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My Wife Spends Like A Drunken Sailor

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Divorce her and let her support herself!
Comment from : @MrDedvalson

Goodness, people who contact this show seem to have massive salaries
Comment from : @kimcrosby1

She's in control and he's scared of her Sad
Comment from : @Twentythousandlps

Yet another example of why marriage is an out and out SCAM for men these days And even if he divorces her, if there’s no prenup, she can clean him out and leave him with NOTHINGbrbrHell, even a prenup isn’t a guarantee today All a woman has to do is cry some crocodile tears, claim she was “forced” to sign the prenup “under duress” and the judge will absolutely wad it up and toss it out! brbrDude needs to cut his losses, leave the loveless witch and either embrace a bachelor lifestyle or become a passport bro
Comment from : @jomahawk7488

took credit cards in his name ? and maxed them ? HOW 💀💀
Comment from : @Smt_Glaive

In almost every conflict there’s a percentage each person has to claim responsibility or fault for His percentage is way more than 50 He stands by without doing anything substantial
Comment from : @JSICycles

She's spending it before he can pay the mortgage 😏
Comment from : @michelejohnson6459

You'd better check her Federal and State withholding on her paycheck She could be claiming she is exempt and have no withholding and you could end up having to pay her taxes on her salary that she hasn't paid
Comment from : @marinemarine8305

As a drunken sailor, Im financially responsible I cuss like a fucking sailor, but Im a millionaire the the making
Comment from : @pdmayton

The wife would be cut off financially by me if I were her husband I would pay the bills, buy toiletries, buy food and she would have to learn to be at home with less money in her pocket she would also be required to take a financial literacy class along with mental health services of therapy and psychiatrist besides marriage counseling If the shoe was on the other foot, she would expect that from me If that doesn't work, I'll divorce her and hopefully not have to divide up the assets in half because of her reckless spending habits
Comment from : @aidenalamo6262

Don’t let anyone abuse u financially Family or friends this man needs to take control of his own life U only have one
Comment from : @nooraadib

I mean he's enabling it
Comment from : @lifehappensfast_21

Dave is 100 Get counseling & the root of this problem is on both !
Comment from : @pattyannoloughlin6153

He should have stopped this a long time ago
Comment from : @momof2momof2

Its over for the marriage She either is cheating or will cheat when he locks her out financially She doesn't care about him or them, she pnly cares about what she can get out of the marriage and is just riding the gravy train and will bail when it crashes
Comment from : @robertpulliam4152

This is the beginning of a Dateline NBC episode
Comment from : @ek6007

My wife is thw same way despite all of her talk of being a big Dave Ramsey fan Early on in the marriage she would run the joint account negative by $300-$500 the day before I got my check knowing that her purchases would clear as soon as I deposited the check I demanded that she stop and now make all of the monthly payments the day I deposit my check and now withdraw the remain cash and keep it in a secure location She now has roughly a $10k/ month income from a couple of side hustles and maintains her own account along with 15-20 credit cards in her name only with numerous pay in four and other layaway type products and is always strapped and stressed about money She contributes nothing at all to household expenses and even stuck me with the payroll tax for her side hustle last year(my income is investment related with no taxes owed)
Comment from : @white66r

Grow a backbone
Comment from : @Aerondighteternal

This gentleman needs to divorce his wife as if the mortgage payments are not paid, they will lose their home
Comment from : @bevanbuckwheatshea5520

I called it right before I saw it, I knew David was going to find a way to blame the guy🤦🏿‍♂️😂
Comment from : @AdrianWareBPP-Poet

"We are going to pay the bills first before any 'spending' money comes out of the account"don't like itget yourself a 150k job or hit the road I am bringing in all the money so deal with it
Comment from : @dturner40

He’s a simp and simping to dave
Comment from : @hermanrogers1325

I can’t even wrap my head around this one She makes peanuts yet doesn’t feel an ounce of guilt in spending all of his money and ruining his life What a gross human being Even if she just wasn’t contributing (which would be bad enough) that would give her $2k every month to blow on nothing How would you ever need more than that?brThis is blatant abuse Block her from all accounts (including your credit cards) and call your lawyer yesterday She not only doesn’t love you but has shown that she doesn’t care about you at all Why would you ever stay with somebody like that?! This isn’t a marriage
Comment from : @supernova11711

My husband makes about tge same, and I work making only 1/3 of his salary But I loved from my childhood thrift shopping or flee market shopping, so everthing i buy is only 1 to 5 bucks,😂 trust me he is very happy about that
Comment from : @HyacinthCleveland

Get her off any cards, and put her on a budget, pay all the bill on your own, treat her like the child she is acting like
Comment from : @HyacinthCleveland

