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She needs to work on her finances and you need to work on your financial plan and goals before the marriage present that to her during the engagement process This is life time commitment that many people don't take very serious therefore it ends in a disaster because they don't want to be alone pressured by family and friends to you ladies or even an image for social reasons Know what you want set boundaries tell her what you want and she does the same, be logical with your thinking not emotion because you are the leader if you believe in God use him to guide you if not there's no guiding principles for you and future spouse you have to figure it out
Comment from : @treydallas903

You can afford anything but not everything, Paula Pant
Comment from : @karil6461

Woe all these men so anti women Sure sign the human race is headed for extinction The men love to make babies and run The only thing tgey do on a regular basis
Comment from : @marleneclough3173

I’m planning my 20k wedding right now Fiancé and I have no debt no student loans, two paid off cars, and homeowners
Comment from : @AimeeMarsh-m5y

“Her debt is more important “ he’s never said to a girl to pay his debt off he says it’s not ur debt or don’t marry him if he has a lot of debt
Comment from : @xsgtxbigboy1655

The bride should have to pay for the wedding
Comment from : @Mr-Kind-au

Your total cost should be whatever the county charges for the license Anything over that should be invested intelligently
Comment from : @brianmolstad1255

🙏🏼👌🏼
Comment from : @JMKrech

Paying off her debt… no comments here The guy is as dumb as fck to marry the person who wants her debt to be paid by her husband
Comment from : @sergiogruzdoff2299

Paying off her debt? Really? Are you a babysitter? Probably a doormat
Comment from : @sergiogruzdoff2299

Dave’s a good man
Comment from : @plumbinginla5166

Andsave up for divorce lawyers and court Really Not a joke
Comment from : @dks13827

To each there ownyou want to get married do it just man up to the consequences if it doesn't work outgood luck man
Comment from : @armandoweckmann5699

Don't pay for her debts Period End of story
Comment from : @TILLEYJS

You know, I never hear single guys calling Dave Ramsey’s program Maybe the number one source of money troubles is trying to live a “normal” life through marriage A normal life is expensive and depressing Let’s strive for better than normal on the happiness scale
Comment from : @BigSCTVfan

$15,000 weddingbr$33,000 car (average car price)br$$$ for downpaymentbrbrSon, you might go broke chasing an expensive American dream if you want it this Friday
Comment from : @DJ-ws6je

this is a fair real life situation, i love this conversationive taken alot away from this being in a comparable situation
Comment from : @samuelleake9213

Rice or beans? No, rice and beans
Comment from : @allpraisegoddessmonika2887

I'll be seeing this guy on Terrence Popp's youtube channel in 3 years after this girl wrecks this dude to the sum of $50,000 Just wait
Comment from : @chartuck

So does the wife make any money?
Comment from : @nealp885

you don't need a huge wedding Have an open reception and right after go on a nice honey moon to a nice island Stop wasting money on huge weddings it does not make sense 15k on a wedding!!!???? WHYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY
Comment from : @Vera-dg3hf

Weddings are a waste of money
Comment from : @Ali-ws6mu

There are millions of ways to save money on a daily basis Most importantly stop thinking like a consumer and instead think like a producer You see this kind of stuff is unfortunately not taught at schools and even parents struggle to teach their kids because they are financially illiterate themselves If you plan a “big” wedding learn to invest your money, because if you have Any cash laying around, make it work for you at 7-13 percent average annual return!
Comment from : @AndreyZenperial

Don't get marry, unless you guys went to marriage school
Comment from : @travisli-rufus1949

Does the caller have a brother?🤑
Comment from : @twothousand8051

Don't get married!!!!!!!!!!
Comment from : @ls8904

If I was a woman, this guy would make a good first husband
Comment from : @swampcrawlerls1267

I would take the twenty grand, bank it and elope!
Comment from : @rebal1681

Thank you for this video so much! I’m still on baby step 2, but I want to propose to my girlfriend and hopefully get married within 2 months
Comment from : @andrewsalazar98

So I have $6000 on car loan and owe the IRS $6000 , which one should I pay off first?
Comment from : @mo2089

Advice? Don't
Comment from : @ClaxtonBay123

$15k for a wedding? Yikes! In a few of Dave's books he teaches us to always look for good deals $15k for a wedding is not a good deal Maybe I'm just cheap though
Comment from : @reborngeek3922

Don't get married unless you have 18years of child support funds Be single and have 18yesrs of fun in bangkok insteadlol dude its 2020 save your life or go safe mode married rice and beans
Comment from : @x1area51ii7

What does Dave think about engagement rings ??
Comment from : @soyingrid

Oh, Tim, you poor soul I can just see Tim’s lady at brunch with her girlfriends sipping mimosas and bragging about how she hit the jackpot and found a sucker to pay off all her debt
Comment from : @Ant0417

Idk 😐 I’m not getting married until I have 10million usd in the bank 😝 life’s too short to worry about a one day event
Comment from : @Pauloveskim

If you’re a man and you get married today, you deserve what you get Over 50 divorce rate, 70-80 of them are initiated by the woman Don’t do it
Comment from : @ThePatriots010304

Don't do it Tim! God, why!? How is this wedding going to benefit you? Save the cash or buy a car They won't divorce grape you in 4 years Dave is such a simp
Comment from : @huntmatthewd

Dear Dave my little brother inherited 25000 what is the best 529 for him
Comment from : @josephtapp7279

