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How I Learned to Love Being Alone (and how you can too)

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watching you is like watching a boy slowly go insane at the reality of life Psychologically analysing yourself to paralysis slowly losing everyone around you because you're a bore to be with because you lecture everyone
Comment from : @AskDoctorMurphy

Respectfully, here are my issues, and that's subjective, please don't take it personally: I'm hetting sick of content creators saying how amazing it feels to edit content Not because I hate Insta or the Adobe suit, but because when you say you love doing what you do, what my messed-up mind mind feels "huh, self-serving narcissist" And I feel the same when you talk about cooking for yourself cayse you live yourself or going to the gym because you live the feeling It's all me-me-me and all I feel is revulsion Yes, I'm one of those people who don't believe in only being to help others after you've helped yourself My broken self tells me one should "deserve" the good stuff by being of help to the community, not by waking up and making a meal I guess I'm projecting my self-hatred onto everyone and feel everyone should hate themselves tho, that much I'm aware of
Comment from : @destroyerinazuma96

All you say is good However, many people face extreme longevity in solitude It has a negative effect on the brain I like being alone for all the reasons you say I also enjoy the company of some people very much Makes my soul happy Ultimately, we need other people
Comment from : @Artty-fl8ul

I was alone since 1st grade, but I enjoyed it as I had to learn it that way I am 12 and in grade 7 now, but loneliness is still my friend at school, and i enjoy it
Comment from : @AshikAman-t9i

Man, extroverts really try hard nowadays
Comment from : @N_J2301

I used to like drawing too as a kid even thou my drawing is very bad 😂😂😂😂
Comment from : @KakarotSaleban

Ok😅brDon't think im cray-cray,brBut , I'm a Empty Nester l finally got my two Adult children out of my housebr(Although they are still in my hair!)brI moved into a two bedroom house with a garage, front and back yard to myself!!oh wait i ha e a new dog to match, but for the first year, i Literally did mot leave the house!!! It was so Blissful!!
Comment from : @Brandy-e8c

what if the reason you feel lonely is your significant other being like the most popular human in town and has like 200 friends
Comment from : @maglenka

I’ve always loved being alone I enjoyed being alone more than being with friends or family But when I met my current boyfriend it changed I liked being with him more than being by myself Whenever I’m alone, i think about how cool it would be if he was with me now I don’t know if that’s normal lol I am trying to enjoy my own company again
Comment from : @xeniamaus

having a pet with you any kind of animal helps get a cat👍
Comment from : @jamesonhills266

I love myself, I'm my own best friend
Comment from : @guxtavo14

No way drawing and drums, my hobby too! And it didint show upfront!
Comment from : @morsaarhitect6222

Only you know when your alone, fuck the media, fuck what we watch, only you me and u know when were alone
Comment from : @KarlHessey-db6mf

Im alone in my tent
Comment from : @KarlHessey-db6mf

I hv literally 0 friend Thanks for this video
Comment from : @LetsFightWithAnxietyTogether

oh boo hoo You're tall, rich, and only went 1 yr without a gf I'm 28, my life is h3II, I hhave no friends, am broke, and have never had a gf Why should I listen to someone so privileged?
Comment from : @TFrills

Watching in 2024 😊I was feel badly lonely but this help lot tnx's ❤❤
Comment from : @MaherAdam-u1i

I js hate people
Comment from : @OrigotZu

i wanna hear it again
Comment from : @chandakarobikhan9334

Spending time with friends and hanging out with them is just waste of time Use the time available to improve our skills or pursue our passion
Comment from : @srinathsatya

If I had a prayer, it would be this: "God spare me from the desire for love, approval, and appreciation Amen" Byron Katie After reading her tweet I felt my anxiety plummet I never enjoyed socializing being an introvert Still, even working remotely, I let people get to me No more I don't care to get the approval from others I realized that I was actually putting myself down thinking the other knew better than me In turn, me questioning my intelligence and worth I escaped with the help of this quote
Comment from : @jungersrules

I think that happiness for me is to share happy moments with someone
Comment from : @Melusty

Iam my own now
Comment from : @Nikoliii

A guy made a very bad rumor about me in college just because I rejected himand now that rumour is across the whole college and nobody would talk to me because of that no matter how much I try explaining it to people I hate the way everyone stares at me in college Yeahh , thats the reason I don't have any friends in college Im alone all the time
Comment from : @kittym5597

Amazing Video Thank You You Really Helped Me
Comment from : @DonjulzAgy

This helped me tons Thank you
Comment from : @RonaldWeasley-z9w

I’m glad you’re happier now but brbrYeah man I don’t care about eating healthy, I hate working out(even though I’m a 150 pound 6 foot male who did construction for 7 years of my life), I don’t give a s**t about self growth because I did it for 16 years and it didn’t amount to anything, I stopped drawing after being an artist for 30 plus years because again it never amounted to anything and no longer gave me satisfaction
Comment from : @waterforgizmo3232

i have some people i don't need in my life, how should i remove them?
Comment from : @izumitodoroki-editz

