“We’re married. Why do I have to ask him for money?”

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Title	:	“We’re married. Why do I have to ask him for money?”
Lasting	:	1.04.30
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Literally a team generated budget would save them 😩
Comment from : @SOLTANA17

We really gonna ignore that she is paying $2k on daycare to make $3k? That’s wild Stop spending like and idiot and raise your own kids and you are golden
Comment from : @seminolekilla

We really gonna ignore that HE is paying $2k on daycare so she can make $3k? That’s wild She needs to stop spending like and idiot and raise your own kids and you are golden
Comment from : @seminolekilla

when couples say joint finances, does that mean that every single dollar has to be allocated to family expenses?brbrlike with my wife, we share our family money for expenses, savings and investments, but we keep our own separate money for personal ventures like i’m not asking to spend $100 on top golf and she doesn’t have to ask to spend $100 on dinners/drinks with her friends
Comment from : @marcuswalker7897

dude talks about her and treats her like a friend/ roommate She is your wife and mother to your children SMH
Comment from : @justinskinner7483

150000 in groceries This has to be several months Hold crap!
Comment from : @333cpink

He treats her like a child because she acts like a child Spending all her money and having to be bailed out It’s not mature, she should be able to save enough for herself, especially with him helping out so much already
Comment from : @celticwind4122

These types of conversations are so encouraging I love Caleb Hammer but I feel like he would be more effective to gen z and millennials if he took a page or two out of Ramit’s book, approach and communication style
Comment from : @andreastatler

40:30 Our Ford crested 200k miles after 11 years and has only had one significant issue (water pump failure) which was a $3k fix Say what you want, you just need to know which models to buy and what drivetrain options are more dependablebrbrThank you CAFE regulations
Comment from : @wan3416

These men are NOT men They are young boys who throw a fit when they are expected to provide for their families If a woman is laboring children, bringing her warmth, care and love into your house and still contributing financially, what are you really bringing to the table if you cannot even vow to protect and take a lead in providing to the home?brbrThe men I used to know wanted to provide for themselves and understood that as a man, that is a part of their responsibility
Comment from : @Yahookudi

Wow! Making less, spending more, spending on things that nobody needs He’s stuck
Comment from : @utorrent01

How does she not see she's the problem?
Comment from : @TheNapoleonComplex1

A couple only needs 2 accounts:br-1 joint checking/savings account br-1 investment accountbr-At payday put away set 20-40 to investment account or better yet automize transferbr-Keep certain amount for fixed monthly bills and groceries, fun money for both(200-400 each), and some buffer(500) for incidentals(put in saving if not used at the end of month br-Fight when the money run out or Don’t fight, shrug 🤷 bring out rice and beans until next month rolls inbrEventually the couple will learn to adjust spending
Comment from : @diydad5067

Amazon!!!! It'll get much worse, trust me Spending is her addiction
Comment from : @idellbrown1825

This e-inside was amazing Literally everything they’re going through I’ve had happened with me Great advice and will be watching the prenup For more info
Comment from : @rubenlopez6081

She has impulse control issues
Comment from : @johancuellar6358

Three minutes in and I’m already on his side 😂😂😂 She really is taking no responsibility How do they have two young children and always have time to shower together? I wonder why she always asks him for money when she’s naked? 😂 Gee, could that be an attempt at manipulation? 🤦‍♂️ Why does she think she’s entitled to not be accountable? She is pretty immature She needs a budget, she has no structure and is going solely on what she feels she needs
Comment from : @sparklemotion86

It sounds like she's not good with money so he should keep it separate
Comment from : @DeniseCox-d9q

Wow
Comment from : @MrDorby

Thanks Ramit you did more than financial planning you brought ppl together ❤️ brN the viewers have the understanding
Comment from : @OnewithMultiverse

She brings home about 5k a month and he brings home about 7k a month How is she broke? Even with her spending $1500 in groceries a month she still has so much money left over What is she really spending her money on? Also $1100 a month for the condo they're about to sell comes out of her pocket She still has plenty of money left over So i don't get it
Comment from : @tinaf600

