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4 Types of Trauma u0026 How It Impacts Your Relationship

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I would love to watch this without that awful background music
Comment from : @tkmfischerman2582

You know your cooked when your all of these💀
Comment from : @hisui-mw6wm

i mean they got well ok ok shhhhhh ill just be ok
Comment from : @matthewnelson9809

a time a hour we got
Comment from : @matthewnelson9809

hummmm seem
Comment from : @matthewnelson9809

In kind worse screw ypu i didnt think id hear my own words "fear of being alone again" being used lordy that ahouldnt of hit so hard
Comment from : @brightplaysgames8760

haaa if only being in a relationship was anything i could have in this life
Comment from : @diladrin3733

My partner…
Comment from : @ReshiramMage1992

Im scared my twinflame is scared to meet me because i have not been acting in the best manor I keep have troubling communicating with just regular people that are physically in my life now I dont want that to affect his opinon about me Im on a spiritual journey and my third eye is open I just dont know how to get past all the trauma No matter how many times i go to therapy it dosnt help it just makes me more upset I even written over 200 pages journaling and it still doesnt make the pain go away How can someone love someone so broken
Comment from : @KristyannBurgazoli

Amen we will over come
Comment from : @SonicFromNorthCounty

idk why when i watchbthis video i start crying :")brbecause i realted to all of the trauma
Comment from : @faizahfitriah9124

We’re all wounded but some are not aware or wanna do the job
Comment from : @TathjianaIslas

Why was i feeling like the whole video was talking about me ahah😅
Comment from : @alyssia_Rousseau

I can't
Comment from : @damnablethief

I am suffering from the rejection and betrayal trauma and I just have to put more efforts into anything I'm very tired, if I'll talk to my partner today I'm gonna tell him about these but now also I'm afraid to be rejected 😞brJoy Maa❤✨
Comment from : @vaishnavi09876

I feel like I got all of those
Comment from : @MLFv2

Middle child attendance 🤚🏻brbr( I'm a middle child and I have felt these things )
Comment from : @TishaPatel-nr1mw

Damn I got all 4
Comment from : @jjlee9316

you should build (( emotional mental strength )) that’s all
Comment from : @Sara-cf8xf

Got diagnosed with ptsd and bpd tdy Literally all 4 forms of trauma
Comment from : @BorderlineCrashOut

Bingo! What was the prize again?
Comment from : @averyexe9809

i’m so sorry Havana
Comment from : @MasterMarble

wow i wish i knew all this before:(
Comment from : @MasterMarble

Why did I watch this video, I don't even have a relationship yet XD
Comment from : @leiocerayt

I find this topic very interesting since it is good to spread this information, in my psychology class it is very useful
Comment from : @cielodimas1960

Well I have everyone of these Avoidance is the key to survival until death comes Buncha bipedal monster walking around out there
Comment from : @BigSadSky

Rejection trauma ✓brAbandonment trauma ✓ → anxious attachmentbrBetrayal trauma ✓brHumiliation trauma ✓brHow can I live?:)
Comment from : @theblackest0

Have all of these, some more than others Great video too
Comment from : @Allie-bc6ff

Jesus… I’m screwed 😔brUghhhhhh
Comment from : @lilibby1844

im not supposed to have all of these right? cuz I definitely do
Comment from : @whokilledrox

Damn im glad im not alone, I've have experienced all of the traumas 😢
Comment from : @medusa3439

I'm still trying to heal from childhood trauma #a4bquadzi
Comment from : @QuadziFbaby

Watching this hurts
Comment from : @seamusewell-lw2rg

I have betryal trauma
Comment from : @rishikaagarwal4526

Drinking and over eating is what gets me My father would tell me things he was doing behind my mom and i would tell her and he would not acknowledge the cheating he told me about or the date he took me on disguised as a daddy son day
Comment from : @kendellhernandez238

Why do I relate to all but humiliation trama
Comment from : @Fruitloopps

When you realize you suffer from all of these
Comment from : @Jasonslittlesister1

Well, this explains mebrSadly, I did this to my kids I hate so much that I can't change the damage I've done I'm sorry, isn't enough
Comment from : @angiejones968

I wish I could time travel
Comment from : @Wildbat24

Wow experienced all of these and the wounds are felt like being revisited till date in certain situationsbrThe responses are so chaotic and I end up hurting myself and feel unworthy
Comment from : @saswatisasmal

This is so interesting
Comment from : @GrubKiller436

All of them and I just want it to end!
Comment from : @trwn87

What’s the music in the background called at 0:00?
Comment from : @rayhaanmohammed3350

The music is very scary It's 11pm and I'm really creeped by the music
Comment from : @themintygreensdiscoveringy2655

I feel so heard ,for the first time in my life!
Comment from : @qwertyyuiop7023

Is It normal that i relate to all this descriptions??
Comment from : @JoyCat333

Im so tired
Comment from : @Gentlesoul11

It's actually not a parent who made me feel this,, it's a teacher and my siblings well maybe my mom because she was saying that I should've study hard because I only got a 88 total grade last year
Comment from : @user_dumpydump12

