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How Money Is Ending Friendships

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Im with tamera to and extent cause people don't know how to pay u back so i dont lend money less im giving iy to bless you i dont give to get but i wll only do it once if u only asking for mkney we arent friends blocked
Comment from : @zaqueenzhane7744

It is not about generosity Tamara! You are missing the point It is about the principle Plus, I doubt that you are the type of person who is going to be giving a large sum of money often The amount is not the issue, it is disrespect of you and the principle that really matters
Comment from : @amandaquest105

I have double the reason to end my friendship because I lead my friend $200 bucks in cash The worst is that she make more money than I do
Comment from : @MaceyBrowning

Oh my I’m going through this right now It’s definitely not a good feeling
Comment from : @kdlane4046

I’m so glad that I a mother now: apart from people on the street, nobody asks me for money anymore because everybody expects me to be broke as a single mother 😅 I learned my lesson the hard way before though and just recently had a mom friend end our “friendship” by ghosting me because I am able to take my child to Disney 🤦🏽‍♀️
Comment from : @Golf2foto

I simply don't lend money anymore regardless of the amount Spare myself of future headache I simply say I don't have money It's hard at first but you'll get used it it Saying no becomes easy
Comment from : @tulips91

My motto is this: If it’s more than $5 that you’re asking for, the answer is no I’ll keep you in my prayers but that’s the best I can do Better donate some plasma or collect some recycled cans
Comment from : @pitbull4christ

It’s the principle of the issue
Comment from : @juliehayden123

I hate how they categorize people they don’t know
Comment from : @Dana_inc

Was your friend named MsTurner or TO?
Comment from : @armillender4651

I GIFT people money if I have it! I don’t do loans because 999 of the time you WILL NOT get the money back So, what’s the point of breaking my own heart? I simply give when I can 🤷‍♀️ & I’m not afraid to say nobrbrFunny 😆 last week my cousin reached out to me by text for the 2nd time in our lives She previously asked for rent money, and this time she talked about how rough her last month was & Other nonsense in order to make it seem as though she wasn’t only texting me for money I knew it was about money so I didn’t respond after I would have said No if she would asked for money 💰 because she doesn’t take care of her only child & is a pothead!
Comment from : @dmoneydance

I’m w/ Adrienne here Like people be sacrificing and they come back trynna take advantage of you AGAIN That is lower than low
Comment from : @beautyintheskies

I don’t owe anybody money and I would never ask anybody for money
Comment from : @alezandradavila2581

I love Jeannie’s hair❤
Comment from : @cammy60467

I just happened to learn this today in 2022, its crazy!
Comment from : @1UpTop74

My mom taught me never lend anyone money
Comment from : @victoriajohn7079

I don’t “lend,” I give 🌱
Comment from : @christycapers4715

Somebody need to give my girl Adrienne her money back 😂😂😂😂
Comment from : @farrahjones9545

And if the person owes u money like they can't put 5 dollars away a week to pay you back right?
Comment from : @jenniferwilliams5478

Dont lend what u cant afford to give
Comment from : @chelseachich5571

Jeannie and Adrienne have the money though stop holding grudges for money you make right back Now if its $30 or $50 don't sweat in but if its in the hundreds address it but don't be telling their business on the Real acting like you don't like to help someone ya'll are selfish
Comment from : @shamaoliver7989

It's even worse if they show off what they bought on social media knowing damn well they owe you money
Comment from : @sheyllarodriguez5830

My dad made up stuff to me and my partner that his car was stolen, he lost his job and he was getting blamed for something being stolen at his job so he had court and lawyers and so on So my partner sent money to him Found out he got fired because he actually stole and lied about his car to me Im so embarrassed that my dad lied to me and my partner gave him money for it to be a lie
Comment from : @chrystaln1709

What would you do? if you ask people for money in don't pay you back, you fisinh they don't care about you and your family in don't download social media please people you don't trust in people you can trust
Comment from : @kpop4life931

