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"You Should Not Marry Her!"

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This guy thinks being illiquid $12-15 million is wealthy 😂 He says it’s mostly tied up in his business He doesn’t sound too bright and takes forever to communicate nothing of any substance I bet that he has taken in $12-15 million in revenue over the life of his business and thinks that is somehow the value of it If he had to liquidate the business today, I’m thinking he’ll get a lot less than he thinks
Comment from : @hjrogers

Must be fun at parties
Comment from : @jordanbickett4062

He's projecting He knows he was using her all of those years and I bet she was the one pulling all of the weight, looking after their home, taking care of him, emotionally being there for him when it didn't go right for him I don't have to meet the woman to know she is amazing He is projecting his own user tendencies onto her Because he's been using her all of those years
Comment from : @ayllietube6405

You haven't married her yet she's not the one 7 yrs living together
Comment from : @ShariHoldal

Girlfriend please run!!
Comment from : @ikxrlxi2895

She is a single mom Not his kids?Unless you are REALLY a Christian and committed to following Biblical principles, men are CRAZY if they get married Especially if she is "traditional," ie she wants to stay home and he supports her She will leave with half of every asset You folks are hilarious Seven years means nothing Women blindside men all the time after years of marriage Wives initiate divorce 75 to 85 of the time Often, they bide their time and wait until the guy makes it big They have nothing to gain, if they leave while he is working up to it Unless she is young and hot, she wouldn't leave him while he was doing well but on the verge of hitting it Trading up at her age is tough
Comment from : @pixie8653

it looks like this lady and this gentleman did not have any child during the 7 years they were together Unles they plan or are willing to have some together, I don't see much advantage in a marriage for this gentleman, but much more for the lady
Comment from : @vchiu9560

People don't want to be alone It just it It's not about her at all I mean it seems like for him it could be anyone If I will know or feel that I am replaceble, I'm out in a minute
Comment from : @ameliatango

He wants all the benefits of a woman without any obligation to give anything back He’s selfish It’s fine if you don’t want to get married, but you don’t get to just use someone instead Find your AI robot and leave real women alone
Comment from : @VHansen

Hes a narcissist Just listen to how many times he says "I"
Comment from : @irrelevantideology9640

Ya idk how ur mindset isnt “damn were rich now now we can do shit and live life better together” instead its me me me Gross attitude bro and u never justified it
Comment from : @mrkyleescobar

Dan should have two bank accounts One of his bank account should be separate when he marry his wife and other bank account joint with his wife The reason why I say Dan should have two bank accounts separate and joint because Dan needs put more of his money in separate bank account and don't let his wife know about Second, Dan and his wife should joint bank account about 40 of they money
Comment from : @AngelaWalker-q1k

This man is exhausting
Comment from : @osmosisdaily

This guy is a duche
Comment from : @AJNineteen68

What was this guy actually asking?? Lol He keeps finding reasons to see his relationship as a negative and talking about what HE wants to do Nothing wrong with that Just go ahead and do you man You called the show for a reason
Comment from : @theplacesigo4169

40 year old millionaire could easily replace his girlfriend with a younger prettier woman His current girl needs to get right or get left
Comment from : @fullbattlerattle2493

John is a SIMP
Comment from : @spartan5106

I thought I can pick up on what people say and I can’t believe this host be so on point, makes me feel a bit crazy lol but we listen and learn
Comment from : @naxierjenkins1743

He was talking about Kevin Sanuels, right? 😂 when he was talking about a dead man he listened to
Comment from : @PenguinBooks365

He is not going to let her go ever She has to run She has to realize and runbrhe was willing to marry her with a prenup because she gave an ultimatum
Comment from : @lsd938

Simple don't marry
Comment from : @kevinrudisill6129

Omg! This woman needs to leave this man I don't care how much money he has i would run away just because of his mentality It is all about him Like John said, he is not even talking about the girlfriend
Comment from : @Rose-nx5fd

If I was wealthy i wouldn't want to get married eitherThe caller is justified in his thinking
Comment from : @capolot

It's been a long time since just hearing someone speak has got me so flamed
Comment from : @derbagger22

This guy knows everything And at the same time seems to know nothing
Comment from : @derbagger22

This man is selfish and does not love her PERIOD!
Comment from : @ItsMeVanessaDuh

Dude is just wasting that woman's time
Comment from : @SemPoliticoDeEstimacao

Dude just needs to walk away or just freakin do a prenup Wealthy or not, I'd run from this guy if I was the lady
Comment from : @jdstep97

