this advices I am all by myself, living alone, soon going to foreign land to work My so called friend was angry on me cause I was not able to lend her some moneybrThat was a huge red flag for me cause in the past, when I lended her some money, she needed 6 months to give me back, and by that time she was working and had a good salarybrI think that all of us, that were in the similar situation, must learn a lesson to not be a Red Cross Organization 🙂🤩🙂 Comment from : @nevenarankovic4150 |
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My"friend" is wanting a $3500 gift certificate for a car wash for giving me a used $35000 memory foam mattress It was a GIFTwhy does does she want money from me? She just hung up on me because i said NO Any thoughts? Tired of money grubbers! Comment from : @amandatarkington6877 |
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I had totaled my car and asked a really good friend of mine for 1000 I was behind on rent my car was stuck in another city and I was feeling very hopeless He kept pushing it saying I'll see He had a $9k insurance check and he stayed with him parents, he's 26 and I'm 22 I swear when he said no to me I felt very betrayed So called brothers Comment from : @TheLastSaint7 |
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My friend eat my money 💰 Comment from : @aakashkarki |
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How to lend money to friends and family? Simple answer: I don't!!! Comment from : @josephinebournes8212 |
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I always say I don't have it Period Comment from : @donnabennett5454 |
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Very well said great advice Toxic people will try to make you feel guilty because you didn’t help them but really they don’t help themselves Comment from : @roberthatch6230 |
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thank you for make this video this help me alot keep up great work 😊bri will show my firends this video two 😊 Comment from : @stacey_Gamer |
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Man I didn't look at it this way I'm sorry I can't be an asshole, so if someone needed like 5k and you gave them only 100, would that be bad or like insulting or something? Should I just not give them any at all rather?? Comment from : @brienmaybe4415 |
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God bless you ! John 3:16 brThings are so hard Comment from : @JohnJohn-fq5bl |
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I think you're terrific Comment from : @mahmoudfish6538 |
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Very useful info thank you Comment from : @enjandopazvakavambwa6272 |
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Hello! Thank you I am just seeing this video Thank you very much for this, I am dealing with a situation that is uncomfortable right now with a friend, so this is super helpful! Thanks again! 😀 Comment from : @allyredmond7259 |
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When someone asks me for money I turn around and respond by saying you want to borrow money from me I'll give you a big kick in your ass Comment from : @dogan6070 |
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I'm sharing these videos to everyone I know Cuz I'm not helping these mfrs anymore 😂 Except my parents Comment from : @jayem5807 |
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Being Nice will backfire! Comment from : @newbeginnings9457 |
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Aye let me borrow 20 dollas until I get paid Comment from : @anbuaggie2690 |
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Great content!!!! Love your channel Comment from : @deborahbrown1230 |
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I agree! Never lend more than you’re willing to gift Comment from : @WellBalancedWallet |
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Okay I need to send this to a few people Great video! Comment from : @RoadtoFIRE |
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preach!! habitual borrowers always try to guilt trip you like you never helped them outfamily is the worst sometimes sad truth -you have to exclude friends n family from ur circle on your path to financial wellness! very very good topic💪🔥😎 Comment from : @jd7119 |
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Great tips for a very sensitive subject Comment from : @kurateddesignsbykim |
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Great video I just got a suggestion to view this video I haven’t been getting notifications and I’m surprised I missed so many videos , yes I’m a subscriber Comment from : @discoverwithdebra6038 |
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I wish this video came 1 week ago, I was just faced with this scenerio These are great tips! Comment from : @erikabarksdale5896 |
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