| Title | : | Love u0026 Money: 5 Awkward Questions Answered (feat. Ramit Sethi) (Matthew Hussey, Get The Guy) |
| Lasting | : | 10.47 |
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| Views | : | 164 rb |
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It used to be an option to agree the date went bad brThis irks dudes for some reason brBut it was polite and proper brBoth waysbrA woman can pay because it went bad as well Comment from : @avispenner8260 |
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Thanks 🙏 Comment from : @SIMSIMSAMANTHA |
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Money is earned, not saved Comment from : @书亚约-j8v |
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Absolutely willingness and proactice approach to deal withbsomething that wasn't before for a single person, now in an relationship may be an issue, is a key! Comment from : @CRebel2024 |
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Crucial conversations so relevant now, this was ahead of its time Comment from : @Betterboundariesnowteensupport |
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I LOVE that you've got Ramit Sethi on!!!!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ Comment from : @katapultleadgen |
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I am so glad I watched this video Thank you! Comment from : @vndeadd |
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Such a huge conversation, thank you for your insight Comment from : @shannonsemanas9761 |
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Love the conversation and Q&A! We need another video (or even series) about this same topic from the both of you! Comment from : @tinalin5994 |
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I’m agonising over ending a relationship with a wonderful man - who has very poor money habits He has not saved for a rainy day, he just expects that he will inherit half his parents house when they pass away, he earns good money but he does not have enough to retire in 15 years time, he buys the latest gadgets and has a house full of ‘stuff’, and he is not able to be generous in the same way that I am generous I have been thinking a lot about myself, my values and my own patterns A friend said it shouldn’t matter if he has no money, to just not pay for him … but I have realised that when I have money (through good saving / budgeting and hard work) that I AM generous and I do pay more for things when with friends who have less money than me (that friend included) And I am starting to believe that I can not afford this man and that, if I stay, I will slowly erode what savings I have to cover him Comment from : @melindagibson6358 |
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when she makes more than the guybrthe guy is defeated already brthe imbalance is massive brcauses insecurity bryou can't do anything about itbreither make equal pay or more otherwise you are worthless Comment from : @ahmadtariq4573 |
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Bring this guy back on the show again! He is a great and helpful guest!!!!!! Comment from : @LifeSnacksWithHoney |
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Be confident and competent when you speak about financial planning etc Comment from : @dpharrison7 |
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Excellent discussion! Comment from : @Michael-nr8ur |
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Matthew say it again!!! People need to re evaluate the vision for their life when getting into a relationship yessss!!! Comment from : @Mindsetolympics |
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A masculine energy man does not expect the woman to even offer to pay on the first few dates It's just insultingbrbrAlso, pretty much EVERYONE has a ton of student loan debt That's why millennials are unable to buy houses and live the traditional "American dream" Comment from : @kv2723 |
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What about when you are a woman dating a man who doesn’t have a job and doesn’t care for one despite asking him over and over to get a job so she doesn’t have to support him We are only 21 and have been living together 3 years I love him but I cannot afford to support him Comment from : @michaelarivera469 |
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Understanding is key for the first question Comment from : @RealTalkWithBeeson |
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Mathew you have not answer the question, what if a guy don’t pay the FIRST date, not even offer and just silence when you split the bill Thank you Comment from : @PaulaRodriguez-ih6it |
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That should have been an hour video! Loved it and want more;) Comment from : @mariageppi1111 |
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That arm hair though wow 😬🤭 Comment from : @RenaWith |
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Super helpful and so spot on!!! Comment from : @punkieprincess22 |
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These! Thank you couches ❤ I'm not totally Financially educate More learning Comment from : @Viotel-g1m |
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I have never had means or money behind me but I will give the people I love my last penny The men in my life (2) have been gamblers I have struggled my entire life to keep my head above water But I have two children I love, who are 18 /21 I would love to be on my own! brFor a while anyway Comment from : @danceworkz1908 |
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Brother Matthew is good explaining Comment from : @somasoma5370 |
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I wouldn't tell my partner about my student loans Comment from : @delphinenyirahabimanamd8510 |
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wwwdigistore24com/redir/341524/RupeshChy/ Comment from : @rupesh3812 |
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I gain a knowledge Comment from : @sagar658 |