If he pays all the bills why do they need joint accounts? Is he against her working or?
Comment from : @aldaj6051

In Islam the man is 100 responsible for the financials
Comment from : @ummhuraira2495

She’s right that they should have a joint account, one account between the two of them He’s right that they should be accountable for the things spend money on He should show some faith and put their money together, and she should show more discipline with her spending
Comment from : @barbieojeda454

I feel like there’s no clear plan on how to spend I think the wife should make more effort to not over spend, though I understand that moms always buy all the toys in the world for their kids…
Comment from : @legrindem-her

If you do a family budget, you can budget fun money for both members of the couple
Comment from : @amypruss8391

Having her pay all of the kids' medical is kind of unfair, because medical is so unpredictable
Comment from : @amypruss8391

I haven't watched the whole thing yet, but if you had a monthly budget meeting, you could eliminate a lot of these conversations
Comment from : @amypruss8391

Dan wants to feel like a team, yet they are playing in different fields
Comment from : @robinh7267

This is because their is no clear communication They need to write all bills down and other items that are necessities Both incomes and what each are paying for and what each may need to keep the house running and both happy
Comment from : @nicolebalderas122

If I was him, I also wouldn't be sharing an account with her
Comment from : @manons6984

Get a divorce
Comment from : @TaoLIOTTa

No way she should give up that condo money to the household That's hers The marriage could already be on shaky grounds Keep it in case you end up being a single parent
Comment from : @123ls3

We all know SHE is the problem!
Comment from : @pinnacle1717

Don't blame my guy, she's like a child and impulsive She'll bankrupt him
Comment from : @nickybutt9733

Why do women feel the need to spend every damn penny on everything I'm for keeping thinks separate
Comment from : @ssbailey2369

The best way too deal with money is to lay it out in cost you can’t fight over money
Comment from : @sherrieshay6173

He’s says he’s only putting 250/month in savings If true, there’s isn’t much more money to spend period If that’s all your saving you need to cut costs not spend more If not you’ll be working forever and don’t count on you being physically able to do so
Comment from : @Fontainebleauify

How much did you save - "I don't know, 100 bucks" sounds like she doesn't care, doesn't know, it was an accident that it happened
Comment from : @annastoyanova1722

I couldnt imagine asking my husband for money like a child Im a stay at home mom and my husband always says its Our money I also am very good with money and I dont have a spending problem I make a budget and stick to it We both will discuss larger purchases as well and we have the same finiancial goals
Comment from : @christinajose285

Easy solution: you both have to set spending budgets Give her a spending budget And yes she needs to learn some self control So do you bra…if you don’t trust her to be a partner she’ll never feel safe enough to be your partner and take accountability! brIf the tables were turned this guy wouldn’t be able to handle how he’s treating her
Comment from : @audreysmithson175

The financial responsibility should fall on the man!! This is a feminine wounded man She made your babies dude!!! Her job never ends!!! What are you complaining about??? She’s not your slave to control! You need to trust your woman If you don’t want her to be happy and take care of her you should stay single bra This is toxic masculinity: a wounded feminine man needing to be in competition with his woman, expecting her to take on your responsibilitiesbrIf you want to stay home full time and take care of the kids…good luck
Comment from : @audreysmithson175

First minute, she is the problem Her feelings She needs to learn to dominate and control spending
Comment from : @nymincho

One more thing If you make less than $500K in capitol gains you won’t have to pay taxes on it
Comment from : @no-bozos

My ex-wife was a stay-at-home wife/mother She had the same complaint as this womanbrbrOne day I sat down and made a list of my income and all the bills I had to pay It didn’t include the money she would use to pay for groceries and the such I did this to give her an indication of what our life costs and the amount of money that would be left over each monthbrbrI handed the list to her and her response was, “See, you get to spend the money on whatever you want”brbrHow does anyone deal with someone who refuses to live in reality? In the end, her childish feelings about living logistics led to our divorce
Comment from : @no-bozos

