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How Much Money Should I Have Saved Before Getting Married?

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Comment from : @aylex1974

My aunt gave us old couches, his uncle gave us an old dining set The kitchen stuff was mainly wedding gifts I had a bed and tv He had a stereo It was great! Miss those simply happy days❤️
Comment from : @heatheranderson6102

Also, you can learn to restore/repair furniture Folks will throw out a beautiful dining room table just because it’s got ring stains on it or a couch because one of the cushions is torn Little elbow grease and you’ve got a nice piece of furniture and you’ve learned a new skill
Comment from : @coltonstokes4322

For those going into marriage scared about divorce seriously think about things that lead to it and if you or the partner would ever do it guys can divorce to, marriage is meant to be sacred connecting a man and a woman as one not just to have a enhanced date
Comment from : @jober8110

Twice as much as you’d be comfortable paying your ex and the lawyers when its over
Comment from : @SirBitStack

5:44 The table at which I’m currently sitting watching this video, I paid fifty bucks for it about 14 years ago
Comment from : @davidmilhouscarter8198

3:41 She might not be sitting on a garage sale couch
Comment from : @davidmilhouscarter8198

This show makes me realize that the people that look poor are usually not poor but the people that look rich and actually have negative equity in their life
Comment from : @dt7099

80kINDEBT⁉️⁉️⁉️ and heearns 50kAND Dave THINKS she's going to buyUSED Furniture ⁉️⁉️"IF??" he's DUMB enough to leave his Momma and Daddy and get Married to a girl with 80k starting debt⁉️ she's going toMilk that salary!these young SIMP boys can't WAIT to getused😆😆😆😆!
Comment from : @bigt1114

We bought a couch the week we got married It was used and was $400 10 years latter we still have that couch and still love it And surprisingly it’s still in good shape The main reason we haven’t gotten an new couch is because we don’t want to spent the money and can’t agree on anything 🤣
Comment from : @amandarichardson8917

Nah, she’s paying for 80k even after the wedding
Comment from : @sneak916

This dude needs to run
Comment from : @jameshorton3692

Some of our used solid wood furniture are a lot nicer than the brand new stuff we bought 🤷🏻‍♀️
Comment from : @alqoshgirl

Right now I have a couch, coffee table chair, and ottoman listed on Marketplace for $100, no joke! 🤣
Comment from : @jwlsngold5026

Find someone who is downsizing - I got a house full of furniture when my grandma moved from a house to an apartment Had other relatives sell a house and had to get rid of the furniture and my son furnished his house for about $500 That was a bedroom set, table and chairs, lamps and all the art work they didn't want Just ask around
Comment from : @RozeeBeez

Dave I'm about to sink my net worth by 80K do you have any tips? Yeah Luke, just hunker down and pay 8x your debt because marriage is the correct path for life I wonder why Dave who gives financial advice doesn't immediately point out this incredible liability
Comment from : @johnnyappleman7159

Secretly, the caller hoped Dave would talk him out of getting married
Comment from : @Crimea_River

A woman with 80k in debt will not tolerate used furniture This sucker is being taken for a ride Smart men know what she is riding and it ain't him
Comment from : @joeriveracomedy

Best wishes to the caller
Comment from : @bradwilliams4921

Unless she's making significant active moves to burn down this debt, unless you've had a very direct and honest conversation about both your views on debt, both your plans for the future, and how you both expect this to be handled, and are both on the same page, and backed up by her actions(working hard to eliminate that debt), I wouldn't touch it Call off the marriage until this is handled If it doesn't get handled, if you don't come to an agreement and wind up on the same page before hand, don't get married
Comment from : @om617yota7

One way you can save money for moving out When it comes to birthdays and Christmas; when relatives ask what would you like for it I tell them things to move out with I got most of the kitchen settled I have quite a bit of money not buying pots, pans, and plates
Comment from : @CinnaSpicey

Sell the fiancé
Comment from : @MrOfficer235

The biggest problem they will have is that the mind can rationalize anything brJordan Peterson
Comment from : @ElainesDomain

Do not get married in the west! Get your passport and find a wife abroad
Comment from : @annatar6453

Nothing That way you won't lose it in the divorce
Comment from : @flea4061

"Thinking should become your capital asset, no matter whatever ups and downs you come across in your life" _APJ Abdul Kalam
Comment from : @profitsdaily2

Dave did not answer his question whatsoever He lives with his parents, and is asking how much it costs to move out with his wife (essentially with a shared expense roommate)
Comment from : @marcmontalvo787

$45 million dollars (inflation)
Comment from : @erich84502a

The Ramsey show is sooooo out of touch with modern relationship dynamics
Comment from : @Jay-pf2cn

You will knock her up ,you have a couple of kids she will never go to work and you will live hand to mouth the rest of your lifealso if she divorce you well you will have nothingwelcome to America 🇺🇸
Comment from : @harriballz2965

Don’t forget about the thrift stores and Goodwill and various antique shops!!👍
Comment from : @janetstraw191

There is no way she will be sitting on a $50 couch 😮
Comment from : @ianmowbray3284

Big debt is a serious red flag in a prospective spouse I’m generalising of course, but I’ve seen it makes things sour OFTEN!
Comment from : @BloodofTheLamb777

Stick to your budget Stay out of debt Save what you can
Comment from : @9liveslisa