Judges in today's world are only too happy to take a man's money/wealth from him He knows that and THAT is the problem
Comment from : @earlymann1954

Knowing how the court system works, I cannot blame him for being skittish to marry ANYONE
Comment from : @earlymann1954

Marriage is extremely hard, but it is equally if not MORE rewarding because of the work you put in I’m so much better off with my husband than if I wasn’t
Comment from : @hawj89

I'm so grateful for these hosts! Both of them make me so relieved and increase my belief that the world is not full of jerks like this man on the phone, but also full of good people with high morals, respect to their partners AND courage to speak up on behalf of that poor girlfriend he had for 7 years that he doesn't give a about! Someone has to be loud to say to men like this dude that he is a jerk and as soon he loses her, he will lose all his wealth! He deserves to be single and alone for the rest of his life
Comment from : @kseniyasoldatenko8334

He's so hard to listen tohe talks a lot, but says absolutely nothing
Comment from : @tjawe

He's not ready after 7 years and she's held on for 7 years! Let her go!
Comment from : @pameladavis895

Why is John always trying to sound cool? If I hear him say "rocking on till the break of dawn" one my time, I'll puke He has also started singing callers names, and just other garbage that makes him look like an idiot - including how he pokes fun of George, calling him a geek, a nerd, ect Time for DR JOHN to go or be given a script that he is not allowed to deviate from
Comment from : @GoldenOldies-007

so he was cheating on his ex wife with this woman, (because you dont start dating someone right after you get divorced you were with her before the divorced) and now he's afraid to marry her because he has money now?
Comment from : @blakebodaciousFTW

So many men are like this - they wouldn't have been able to build their business without their woman's support and yet as soon as it looks like they're going to have money they honestly believe it is all theirs and the woman has contributed nothing
Comment from : @sharonwhiteman6874

This guy is an A hole I feel sorry for the girlfriend
Comment from : @andrewmathieson7853

This is ridiculous, dude get a prenup don’t listen to these people
Comment from : @armandoyzaguirre6120

dude straight up went redditor on him lmao, "break up with her, today" lmao
Comment from : @jasonmest87

Don't risk financial ruin with marriage Caller has already gone through a divorce and has gone through the system - there is no need to get married
Comment from : @wenblue1753

He just got rich and wants to f*ck around 🤷🏽‍♂️it's okay but like he wasted 7 years of that poor girl's life and he don't want to take responsibility Grow a pair and be honest with yourself and stop blaming "trauma" and "past" just own up being a scumbag🤷🏽‍♂️
Comment from : @tamasv9825

Well, that was almost 10 minutes of my life I can't get back Yeesh
Comment from : @annalieharris9808

One thing I don't like about opinions is that some people think one size fits all This man has a gut feleing about her and he should follow it She's giving signs that he's not talking about on the air
Comment from : @JamesBrown-vt9kr

I blame the woman Dating someone for 7 years is CRAZY-WORK (They keep calling her his fiance He NEVER said he proposed)
Comment from : @TerryOnDemand

He's rationalizing everything to his beliefs He is selfish and not good relationship material
Comment from : @MrPotsy81

YOu miss the point here No man has a problem sharing life and money with his wife or girlfriend It is she decides to leave and takes 75 of everything You lose her and all the lifestyle
Comment from : @martygt3357

let the poor girl gobrYou think you're better than her
Comment from : @marisariverso8925

My man was hemming and hawwimg like Foghorn Leg not getting to the point
Comment from : @hurdyb1

He wants to be a playboy He doesn’t love her He is not even seeing that she is loyalbrI met my wife when I was dead broke I’m not rich but if I was or become rich I’m keeping her
Comment from : @RGTomoenage11

Fifty two seconds into the video, and I had yo stop watching I didn't know why, but I couldn't listen to him It's great that I can read the comments and understand why 😅
Comment from : @elianabeatrizaversa8060

He really does not have to get married again
Comment from : @TheroMogobe

Man I just realize how much prejudice I have against people that are woefully inarticulate Forget the marriage problems here, I can’t stand the bumbling, meandering, stifling around and not being able to get a clear sentence out These guys are just volleying clear crisp thoughts at him left and right and he just isn’t able to respond to anything
Comment from : @dVTHoR

If there was a way for men to marry without getting the government involved, our marriage rate would start skyrocketing
Comment from : @donovanwilliams5424

It's not that he doesn't trust her He doesn't trust the court system And he shouldn't The woman you marry is not the same woman you divorce Stop feeding men into the meat grinder
Comment from : @donovanwilliams5424

