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Stop lending people money ( friends and family )

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Take it from me, NEVER NEVER let anyone know how much money you make or how much you have saved Trust me someone will ALWAYS have plans for your money for their benefit While you are making sacrifces they arn't, and just living life spending frivolously without caring about their future!
Comment from : @lorenajules4651

VERY TRUCE😢😢
Comment from : @310MANRUTH

It ruins relationships most definitely Next thing you know, the person keeps asking over n over
Comment from : @Team_Pisces

I learn my lesson I ain’t giving nobody a dime
Comment from : @ShaylaD-rq4ty

This happened with my uncles wife's brother He lent him money 10k It took him 20 years to finally pay him back, and when he did, it was all at once My uncle never liked him because he never paid him It's understandable I'd be mad too if I gave 10k and thought I'd never see it again So yes, I'll never lend money to anyone
Comment from : @zizyip6203

Avoid employing 'basically as a fill in wore 'In truth' is better, or 'uh-huh'
Comment from : @daveyork0

My brother and my friend both owe me money
Comment from : @stevenbell4066

Why did uncle ever think he was getting the $5k in us dollars versus Dominican currency, thats crazy
Comment from : @BuiltUnderPressure

They tell you their problems as if you supposed to give a dam What the hell your problems have to do with me😂 The AUDACITY!!
Comment from : @JohnDoe-dj8kb

i need a real new job in my city
Comment from : @levonlyons

I have borrowed money from my mother and ALWAYS paid her back Thankfully I don’t have to borrow anymore My brother borrows from her and feels no need to pay it back
Comment from : @mimiwins1

I loaned a cousin $120 to fix his car Swore he would pay me back even text me sometimes “hey cuz I have t forgot about your money I’ll have it soon” a month later he text me “call me cuz” I called and he asked me for $3,500!! I said no I don’t have it he asked me to take out a loan from a bank the Asked me to ask my mother!!! Wow I couldn’t believe it he didn’t even pay my $120 lesson learned - lost a family member that day
Comment from : @mimiwins1

Same thing applies to weed 😂
Comment from : @bioshock9998

You’re cute 🐻🐾
Comment from : @tjs-_goated7449

I have a secret for happiness : never ever lend money to anybody
Comment from : @davidmercado2329

I don’t lend money because if the person dies, I wouldn’t get my money back 🤷‍♀️
Comment from : @sacoope1

Do not lend money unless its in a contract Because they will not pay
Comment from : @gbangura

I lent money to a cousin with a time frame for payback Time came and I did hear a word out of them That’s when I knew they would never pay me back I told them they wouldn’t have to pay me back and that it was a gift However, I told them I would never lend or give them money again, period
Comment from : @taraquinch1256

I have never borrowed money from anyone at all
Comment from : @ashleyadam955

I cannot stop lending money, in order to stop I'd have to start first, which I have no intention to do
Comment from : @ImNotADeeJay

Never give anything away you can’t afford to lose
Comment from : @mercedeswilkins5566

I rather lie to my family and friends by telling them I don’t have money than to give it to them and have them f me over
Comment from : @mercedeswilkins5566

Great advice
Comment from : @mslezinskyify

I don't lend money anymore,or co-sign, especially after I had to pay back, a 20,000 loan, it took me 5 years to pay that loan back,lesson learned
Comment from : @barbarafallin2038

I loan a friend 30000, and two months later they were on a cruise, and that was 15 years ago and I am still waiting ,for my money, lol
Comment from : @barbarafallin2038

Happened to me twice im done lending this person money 😠 I literally had to ask for the money back like why am I begging for something I'm rightfully owed
Comment from : @MrEOM41

Or don't fall for the bait, meaning when they start saying their having a hard time, playing the violins in the background, let them vent, but don't fall for it
Comment from : @donaldmcgee6334

Never let people know your financial status
Comment from : @donaldmcgee6334

I do not have money, just enough to have a decent life
Comment from : @roberthall6161

Never ever tell or let family or friends know your net worth, act poor
Comment from : @priscadavid8507