Is she worth 80K to you?
Comment from : @davecopp9356

comments are gunna be great!
Comment from : @JP-uy9kq

Not even one comment congratulating the couple 😂
Comment from : @rainacherienne1010

Wrong question and concerned buddy You should be worried abt the 80k that you are about to obtain If you are worried and need help on how to save up for 2k furniture maybe you should rethink about the 80k Good luck!
Comment from : @jasminebaby3375

Ramsey's constant push towards marriage "no matter what" is insulting and infuriating Men have checked out of marriage The only one's dumb enough to go through with it anymore get what they deserve
Comment from : @rnt45t1

Have a Hillbilly wedding shotguns and moonshine Total expenses $50
Comment from : @anthonykence9954

10 million usd would be a basic start to start a family
Comment from : @rocren6246

I did it once and I learned not to do it againbrShe cheated I filed, I kept my house, just paid it off
Comment from : @Nolaman70

She is getting really good at conveying the Ramsey message
Comment from : @donaldcornwell1151

LOL I have furniture from my grandfather
Comment from : @lucanidae100

Time to break off skip it ! Leave town! run away ! Save yourself please
Comment from : @lucanidae100

You need to pay for the wedding, cars, house, You need at least 50K You can get good dishes at goodwill
Comment from : @lucanidae100

80 grand? 😮 Run boy- RUN!! 🏃🏽‍♂️
Comment from : @Chele-nm4qx

More😎
Comment from : @roncraft2042

You haven't even moved out from your parents and your getting straight into marriage!!? Dear Lord help this boy
Comment from : @Ja50nkAt

These comments (not saying whether your right and wrong) are the reason why the Western world is on the decline and a very steep decline…………
Comment from : @johnjayandabackpack644

That's exactly what we did when we first moved out for college Dumpster stuff from rich areas It was awesomethis was the '70's, and we all lived like that Thank you for this video, I forgot how wonderful those days were Young with very little money and most our time in the books??????
Comment from : @FTG2Eli

She needs to pay her 80k first
Comment from : @jo4285

Don't get marry!
Comment from : @jo4285

dont do itbrjust date u live separate she lives separatebrenjoy life
Comment from : @dagobaker

Dave’s only irresponsible behavior he openly cheers on: get married with nothing & have all the babies Even when callers clearly shouldn’t Lol
Comment from : @screwdriver_bandit

There is zero reason to have the state sanction a relationship
Comment from : @mister_ray

Makes 50k lives with mom and dad has almost Zero Money…
Comment from : @neilsmith9066

What at difference in class, wisdom and knowledge with Rachel and Mr Ramsey compared to the black lady and the wuha-wuha that only criticize and belittle the caller's
Comment from : @incognito1427

Dude, do not marry this woman until her $80k debt is paid in full or at least close to it It’s no different than the fact you wouldn’t buy a $500k home while only making $50k a year 🤷🏾‍♂️
Comment from : @rdb0819

go cheap on the honeymoon 90k underwater? you are not ready to get married
Comment from : @douglasbrinkman5937

Dave hates hearing other people talk
Comment from : @todd2456

What world does Dave lives in that he thinks utilities are fixed?
Comment from : @jimmymcgill6778

How much is she making?brShe also should be paying to furnish the place
Comment from : @jimmymcgill6778

Here comes all the woman and marriage hating comments
Comment from : @jimmymcgill6778

BEST ADVICE:brDO NOT GET MARRIED!!
Comment from : @summerforever6736

80K on her end? Run to the Hills!
Comment from : @JustinCase780

DAVE WITH HIS USED FURNITURE BULLCRAP
Comment from : @summerforever6736

RIP
Comment from : @LuisJavier

The question should be: How should I convince myself to NOT get married?
Comment from : @wewhoareabouttodiesaluteyo9303

Their right, not gonna spend 8k on the Couch I want just starting out , will spend 800 for it, estate sales have these things
Comment from : @joshbachmann5065

He should save double of what he wants to keep after she files for divorce
Comment from : @juniorgod321

Both parties should be bringing money into the marriage And a prenup
Comment from : @christinebutler7630

Get prices on local divorce lawyers I know $10-15k is the start for retainers
Comment from : @djpuplex

Appliances and furniture came from the corner trash pile Entire house setup for nothing, but it was a place to start
Comment from : @RaymondButler

Gotta see how much you get in wedding gifts!
Comment from : @rachelharrison7961

So, for the 999th time, wahmen going eyeball-deep into debt and marrying out of it
Comment from : @fsmoura

Lol, my man is signing his life away by marrying a woman with $80k debt
Comment from : @ilai7893

Well how much are you willing to lose?
Comment from : @fsmoura

None your wifes gonna take it all anyways😂
Comment from : @SubToRandomVideos101

I do love your ethos Dave I got married in 1979…I love books and the first piece of furniture I bought was a second hand oak book case It has accompanied me in several house movesearly next year I’m having book shelves fitted in my living room The oak book case is being refurbished and will sit on the landing It drips with beautiful memories…of my children reaching for their favourite story books…my own favourite books and up on the top shelf travel books, all the countries I’ve visited A life time of special occasions held in a simple piece of furniture
Comment from : @tennysoneffie6943

Marriage has become SOOO much more complicated, as has meeting someone to marry It seems that money just keeps getting more complicated right in step with it EVERY woman has been taught that she is an absolute princess that DESERVES the absolute best in a man regardless of what she's willing to contribute - and as a result, birth rates are plummeting!
Comment from : @chwparker