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Thumbs up Comment from : @soyandoat4106 |
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You both are fireeee! Loved the video! Comment from : @Alexandridoy |
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Fantastic episode! Comment from : @AnaS-jn3wu |
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It's very common among men in India who are the sole breadwinners to bully their wives about being the only one providing for the family It's so incredibly demeaning to a housewife Comment from : @shreyaparab6849 |
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I would say it’s a surprise and be spontaneous but before hand make sure the time is taken off That way no qualms Comment from : @pleasuredesire |
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Rewatching this and when it showed the YOU WEREN'T TAUGHT RIGHT, HE WASN'T TAUGHT RIGHT I just 😂😂😂 Comment from : @wind10miko |
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I hate how short this was! More, please! Comment from : @NotSoBully |
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Part 2 please - so interesting! Comment from : @wind10miko |
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I need to offer to contribute to the bill on the first date, but he should decline the offer 😀 Comment from : @marrietvisser6195 |
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the most relevant piece of advise for me was the mixed account management: part shared, part individual Smart idea!!! Comment from : @jessicamorales2555 |
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Gosh your friend has beautiful hairy arms lol sorry just had to add that ;D but they ARE hahahah ;D))))) Comment from : @veganvocalist4782 |
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great insights! Comment from : @maferogers8591 |
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Women making more money than men is a "new thing?" There's definitely not income equality, but I know a lot of women who make more money than their male partners That's been a norm in my social circle and with many women I know for quite awhile now I'm one of those women, so I can attest to it Comment from : @amandaparrott6019 |
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I need part 2 Comment from : @QueenZsWorld |
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So fun to watch my 2 guys Comment from : @duuriib2464 |
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Am I the only one that can't get over how hairy he is? Comment from : @Lindasou07 |
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Oh using gifts to threaten people is so shitty Comment from : @Littledreamer0324 |
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Show that you’re a partner worth investing in Comment from : @Littledreamer0324 |
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Be a problem solver not a worrier Comment from : @Littledreamer0324 |
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Be solutions oriented Comment from : @Littledreamer0324 |
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Any and all financial baggageZ Comment from : @Littledreamer0324 |
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You honestly tell them Comment from : @Littledreamer0324 |
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Woohoo!! Comment from : @Littledreamer0324 |
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That’s my advice!! Comment from : @Littledreamer0324 |
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More Comment from : @MsTheintrovert |
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You HAVE to have him on AGAIN! Comment from : @adrianratlief1312 |
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I had a boyfriend, when we started dating he wanted to pay for everything no matter how many times I offered and got offended if I did pay for anything even 6 months into the relationship So I eventually gave up and let him take care of me and pay for everything, sounds nice but towards the end of the relationship he seemed to resent me and it felt as though him paying for stuff was a burden Well, I tried that was obviously his problem Comment from : @jessicarenae1111 |
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I dont have a problem paying for the luxury vacation or gifts but somehow when the guy let me pay for the dinner on first dates, i get some off feelings i cant change how I feelits ok after few months but at first is a red flag for me Comment from : @irresistiblep0 |
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Well such awesome videos are great to watch Students in school may be taught all this as a part of emotional intelligence, are they? Comment from : @humanbeing8531 |
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taking a trip to thailand haha yes welcome Comment from : @aeyaries |
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Matthew, not again with this pay on a first date thing A MAN PAYS ON THE FIRST DATE Comment from : @Chi9ja |
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Save money as much asap Comment from : @GoldenAngel- |
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They both are Great here , would love to see those two again on a Q&A panel video maybe on men perpective? Comment from : @GoldenAngel- |
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What if the girl is a little too quiet and the guy has lots of talkative friends Could the girl just run away because she feels odd ? Comment from : @ciaraboyle30 |
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“For richer, for poorer” Ultimately, that is what we will be signing up to and that is what I will be putting my attention to, until I know any better Of course, the life I will lead won’t necessarily be the one that I sort, but will be fine, because although I enjoy the life that I have, I am not in defense of it New relationship means new money (more or less), means new experience and new opportunity The bank account idea is sound I already have that idea and it works Comment from : @Lichfeldian--Suttonian |