S🤬t my ex stole from me and had a family behind my back, can’t get no worse after that I put him out! And he was using my credit cards Ruined my credit too! He tried to use me and he made more money than me I had to stop helping people because when I fell on hard times… God and me pulled myself out of that
Comment from : @lifeisbeautiful9455

100$ only? Wow people really prefer money to humans in America
Comment from : @orubek355

Yes I had a "friend " that didn't give me the money for watching her kids We're no longer friends!!
Comment from : @chelseafranks3845

I dont have a problem with lending ppl money , I have a problem with ppl not keeping their WORD !
Comment from : @jerrynavarro2404

I don’t feel bad for people like that Should’ve never gave your money away Don’t give out money that you’ll miss later on That’s what my momma always taught me😂
Comment from : @RyanJCreations

That’s why if someone asks me for money, I just say it’s a gift And if I don’t have it I just don’t have it to give to you
Comment from : @skylinmay4846

227 “you ain’t givin that much that’s why” 😂😂
Comment from : @brandycampbell-mills11

No borrowing between friends and family If I can’t give it to you to keep I don’t got it to give
Comment from : @eyannaanais

Loni's makeup looks BOMB here!
Comment from : @Cynorwin

It’s the principle
Comment from : @dredreson420

Loaned somebody $2k for a car down payment that they claimed they would pay back in 3 months 4 months later I'm a narracist a dik ass everything in book for asking for what's mine
Comment from : @DSNCB919

i have a friend that i should have ended the friendship long ago when i was down with no money she blocked me from calling her , i knew i was going to pick myself back up i did she taken me off block , when her birthday came i gave her a lump of cash because i knew if i lended it it was not going to be paid back, but im a person that have a hard time forgiving shady people and what she did with the money i gave her to me was a disappointment not starting a savings account in 7 months the money i gave her for her birthday is long gone, she found out i was coming into some cash i didn't tell her but now she keeps ringing my phone off the hook and i was wondering why i thought oh she found i was coming into some cash and wanted to know all about it , what would you do in a situation like that would you wait until she ask for a loan or would you put her on phone block and end the friendship i had told another friend that when i was doing bad i knew who my friends was and she was not one
Comment from : @MrStarofTruth

you ain't giving that much that's why?
Comment from : @simphiwehlatshwayo5007

its easy when they're talking about friends u can just unfriend them but when its family members
Comment from : @BATOOLESK

i love me some tam tam but here she goes with humble bragging ( i guess iam a generous human being) lol
Comment from : @BATOOLESK

2:24 3:38
Comment from : @8luvbug

There's a difference between giving and lending If you ask someone to lend you money; pay them back
Comment from : @j1918

It actually starts with when let's say you go out for drinks and they don't want to contribute or want to pay less That's why I hate combining bills with people I'm not close with I learnt to just be bold enough and ask for the money
Comment from : @evamararo5797

666
Comment from : @mrexecutive

Tamara 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿brYesbrI never give what I can't afford to givebrNumber onebrI don't give with the intention on getting it backbrIf I do that's great brDepending on their situation I don't even take it back even if they offer itbrbrAnd I never talk down on thembrIn some kind of way life will bring it back around to me in some form
Comment from : @queenmaple5911

It’s not about the amount ! It’s about the lie , distrust , disregard when they don’t pay
Comment from : @yangtzeling7468

My mom always says “if you give someone money don’t expect it back” because in this day and age you’ll never know what kind of person you’re dealing with To be honest I agree with all of them because everyone’s financial situation is different Just gotta be careful
Comment from : @sonicxis4ever

Why did Adrienne only ask the ladies? 😒 lol this could happen to a guy also
Comment from : @sonicxis4ever

1:48 loni’s laugh is so funny
Comment from : @ElijahGaviola

What about family members
Comment from : @jeanoediaw8945

Never, Ever, Ever, Ever, Ever, Ever, Ever loan anybody money Including family and friends
Comment from : @magicworld3242