You can't even talk to family and friends about your financials If you do you just about see the wheels turning in their heads
Comment from : @srobearl

I have borrowed $3,000 my car was in desperate need of repair Me being a person of pride it took a lot to even ask I told them I would Pay them $350 a Month over the course of 10 monthsbrI paid in full and on time plus Took them out to Dinner I would never borrow what I know I can’t pay back
Comment from : @mikejwomack9597

Amazing advice👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Comment from : @CrazyFai

One thing I dislike about lending money, or anything, to a person is that person now knows you're "mandated" to help him/her soon after in order he/she pays you back Basically, that person has no intention to pay back and wants to squeeze you a little more out of anything - another loan, a ride, a big favor Once you get fed up or stop helping out, that person has an "excuse" for not paying you back just because you were a "jerk" or "I needed you in time of need"
Comment from : @BreadFred3

Now when I hear borrow I assume under 300 bucks So idk how the hell we whent to going to court so fast XD
Comment from : @lxwkey9763

Had a former friend I worked with ask to borrow $10 to buybr two $5 lottery scratch tickets, and he'd pay me back payday (in 10 days) I gave himbr the $10, and he won $500 on each ticket I drove him to cash the tickets in, and went back to his house br When he was getting out of my car, I mentioned the $10 he owed me He said that it was HIS money, and br he had said that he'd pay me back payday After I cussed him out, he gave me my $10 back, and he lost a good paying job because I was his ride to work (in another city) which I stopped doing
Comment from : @bl1429

So I shouldn't watch this video because I'm lending you money in the form of hits? Got itI'll leave a thumbs down
Comment from : @kingjae1498

Exactly so
Comment from : @ettjuridisktombudfordenens357

Your relationship was already damaged but money made it obvious People who borrow money either they don’t have the money so they can’t pay back or they have but,have habit of borrowing and not giving back
Comment from : @amladubai5413

My daughter wrecked both of my cars and owes me 3000 when I ask for my money back she throws violent tantrums
Comment from : @lisajrocks8310

There's a guy who couldn't or wouldn't even pay me back $45
Comment from : @elroco4827

You let someone borrow money once or twice, they'll always call you when they're in a bind SAY NO!
Comment from : @elroco4827

Dude i need to cut off with a friend and your situation is very similar to mine
Comment from : @orlandofurioso7329

Whenever anyone hints (they won't come out and ask) about money issues and yes, we all have them I tell them I don't have it Period I don't give money either I'm not a bank I don't understand why I'm the one everyone comes to with their hands out I never borrow from anyone either I just do without If I can't afford it, I don't buy it or borrow for it
Comment from : @donnabennett5454

I have the lowest income of my siblings and somehow they always have money problems that I need to help them out with while going out to fancy dinners and being on jet ski's on vacation 🤨
Comment from : @MariaPerez-sb1xp

I was stupid to tell my sister how much I have in my savings, a week later, she asked me to borrow her $2,000 I will never mentioned to anyone how much money I have ever again Lesson learned
Comment from : @webbie1891

Based on life lessons I learned, you'd rather see someone at their worst than to feel like you have to beg for what is yours People don't respect kindness, and will prey on you br#DieQuicklybr#No
Comment from : @rgw1380rw

Your cousin didn’t pay you back because ( In his mind) you don’t need that money! He valued more the money than the relationship with you
Comment from : @edwardvargasperez3545

Lent one of my friends 23k 7 years ago for his business love the guy but haven’t seen a cent he’s embarrassed clearly but just sucks with money worst mistake ive ever made
Comment from : @alexguy96

Tommie, i understand what you're saying However, if you're making $30,000 per month - a one-time gift of money to someone in need would not be a bad thing There is nothing wrong with helping others financially, if you can afford to
Comment from : @essentialone3934

I learned this from experience, I lended money to my "best friend" and it has been a torture to try to collect my money back and I actually had to make him sign a contract to protect myself I would have prefer not to do that
Comment from : @joseafalvel

Hes right but try having a gambling father 😈
Comment from : @gilbertjohnston731

I don’t understand the mindset of people who take money without paying it back smhmy dad owes me $2500 But I feel funny hounding him for it It’s been about a year now I don't expect to get it back :(
Comment from : @donnyjay4269