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He's gay Comment from : @123aoseulado2 |
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let's not be shy about it already relationship is in a big portion about money money plays a role for a relationship to be a make or break Comment from : @fangcooks5643 |
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More collars on this, please ! :) Comment from : @winnielygamer |
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American accent versus British accent? Comment from : @sebastianbarton2790 |
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That’s a great video! You should make a second one on this subject! 😊 Comment from : @simonedossantos5803 |
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come on, Guys! are you really gonna take an offer from a girl to go to Thailand at her expense? i don't think any masculine man will feel comfortable with that let's face it! we have a problem in the society today! men are not masculine enough if they can take such offers and women are not feminine enough if they can make them Please, make more videos on this topic I am very interested in your points of view Comment from : @nadezhdakorobko3038 |
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This is so crazy! You both are so awesome Comment from : @denievemanning7917 |
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Reaaly cool topic! Love how straightforward your answers are! As a woman who earns more than my partner, that last question resonated with me My parents had the same financial scenario - my mom earned twice as much as my dad, also because she had higher education than him, which is also what happens with me and my partnerbrI think you hit the right answer with this, but I would go further It is not just about the vacation or a special expensive event that can cause problems when one earns more than the other It usually has to do with everyday bills and the couple's budget and what each one contributes to the financial household brIt can happen that if the guy earns less than the girl, he can feel somewhat inferior for not being able to contribute at the same level as his partner brIn my case this became a non-issue, because although I put more money in our family budget I don't treat or see him as inferior to me because of that There is more than each one of us can put into our partnership than money, and that is what is important There are months when he puts more money in our budget and others when I put more money in our budget It is not a race or a competition I guess the problems begin when you start putting tabs on what each one puts in brAnd yes, me and my partner always have had one joint account and an individual account It was something that we just did, because it made sense to us I think that this true when the partnership is real These issues are solved all by themselves Comment from : @maosdevera |
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Definitely loved this and would LOVE to see more! 💗As a relationship psychotherapist and life coach, I see these two things so intertwined in the success of relationship They can be amazing ways to love one anotheror to tear two apart Thanks for doing this! Comment from : @amyvanslambrook |
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I have listened to you and payed in my last relationship and it wasn’t a good experience brHe was making a lot more money and he was talking me to fancy places and hotels that were more expensive than my rent for a month that made me broke cuz I had to live up with his lifestyle and I payed so many times he got used to it brI am never gonna do that ever again brIf a man wants to be with me he should be man enough to pay for me too Comment from : @immortal131 |
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Having a joint AND separate bank accounts is brilliant! Thank you for this video Comment from : @TheElbell3 |
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I can't explain this but for some reason his voice sounds so extremely overdramatically American? Comment from : @fluffinn |
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student loans Comment from : @Vanessa-ie8hh |
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I feel its really sooo much important to take the baggage of the financial responsibility off a man's shoulders looking from a feminist's perspective girl isnt only abt her face amd man isnt only about his wallet Comment from : @manishamehta2110 |
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super useful 😁 Comment from : @posaule |
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This was AWESOME!!! Comment from : @kay2862 |
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True Love doesn’t see debt when giving or sharing money Comment from : @heidisummer5 |
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🖒🖒🖒 Comment from : @sarahassan6162 |
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I think the part about making more money than my partner and wanting go on trips That is new territory I am in and offering it as "my treat" is a great way to put it Thank you Comment from : @steviculverwell8684 |
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How can I figured it out if he's married (we didn't met yet) Comment from : @سمية-ر9ص |
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I fully agree, whoever pays is not point, it’s that you had the blessing of going! brAny man or woman that would hold that over your head needs to be spoken to ! Or dumped,it’s about living together!!! Thank goodness! Comment from : @nancymcloughlin2931 |
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Please can you find some time to visit in Israel and talk with the Israeli woman's, I would like to ask you some questions and listen to your advice in real life 😁 Comment from : @victoriyak1234 |
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