Lmao loni I swear cracks me up and she’s not even my favorite 😂😂
Comment from : @marlove8451

To Tamera's point if you truly love the person you're doing a favor for, you don't expect for them to pay you back
Comment from : @thruthemotions

It's the principle not the monetary value Lots of ppl could drop a friendship because it's lying and stealing to say you'll repay and not do so
Comment from : @veronicachristopher9321

I miss this panel
Comment from : @vegetablehighland8982

No but she would never get a dime from me again
Comment from : @sunkistbabe

I give people money to help them out and I don’t think about getting it back of that person
Comment from : @michaelkirby9709

I dropped a friend over a bus pass!! $$$10000 I'm sorry I'm just a stranger you used to know
Comment from : @notyourgirl3398

That’s why I never lend money to my friends brI just lend money to my only brother and that’s because I felt like I don’t have another choice 😆
Comment from : @Boopmarisol

Feel you Tam But I gave my own older sister hundreds of my daughters money for her rent and she never called me to pay it back Left me in a financial struggle that I’m still dealing with, and she is not here to help me out! Not even an “you got this” words of wisdom
Comment from : @ginginbenton6463

It's all about communication when you lend someone something when they don't respond bac it shows dishonesty and untrustworthy on there, part to avoid all of the unnecessary drama don't lend it give it especially if you been friends with that person for a very long time
Comment from : @jeremiahwest8465

It's about communication when that person don't communicate with you when they old you it shows this honesty and trust on their part, to avoid all of the unnecessary drama don't lend give it especially if you been friends with someone for a very long time
Comment from : @jeremiahwest8465

If I take longer than I'm supposed to i add intrest for them And give them more
Comment from : @nonnie943

I recently came into some money by a blessing Now FAMILY MEMBERS will call and ask, "Can I borrow $500? I need it tomorrow" I have made a promise that I'm taking my money to start my business so I get a different set of people in my life I want people who know how to strugglehow to budget as best they canand will be uplifting for my soul 😏
Comment from : @digitalfinancecreator

That is why tam has more money than all the girls
Comment from : @tamnadvardis7039

Tamara always be the Saint 🙄
Comment from : @iraqikurd93

It's about the elephant in the room that no one but the one owed wants to discuss
Comment from : @emunahshalomselah5124

Don't sip on sugary drinks
Comment from : @markbrown5117

My Sgt once said "Only lend what you can afford to loose"
Comment from : @jenniferpenaranda9275

My fellow cancer ♋ sista I'm just like Tamera I only give once and if I do give I don't expect the money back!!!
Comment from : @swillie7141

I never lend money
Comment from : @carmencasanova3508

I’m in the same boat 🚣‍♀️ it feels like i will never get it back
Comment from : @nanasagali4418

They wasnt really your friend
Comment from : @ronaldwhitlock8761

The thing is though is that, if at any point lending that money could mean that you can't put food on the table or that your family will be without something YOU DON'T LEND IT IN THE FIRST PLACE!
Comment from : @lavuntecolquitt

Big mouth, talks too much
Comment from : @avafreeman336

"Never loan out more money than you're willing to lose"
Comment from : @loveleeeventplanningllc7539

My motto, don't lend money that you can't afford I'm like Tamara, once I give it, I don't expect it back I gave it to youmoving on Also instead of saying borrow, why not say can I have You know you're broke and won't be able to pay it back
Comment from : @nreynolds75243

This is the thing that happen to my mom and her sister when her sister need my mom help and know that she need they even pay what my mom gave to her is life never do the same mistake
Comment from : @brunasousa8741

I loan money on the odd occasion to friends and family When they don't pay, I make an example out of them through the court system for all to see and make no bones about what an asshole I'm capable of to my family if you don't pay On the flip slide they know I'm very generous and caring To me, its better to be respected than to be liked when it comes to these things
Comment from : @kurts3779