A real loner never feels lonely!
Comment from : @skyisthelimitreadyornotfor2

Cole, I really needed this Trust me when I say this I made notes from the video and starting right now, from this moment itself, I'm going to learn to live alone Thank you for delivering high-value content
Comment from : @labdhiranka5764

fight club is one of those therapeutic movies i'd watch, always
Comment from : @ilyalovescats

This video God I was feeling the same, I had GF's I was alone for very short time but nothing worked I didn't get GF, I didn't get hight prestige in school, and now I'm alone my few CM of home, parents that hate me, and 0 knowlage how to live Watching youtubers how to fill taxes, how to cook how to live My god I'm so greatfull for those people, yet so scared of people after me
Comment from : @Caladir

What about a girl that doesn't have any brother or Sister or even father?brI have been struggling 7 years ago
Comment from : @DouaeElfechetaly

Still learning it in a hard way
Comment from : @janinemaniego2052

i learned to love being alone when I discovered edibles
Comment from : @user-fk8tr5ev8q

I work from home too but I have peace if someone comes over I can’t wait until they leave 😂brI listen to music have my fav tv channels! I DIY My house and no rush to finish as no one is nagging me GET IT DONE😂 I know some people go crazy alone but even as I kid I like being alone after two marriages I’m HAPPY 😂
Comment from : @Yazzie101

What if I do everything you said minus the jounernaling and still feel lonely? I mean I did do the journal thing for a while it didn't really help
Comment from : @ashensenshka3653

Great tips
Comment from : @keeperoftorah6899

I have never had more that 3 decent friends and I have only ever been out of school with 1 and I’m not friends with him any more, I have no friends my own age and my work means I never get out of my place of work and since Ive basically been alone my whole life I am starting to loose any wanting to be around other people I don’t know if its healthy or not but I really don’t feel like going out at all and just keep working alone I love it now
Comment from : @crabsy6452

Ohh I like you!
Comment from : @etherealE777

Exactly what I’ve observed! Learning to embrace solitude can be transformative for personal growth Research shows that people who enjoy their own company are 50 more likely to experience high levels of life satisfaction The challenge often comes from societal pressures and the discomfort of being alone, which can lead to loneliness and self-doubt I faced this as well, but after exploring different methods, a friend recommended Habit10x Their strategies for building self-awareness and embracing solitude really helped me find joy in being alone Found them through Google!
Comment from : @Afrozali-o7r

I am 27 and living alone since 9 and a half years now But I still feel empty if I don't leave house atleast once a day I don't have much friends but I always feel that I always want someone to hear me out I REALLY DON'T FEEL ANY MOTO OF MY LIFE ALONE But I really want to learn it cause seeking for validation and expectations are stopping my growth in many ways
Comment from : @payallongwani6966

“The one who follows the crowd will usually go no further than the crowd Those who walk alone are likely to find themselves in places no one has ever been before” br-Albert Einstein
Comment from : @videovideoyeah

Beware of me evil thefts you steal
Comment from : @IseeYou-l3c

Thank you, i needed this I come back to this video from time to time to remind me of how important it is to take care of yourself
Comment from : @Jarl_egbert

You don't how many times your videos helped me, approximately the most times I have spent with people was a worthless time for me, it's just like losing my energy without gaining back something useful for mebrThank you again brother
Comment from : @raedalsaee4559

You look a lot like someone i know
Comment from : @3niko

I guess I don’t really have a choice
Comment from : @Theoracle123

I am a Sigma male and a bookworm so I love being alone
Comment from : @RobertHowe-zv7gs

I just came across your channel, the subject peaked my interest, and I loved the content! Thank you for this video I needed this peptalk from you about being alone God bless and thanks again!🙏❤️
Comment from : @dawncordero7760

were cooked
Comment from : @grumpysourdough

Wow, this is basically a run down of my day I wake up, if I am really bored, I exercise, cook, eat, draw, watch a movie, crochet, shop, learn a new skill, study, and call family or friends if I feel like it I guess we all find great ways to occupy ourselves
Comment from : @Oooluuuu

I'm all alone, no friends, no family, I have no one to call, I'm alone - I sometimes think about what I'm doing in this life, believe me, you're not alone, you're just sad Be well and have a great day
Comment from : @WildMoosebear

But you need mobile😂
Comment from : @meme_tunnel

jesus christ bro I've been in a relationship 2 years out of the last 20
Comment from : @Hawtload