This is why I am single, and never want to be married except going overseas And finances are not an issue in my life
Comment from : @22SPORTSLIVE_10

I just give my wife a lump sum of money begging if every year she’s stay at home and this works great
Comment from : @wees4231

Come on your being to nice
Comment from : @jesuscastro8690

How many years ago was this? He feels like $1,500 is a lot for groceries, but admitted that he doesn't know what groceries cost It is the #2 expense in our budget and we don't eat lime royalty
Comment from : @watching95

She should make more money… get a side gif or something
Comment from : @tizzin8r

Children do what feels good, while adults devise a written plan and follow it Both will need to sit down and create a written budget rogether (like Everydollar), this way, both of them have access to it on their phones At any point in time, either person can access it and communicate during the month Its awkward at first, but within 2 to 3 months they will we on their way Trust has been broken in the past and if they can see the numbers, perhaps they can heal with communication and earned trust Ramit did a great job bringing them together and form a financial philosophy together Bravo!
Comment from : @USMCAllTheWay

I’m a single female going on 4yrs now but this was very much good information for me and my future husband 😊❤ Thank you! 🙏🏾
Comment from : @ToxicPixels

Daniel is not at fault here If his woman truly cared about his mental state as much as she would like him to care about hers she would make a point t to save and start to practice better financial habits $100 in a savings account is nothing
Comment from : @jahkarijack8784

They will not make it if a compromise or changes are not madesoon She appears child like and he appears like he is her dad
Comment from : @gingersnaps997

My money, your money (separate accounts) our/house money for the expenses No exceptions
Comment from : @williamhadley1580

Buy what you need not things you want
Comment from : @tazmax72

She needs to get rid of the credit cardsor only use them in a emergency
Comment from : @tazmax72

I find it strange why do you have to combine accounts just because you’re married! obviously she wants more access to money and that’s the only reason she’s pushing for this
Comment from : @dark_art_nursery

I don’t think she’ll help his money insecurity She admits she has debt and she is incapable of spending responsibly
Comment from : @iviewutoob

I am not going to be accountable for my own spending behavior (So act like a child) but I am mad when he, who spends all of his time making most of the money won't let me be irresponsible
Comment from : @rcw0053

he should teach her about money but back in the days, men controlled women with money
Comment from : @lilpandanesegirl

He married an adult child who wants an allowance after repeatedly breaking into the piggy bank
Comment from : @1111KO

"I don't have enough money in my account for it- but b*we*/b have enough money" - she's the stereotype of, "What's mine is mine, and what's his is mine" brbrI feel like a lot of "financial abuse" accusations come from women who are immature and reckless with money, who are with men who are more serious about it brbrIf you want to spend like a child- you'll get treated like one he's trying to make sure his family and children have a healthy, stable future She just cares about chocolate and what SHE wants
Comment from : @ItsJustKylie-

She’s in a lot of therapy
Comment from : @ChristopherHawkins-j5m

Her money is her money And his money is their money
Comment from : @ChristopherHawkins-j5m

How, just how
Comment from : @shaftshot61

It sounds like he's a great provider!!! But I get it, and they can work it out
Comment from : @julieowen5874

It’s only our experiences ,which is the past, that prepares us to deal with venomous snakes in the present
Comment from : @brentonnewsome4411

And according to you “notice that they’re living in the past” The past is the foundation on which the future will sit, whether it’s the first or the 99th floor The 99th floor will only be as strong as the foundation on which it sits
Comment from : @brentonnewsome4411

I think they should keep their financial situation separate
Comment from : @brentonnewsome4411

You must justify to your partner Seems like she is spending a lot and don't give a shit about his worries Divorce her she is only there for money
Comment from : @davidboldt3206

Relationships require vulnerability and vulnerability is scary Vulnerability requires trust and trust requires time and experience Time and experience has to include events that build trust It's a long, painful process One that I have never been able to fulfill in my 47 years
Comment from : @BeccalaiShushushu