She found a sucker and/or a babysitter for life She’ll use him for as long as he’ll allow it Some folks live their lives that way, but that’s not how a marriage should “work”
Comment from : @weaintfree

Offer to drive to the next state and marry her FOREVER,brShe might like a " Forever marriage" , rather than a weddingbrbrbrbrCovenant marriage is a legally distinct kind of marriage in three states (Arizona, Arkansas, and Louisiana), Prior to entering into a covenant marriage, a couple must attend premarital counseling sessions "emphasizing the nature, purposes, and responsibilities of marriage" and must sign a statement declaring "that a covenant marriage is for Life"
Comment from : @aolvaar8792

Don’t do it!
Comment from : @senaitarts5772

Weddings ! what a waste of money , no one cares or remembers about your special day , except you pay a fortune to feed everyone and celebrate while they secretly complain after about the food , the entertainment ,the bride maids dresses
Comment from : @markymark3340

I saved a lot on devorce by not getting married
Comment from : @tonylama2012

waist of time!
Comment from : @trustysteed8982

Make it a Coordinated potluck so you don’t have to pay for catering Invitations are can be kept very simple Buy a house and have the weeding at the house Keep it simple
Comment from : @martinbernal5693

Did I miss something but how come she is not paying off her own debt before she walks down the aisle I would not be impressed if my son's wife paid off his debt or if he paid off hers before they married
Comment from : @clarifyingquestions

Dave, I just wonder what if you just don’t want to get married?
Comment from : @julieraymond4963

Don't agree with the adviceespecially paying her off debt
Comment from : @marjn1030

Why is he saving up money to pay off his fiance's debt after they get married? In all seriousness, she's bringing in debt that he's willing to pay off So, what does he get out of it? On top of that he wants to spend $20-30k on a wedding? I wish him the best
Comment from : @yamamancha

This guy doesn't need a car he's about to get taken for a ride
Comment from : @djpuplex

Here’s a bright idea don’t get married simp
Comment from : @sleepyjoe6980

More than half of marriages end up in divorce He needs to get ready for the asset split, child support, and possible lifetime alimony
Comment from : @tigerak02

Caller: wedding is $15,000brCaller (minutes later): wedding is $15,000-$20000brbrListener: wedding will be$32,750 or more -
Comment from : @sunshinelawfan7693

Maybe it’s just me but I am not paying someone’s debt even if I am married What if you do and she /he is not good with money You need to let them feel the pain of debt to paying it first We can pay it together but I just won’t write a big check for someone’s debt
Comment from : @jeylohnen

He's going to pay for the wedding AND her debts? What's her contribution?
Comment from : @DisabilityExams

So what baby step is it to take on more debt? I thought the whole idea was to never go back!
Comment from : @MrGrim-bl6nf

Never ever get married especially now It is a trap please do not fall for this
Comment from : @hotboy2034

Dave said “paying for a wedding is more important than a car”? That statement just shows Dave’s idiocy! A car is a necessity, a wedding isn’t! Smart men don’t get married!
Comment from : @chuckgoodman3828

BUY MORE NICE CARS DON'T GET MARRIED
Comment from : @csxcobracsxcobra334

Wow paying for a $15k wedding and a honeymoon seems like a huge waste of money
Comment from : @Treerootz1

Any man who gets married in 2020 is crazy
Comment from : @oroville12345

Cash flow the whole thing, you’ll get some of it back (depending on how generous your friends are) Stick to a budget and have fun
Comment from : @ErrorPagenotFound-ig1cy

I used up all of my savings paying off my new wife's debts I put her name on my checking account, but I had to close it out because she kept bouncing checks brYears later, when she inherited a little money from her mother, she announced that inheritance is not common property and refused to either save it or use it for our family's billsbrI don't regret marrying her, but paying off her bills was a bad ideabrShe is a good woman, but she can't handle moneybrDave, please stop telling men to pay their wives' debts until it is established that they are willing and able to share
Comment from : @jerryjesness329

So paying for a wedding, a 1 day party, is more important than transportation
Comment from : @stephenshelton4267

Dave I'm having a wedding and I want to know the best waybrDave: SELL THE CAR! No wedding cake, only rice and beans
Comment from : @Evan_Floyd

Before you get married have her work on a plan to pay off her own debt She should tackle her own debt significantly for 1 year prior to you getting married Her debt is not yet your responsibility It's hers And if she is not working at paying it off now, she won't contribute to paying it off later
Comment from : @poet82n

Is it not the tradition that the wife's parents pay for the wedding? Why does he need to save up for her debt? It is her debt, don't she needs to pay for it?
Comment from : @belatoth1446

Save some for pain and suffering😁
Comment from : @vinnyt8027

Make the country Mexico pay for it?
Comment from : @dabd8175

Increase your income is key
Comment from : @user-td7xf3gz4l

He better start saving for the divorce
Comment from : @uptoyouThailand

Get a prenup
Comment from : @DavinR16

I never been married before but if you want my advice, “Don’t Get Married” Laws in today’s world favor women in court when it comes to divorce and possessions Don’t marry a single mother
Comment from : @xbmeans

You want advice on saving for a wedding Dont have one
Comment from : @richardsanchez9190

Go to Vegas they have packages you'll save a lot of money
Comment from : @FrankCastle-he8fl

Call me a grouch but, I’d say wait on the wedding, or do it cheaper, or try to have the family pay for it if you’re not well off yet
Comment from : @CaseyBurnsInvesting