Don't need a romantic partner to complete a person
Comment from : @grandmastermario3695

I’m here cuz I don’t have friends I also forgot how to get a girlfriend despite having had 3 in my life I’ve tried to connect with people and it just doesn’t work I need to learn to be happy by myself for the rest of my life
Comment from : @Avsfan23

4:51 real
Comment from : @Sebastian_Mejia

Thank you for making something very important ❤☺️
Comment from : @daraksha8987

Church
Comment from : @佩珠黎

Hey brother I've been struggling alone lately I was surrounded by lot of fake people so I decided to be alone and focus on myself now I have no one by my sidethis video really boost me up thank you so much for this 💯❤
Comment from : @chuangekarza660

I self love way to often 😅
Comment from : @SuperZippyzippy

Thank you for sharing For me, I don’t like having a hobby, but I study instead I need the structure and the connection with the teacher
Comment from : @innerwestie1446

Sitting here drunk and depressed appreciate you buddy
Comment from : @davidhagler1730

Ja rozumiem na prawdę Zdrowa samotnosc super Jednak czy nie jest trochę tak , że po prostu lubimy dopisywać górnolotne teorie szukać usprawiedliwienia dla oczywistych prostych pobudek i potrzeb ? Czy to nie wygodne ? Żyjesz sam kochasz siebie jednak chyba więcej pracy trzeba włożyć w samego siebie próbując żyć przy kiimś , zadbać o siebie żeby móc zadbać o drugiego człowieka ? Nie wchodząc w szczegóły Ja wybieram wspólne śniadanie z bliska mi osoba niż samotne śniadanie z najzabistszym avocado Po prostu uważam że to świetny przystanek na drodze w szukaniu siebie Nic na dłużej , na stałe Łączmy się ! 😅 nie dzielmy nie jesteśmy tacy "wyjątkowi" trochę pokory i życie wśród ludzi staje się na prawdę znosne , a niekiedy nawet bywa całkiem miłe I tego każdemu życzę Wszystkiego znosngo a niekiedy milego dziś !❤
Comment from : @BelialFactoryINC

I'm not sure how old you are but you do need friends -- or you'll end up like Chris Mcandless
Comment from : @orangewarm1

Lets be friends❤
Comment from : @Travelwithmew

I agree wholeheartedly ❤
Comment from : @ILIVEEVERYDAY

How am I supposed to love myself when I know every time I try to give myself some love that it’s a lie and I don’t actually mean it?
Comment from : @masterchiefofhalo4525

Go away evil man
Comment from : @XzSx-bo6tm

It's ok! But what should do during old age?
Comment from : @tayebahmed7726

So TLDR: find hobbies that don't involve people
Comment from : @MoistToucan

Encouraging someone to have no friends disgust me I mean, sometimes its okay to live alone,for a month and even a yearbrBut to encourage people and saying its okay ti have no friends? You're mentality is very poor I think you need to see your psychiatrists Just because you cant and you feel unhappy having someone in your life doesnt mean its okay You jave no right to encourage someone to live thier life just like you do
Comment from : @Invictus3675

Bro ngl I live alone barely leave my house hate my neighbors because of the big age gap and them being annoying and my friends live far away from my place sometimes I feel like it's like a prison but sometimes I feel like I'm comfortable and safe in this prison 😢brGive me some tips guys
Comment from : @Nightsky-star07

Why the background music?
Comment from : @Annedowntherabbithole

Fantastic advice!
Comment from : @BeccaYoley

I love your content please Do more in courage without with like peace of mind
Comment from : @lelaycervise9359

Please More blog about fection in courage by yourself without with
Comment from : @lelaycervise9359

Being raised alone in front of a playstation had some advantages after all
Comment from : @Francisco-j1e

I have broken up with my ex 3 months ago, who had been with me for about 6 years, he leaved me in a way that so bad which made me think that everything I tried was just nothing I felt lonely, doubting about myself so much, I have few friends, but I'm learning how to love myself and being alone withou lonely Your video is really useful, thanks ❤❤
Comment from : @trucquynhlenguyen5773

من صبح تاشب خونم و کلن ازادما واجتماع دورم به چشمم همه ادما مسخره شدن
Comment from : @armantataliti

disapointing cliche advicesbreat good exercise bla bla bryeah just f that
Comment from : @kkjjhh-n4r

I just wanted to say thank you This video is actually very beneficial It definitely gave me some tips and pointers that I will be using Have a blessed day🫶🏼
Comment from : @Sophisticatedxninaaaaa

Thank you Cole! Im alone for my first time and this is hard All the things you mentioned are things i have experienced but are so hard to stay consistent with Im getting better and your motivation helps so much!!!!
Comment from : @chadnicholas1575