Good Lord he’s like Debbie downer when he speaks
Comment from : @sandrakeen4000

The person you marry is never the same person you divorce
Comment from : @ronulo

The way she’s pushy to marry makes her sound like a gold digger He will be more financially secure if he does not marry her It’s understandable that he wants to keep that security since the majority of marriages end in divorce He understandably does not trust the court system Do not marry her!
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He is nuts😂
Comment from : @livhuwanimukhondo5600

Did she support you, did you ever talk things through with her, did she give you the happiness that gave you the energy and strength to actually succeed?
Comment from : @fitnessfeverpt

Lol traditional but dating for 7 yrs?
Comment from : @fitnessfeverpt

Common law doesn't count in the US? In Canada, if they live together and have kids, she's common law and have pretty much similar rights as spouse
Comment from : @Udjeox

what a waste of my time
Comment from : @alhodge4051

What dude who gets his clock cleaned in divorce admits "yeah, I pretty much saw it coming" Answer: very few
Comment from : @left-handedstan4506

“My company, I want to move, my money, I want, me this, me that…my my my…me me me…” I get he went through a divorce but damn dude!! talk about someone other than yourself
Comment from : @urirendonownerpurebrokersl8099

This man is a hot mess! This post is a year old I hope the girlfriend has moved on!
Comment from : @KeatingChick

There are people out there who dont want the one they are with, but wont let them go
Comment from : @erinsweeney6403

This man's personality is "fixed," meaning it will never change There are too many "I this, and I that" His interpretation of his wealth is totally skewed He is not rich with just 12 million dollars In this economy he's just "well off" He has not changed his attitude about women they either tow the line or hit the road He may think he's a real catch and she's out to get his money, but the fact is he's just a rectum! His first wife knew it and flew the coop His girlfriend would be better off with Satan! Girl! RUN!
Comment from : @adrianaclark8498

ugh woman, let him go snuggle up with his money and move along Thats all he cares about This is the most selfish guy i have ever heard me me me me me
Comment from : @mistiinseattle

He wants to live the single life but with someone to act as the girlfriend As soon as you get married mentally you’re back to square 1 He’s been divorced, he wants companionship while he also explores the rest of the world and other women and yes a divorce ties two people together He just needs to dump het and go do it
Comment from : @Erlymroz

Omg I would never date a guy who still after 7 years is unsure about marrying me Yikes
Comment from : @marias6583

What a tool of a man
Comment from : @bn8579

He doesn’t wanna compromise that’s what it is brHe doesn’t wanna wait til the whole fam can make that movebrbrHe doesn’t wanna create travel plans for everyone and negotiate his preferences with hersbrbrHe doesn’t want to worry about dividing the inheritance with both his kids and her kidsbrbrHis selfish philosophy wasn’t just from some random dead financial guru It’s probably from watching one or both parents selfishly battle it out it in courts and/or at homebrbrHe’s the common denominator and he knows it He won’t call out his own faults but he’s honest enough to know it’s not about the women he’s been with
Comment from : @StellaBella488

So sad The only person who couldn’t see it’s over is the caller - Dan
Comment from : @silvermaple3580

He’s so exhausting How are people like him still in a relationship? Can’t put two sentences together 😫
Comment from : @georginaadre7678

this dude wants to go to Thailand :D so bad but wants to keep the solid woman back at home :D he got money and wants to travel its the same like winning the lottery as a guy with a GF but not married I wouldnt share also I would be on the first plane to Thailand :D BUT i would break up at least :D
Comment from : @norberto6005

"Yeah I understand but Blah blah blah"
Comment from : @thecamillarose9806

Dude you're already dragging children throw the mud because you won't grow up
Comment from : @nicolettemoore7711

All I hear is “Me, Myself, I” His ego is bigger than his meagre “net worth” I thought he was a billionaire from the way he was all about “my house,…my money”
Comment from : @dua-ansahbright166

Terrible take this time
Comment from : @xhxpe8004

Dating for 7 years? Something is wrong with both of you
Comment from : @SamClemens-d5n

What peoplare forgetting us that he went through duvorce already abd that can cause its own form of PTSD There's a good chance his first wife cheated and he has tremendous trust issues He probably lives this other woman but is afraid of losing again I suspect that he has developed some very realistic views on marriage and doesn't ever want to do it again
Comment from : @manabouttongue

This guy has a reason he got divorced the same time Hes emotionally imature and disconnected Breaking up with her would be a blessing to her as he is a jerk
Comment from : @junebrezgis1652