He is the real simp
Comment from : @mae88b16

Dave should tell every man on earth to get a pre nup He won't do that because men would stop calling in about their financial destruction He needs callers to make money Men, get a pre nup
Comment from : @georgesontag2192

He needs to divorce her immediately
Comment from : @pjgreene4118

Of course the guy getting the heat as well 😂
Comment from : @pawelwisniewski6849

I know you Christian men love your women, but your women don't always love their Christian men
Comment from : @delberttalks4616

“She’s bitchin” jeez Dave my kids heard you Pipe down old man
Comment from : @Wingman937

Spell it together kids D-I-V-O-R-C-E
Comment from : @catherinewilke5583

this fella is gonna get destroyed in divorce court especially with the alimony The divorce courts reward women like this all the time
Comment from : @boston312

She took out cards in his name? Oof
Comment from : @katroyal6309

I hate when people play with their families like thatbrShe needs to stop ✋ 🛑 brThat’s selfish behavior, they could lose the house common lady
Comment from : @ajohonly3721

She doesn't need a spending account from him!! 25k from her job is enough for frivolous spending The husband needs to take control and lock her outbrbrI work 2 days a week and I use that money for extracurricular things I don't need to dip into my husbands pockets, who's paying the house bills
Comment from : @JessicaDaniJohnson

Love the milli vanilli reference
Comment from : @MichaelHasebroock

Another Beta! ,as simple as that!
Comment from : @edwardpellerano3856

Next week the wife writes in and Dave rants about how she's financially abused because her man listened to Dave
Comment from : @joeb734

He needs to nip this in the bud NOW or it will continue and get worse I know a fellow that is 60 and still lives at home with his mother His mother pays all his bills that he cannot pay as she still gets a monthly payment from what was left to her by her husband (not his father) When his mother passes away, those payments stop He buys buys buys and leases new fancy cars every two years He leases expensive cars and has been doing this for over 30 years He doesn't pay bills, his mother does When he didn't pay his taxes, his mother did He is 60 and has never learned how this works because his mother just paid it and sucked it up I think this wife is like him It takes a long time to get someone to change their ways and you want to make sure it's changed before its too late
Comment from : @esterdrass4964

I’d have her arrested for fraud
Comment from : @jasonpowell584

This is what happens when you not a real man and you getting bitched in your own house lmaoo I would never go for this ever
Comment from : @lonnieswag100

You don't solve money problems with money He could make another $ 200,000 a year and she would spend all of that The problem is that they need marriage counselling Money will not fix this so get to the real issue
Comment from : @JoshuaTrinityWolf-dc4up

This guy needs to get rid of this user and abuser!
Comment from : @lauren4078

This is why U don't ever get joint accounts! Let them drown on their own if they want 2 to do it Protect urself at all costs! If ur gonna divorce at least go away w/50 instead of 0 plus negative equity! Marriage is NOT guaranteed! Keep that mindset while ur "in love" Ur future self will thank u for it!
Comment from : @jayda3335

The mortgage is not paid because HE hasn’t paid it
Comment from : @princetonscholar5723

How can I protect my stock portfolio from the current economic downturn? What's the best way to reallocate my investments to minimize losses?
Comment from : @Hannahbenowitz

Never heard Dave cuss
Comment from : @cristianharris544

Horror This will be a very hard step stopping her
Comment from : @Lis422

I almost didn’t believe it when bitchin came out of Dave so casually 🫨
Comment from : @jamesonharris4944

Divorce her immediately
Comment from : @astephens1963

The absolute most I allow any woman to spend is $200/month Things like grocery shopping, going out to lunch, entertainment, etc we spend while we do those activities togetherbrbrIf a woman wants anymore she can spend her own moneybrbrIf we live together we split the costs of rent/mortgage/utilitiesbrbrAny man who funds a woman’s lifestyle has already lost the gamebrbrI make $140K I divide my income into 6 different banks Wifey only knows about 2 accounts Always lie to a woman about your income “i make about $68,000 a year hunny”brbrmen these days are so dumb
Comment from : @michaeld4137

What's a mortage?
Comment from : @LanceKovacic

Worthless woman Divorce Start over 💯
Comment from : @6Midnite6Raven6

This will ruin a relationship
Comment from : @teresavict1831

"Dude, but she's hawt!"
Comment from : @John336

you should lock her out of everything, the house, the accounts and the cars seriously bud, even if you divorce her you're still going to have to feed her lifestyle
Comment from : @gtileo

Divorce would be cheaper
Comment from : @kevinthurston1448

Love the Milli Vanilli lip synch reference, one for the GenX ers out here
Comment from : @liorap5636

It's not obvious to me that, mechanically, she must be the one paying the bills Could be, but maybe they have joint access to all accounts, and she is spending them down and his checks are bouncing
Comment from : @mathematician1234

How can you earn 150k and be 4 months behind on mortgage payments ?? That man is stupid
Comment from : @meilong2338