Take a shot every time he says “basically” 😆
Comment from : @yoobineee

Truth!
Comment from : @khalilashani5555

I lended a relative 1,400 and he only gave me 1,000 back It is better no to lend money to relatives nor friends
Comment from : @mrf6215

Golden advice Thanks Tommy
Comment from : @MrVHI123

It's always a gamble when you loan ppl money The best thing to do is simply say no, those who know your heart will respect your answer and those who don't respect your answer don't respect you as a person
Comment from : @itskia2586

I haven’t watched the video yet, so I’m going purely off the title I made a rule years ago to never lend anyone money I’ll help you, I’ll kick you some cash Whether you choose to pay me back or not is a reflection of your character But I don’t lend money I help people
Comment from : @amszulu

Tommy is the realest
Comment from : @bigcitymillionaire

This came right on time because just the other day I was searching for videos on this topic This has been my problem in 2020 I'm so glad you touched on this Thank you!
Comment from : @SweetestMapleMami

Happy new year
Comment from : @XG_Winchest3r

i have fam in mexico i have had to stay away from, they think that dollars grow on trees here in the us!!😒😒
Comment from : @Javier-kx8zm

I have my 5740$ that I borrowed two of my friend since 14months without the assurance I will be repaid back soon or ever Not a good experience for me
Comment from : @agboladeopeyemi2762

Bro said we gonna start this year off right! 😂
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Comment from : @identitydreads1559

Hes probably watching 👀 ,
Comment from : @chrisdubosse

Happy new year everyone 🙌🎊🎊🎊
Comment from : @15Koreans05American

New Year Eve Drinking Game Every time Tommy says “basically,” you take a shotbrbrThanks for the great content
Comment from : @elmargudiel664

I still remember my brother not paying me back for a ticket he received This was 35 years ago
Comment from : @wandawhite2087

Love how you are like since you won't listen to me Here's how you actually loan out money brReasons if I am doing anything with people I know I'm just gonna give them the money or just say no
Comment from : @KelechIwuaba

Dude ! You got to 300k ! Congrats👏👏👏👏 !
Comment from : @sipsi1995

I was in this situation and I knew I had to lend only as much money as I would be willing to simply give this person, and I had to be willing to accept that I may never ever see that money again and be 100 okay with that and not have that impact my relationship with that person It's a tricky thing, mixing business/money and family
Comment from : @BKLYNButcherBlocks

Great video! Happy New Year! 🎊
Comment from : @hsbwushwvwhw

Need to show this video to my mom or Dad
Comment from : @kennykaijage5342

In reality I always say no and basically if they really need the money bad, they can go take out a loan from I don’t care at a high Interest rate And lastly that solves everything
Comment from : @frankyrangel70

Did you get a new camera? Video looking smooth
Comment from : @PokuBanks

Solid advice! Bro, invest instead hahah 👊🏼 Happy new year man
Comment from : @TradingWithCJ

Don’t lend but if forced, small amounts Consider it a penalty you paid when they don’t repay it but now you never have to loan money again Of course they will now avoid you If larger amounts get two hundred percent collateral from them You both should have risk, not just you
Comment from : @microtrader540

so tommy what are "you" doing to build you family and family structure/community? im asking because yea i part dont agree with this video when i borrow money from family i do my damnest to pay the back (with interest), also im grateful they havent put a time limit or set dates on the loans i think better family financial structures need to be developed especially people "trying" to be capitolist
Comment from : @robertchristian7020

From the title I can tell that tommy had that uncle that always asked for a dollar 😂
Comment from : @kingfratetrainbeats6850

this video is speaking nothing but the truth I've learned from personal experience with this luckily I'm an asshole so I ain't got no problem telling people to go screw off but I do try to help when I can
Comment from : @christopherwright6208

I loan my brother $185, he ask after my wife pass It been about 8 yrs he still haven't pay me Now he can't never borrow anything from me rest of his life!
Comment from : @freddiebutler3653