I think Dave is wrong, she isn't the one paying the bills, she has a credit card with a giant limit that he always pays first and they've kept increasing her limit
Comment from : @Lon1001

6:33 😬 Stop it, Dad! You’re embarrassing us!!
Comment from : @BuddyHoyt

At least they've got money coming in If, and I think that's a big 'if', they can sort out their problems they can get out of the hole they've put themselves in before long
Comment from : @xlerb2286

That Ole gay would be down the road!!! Bye Bye
Comment from : @harryorwell1906

Hear is my questionsbrHe makes 150kbrShe gets 25 kbrbrBut HOW MUCH IS HOUSE???brMORTGAGE??brCARS???brAre yhe living in a 500k home???brbrUall need a damm 40 k home
Comment from : @bmaiceman

Counseling is the best route There's definitely a deeper issue there with her that needs to be addressed But financially, going to an advisor together so that she can get the raw truth from a subject matter expert could definitely put some fire under her butt
Comment from : @omarmassey2522

It sounds like things are hanging on by a thread She’s been taking advantage of him and the situation for years She sounds selfish and immature
Comment from : @amydoran9987

What Dave is recommending is called financial abuse and considered a form of domestic violence in Colorado Don’t ask me how I know
Comment from : @Mountainhippiedude

This is me
Comment from : @candjhoodcleaningllc

"spoiled child" sounded like he was going to say a different word starting with c
Comment from : @michaelkane7021

Sell the Wife😂
Comment from : @TexasRanchu

1:45 Dave most bills are Auto Pay I’m a closing agent by trade and also an EA for a lending institution- auto pay is required by my employer and every refinance/ purchase I’ve closed has had auto pay instructions
Comment from : @BitterBetterBM

Usually women that pull stunts like this have obvious plastic surgery, wear too much make up, tight and revealing clothes I'm wondering how well he vetted her
Comment from : @analyticalchick3064

Sell the wife
Comment from : @Tyrantking7

I don't get these guys who let their wives spend all their money and turn around going "What should I do?" Stop giving her access to the money, you dipstick
Comment from : @mattorama

She sounds like my ex wife
Comment from : @littlebuck5218

I have never seen Dave Ramsey blame the woman in any circumstancehe blames the man every time!
Comment from : @formula112967

Hey! I resemble that remark!!brSigned, Ret NAVY
Comment from : @anthonymarkiewicz8653

Geez
Comment from : @Smerzone

I picture her tooling about town during the day in her active wear, meeting up with people socially and "keeping her appointments" at the various types of salons in townbrbrA starbucks in one hand and a cell phone in the other
Comment from : @roadrunner9622

What?? Dave tries to blame him , no she can spend without being the one to pay bills She has credit cards and checking account access so she can just use all the money and he has none left for the house payment
Comment from : @mikesmith-wk7vy

Before we got married, my husband and I discussed our finances He was in debt I told him that we could get married after he cleaned up his debt He cleaned up his debt When we married, we kept out banking accounts separate until I was confident that he had learned better spending habits
Comment from : @ginab6142

Guarantee he has been hiding money before this happened Also guarentee he he has been acting a pompus tyrant towards her as in it is HIS money, treating her like a secretary and refusing to be involved in necessary discussions about money needs, wants and many other discussions, that are reality based, or checked out from sharing life with her For every action there is a reaction, Clearly her seemingly over the top behavior may have had a catalyst HE likely choose to ignore or failed to check in himself as possibly contributing to the problem I cannot begin to relay how many ways these things start small and turn big in short time and rarely is it only one person contributing to the problem He maybe a money controlling obsessor or hoarder and she had enough and flipped out, My guess both play a role in this problem though perhaps not 50 50
Comment from : @vickimerritt2832

That is the kind of woman who screams "abuse" and divorce you pushing false charges if you cancel the credit card, I am so sorry, I disagree with Dave and John on this situations first go to a divorce attorney the meanest and expensiviest that you can get the better and start rolling the ball, if the marriage can be saved is ok, dont wait for her to make the first move, protect yourself know, oh, and man, sorry again, she dont love you, stop behaving as she does
Comment from : @cesaravegah3787

Pay the IRS last There's nothing they can do
Comment from : @roadrunner9622

Dave always talks about growing a backbone- he should try growing a pair of nuts and blame the guilty party
Comment from : @landshark7684

How can he pay the mortgage when his account is negative?
Comment from : @garrett21

These are the guys that brag about how they spoil their woman Created this monster You can never out earn broke Habits, and will never fill a cup with a hole in it!
Comment from : @dantebarnes5313

This guy is screwed either way If he divorces her she will be getting a gigantic alimony from him, if he stays with her he will end up homeless I am a woman, but am a HUGE fan of not getting married!!
Comment from : @bettysmith4527