I’m watching this to understand my partner and make them feel uncomfortable and accepted around me
Comment from : @Kitty_Sana3

When I was 3yrs old,I remember that my dad had serious alcohol problems,and my mom told me that he and my mom argued A LOT about it(luckily,he don't drinks alcohol anymore🥲🥲🥲)but I didn't have a relathionship yet,so if you're right,maybe it's gonna affect my relathionship,but let's hope not
Comment from : @AlzbetaBodzarova-ot9qc

I recently got eith my first gf and she always says im the nicest person shes ever met im surprised by how willful she is based on the things shes gone through they are some of the worst things ever Im so happy she is such a nice girl
Comment from : @LlamaGaming4

38 years old, always felt rejected and abandoned by the girls I dated Being myself was never enough for them regardless of how I treated them or what I could bring to the table Now I've just given up on the idea of love
Comment from : @covidoff

You know it's serious when you got 3/4 of them
Comment from : @jtytgt2

hearing that people that suffer from betrayal trauma tend to justify their abusers actions reminded of some one close to me brand my first reaction was "no, what they were doing to me was not bad, why would you think that"br"they gave me good things, it was not bad"
Comment from : @Pasta_bath

I have serious abandonment issues I'm afraid of starting therapy
Comment from : @rustyfox5261

I have 2 of this
Comment from : @Isaiah-y6y

This was all about those who had parents, who got to stay with their families but what about those who went into the system? Those who never had parents/had parents but had a brief time living with them before leaving ie 2 years after becoming conscious at age 5 with no knowledge of anything?brbrEdit* I like the video about the trauma and relationships but I feel that those who went into the foster care system were kind of left out but maybe abandonment can explain it a bit but still feels like that aspect was left out maybe I'm just overthinking and overanalyzing it
Comment from : @xanthekeyblademaster6968

Thank you kindly for making this video I am trying to research and understand my own trauma This helps and is informative brMay Jesus bless you
Comment from : @jessicaruth521

This video really helps me see childhood with an unbiased frane of mind As I compare my experiences im not seeing myself as a victim but as someone who can overcome which has been my goal at every point of my journey Thanks so much for these videos!!
Comment from : @jmcalpine8421

Kurna szkoda że traumy są strasznie trudne w pokonywaniu ich
Comment from : @janwojtusiak6145

The Pokémon badges at 0:27 Psych2go artist has got TASTE
Comment from : @Original_t31

what if i dont have any trauma but i relate to most of these things
Comment from : @jackryddd

DAMN, i have all these trauma's That's maybe why i feel like i am going insane
Comment from : @M4dness_72

Thank u sm for making these videos, i cry during them bcs i can finally feel understood
Comment from : @dahy8040

My mom feels she has too control my finances even though I'm 52 years old recently I started getting very sick of her having too know everything about my finances even though I'm soon too become a billionaire but my mom will never know because of all the abuse I suffered from her
Comment from : @Adam-l5o5f

give us solution not problems😣
Comment from : @RaviWasnik-sm5ib

Wow I went through all that at tbh I totally hate my family 😢
Comment from : @Fkisa04

Bloody hell it's so right it's not funny
Comment from : @landonaustin711

Rejection Trauma You feel jealous, guilty, ashamed and socially embarassed You feel socially unacceptable in some way 2) Abandonment Trauma Did you feel unsafe at home as a result of neglect or abuse? Lack of supervision? You felt abandoned Results in the formation of an anxious attachment style Hypervigilant Worrried whether your partner will stay Personality disorders that include feeling such as anxious, fearful and angry 3) Betrayal trauma You feel deeply betrayed by someone you loved and depended on A friend, parents or partner cheated You may have trouble accepting it or believing it so you disassociate, become dependent, too afraid to leave 4) Humiliation trauma Toxic shame Did your parents make you deeply ashamed of yourself? Did you feel mocked? humiliated? You may have developed coping mechanisms i) Moving away, (Isolating, keeping secrets) ii) Moving towards, iii) Moving against shame
Comment from : @Dorothy35

I struggle a lot with my relationships and emotional stability often going in panic attacks and lack of controlmy partner is loving and kind but each day i can see him getting more and more exhausted from my burdens I now see i have collected all of these types througout my childhood and i don't know how to deal with it It's like swimming against the currentbrRejection and abandonment were done by my first "friends" when they left me because i was too emotional and later on the same pattern kept repeating Betreyal done by my parents' divorce that wounded the child (for years i blamed myself for it too) and humiliation by people from school and my own father's harsh way of "fixing me" and my mother's constant desire to always be "the best and perfect"brNow here I am 20 years old almost an adult failing university because of this fear of betrayal and humiliation and constantly needing too much and worrying a person who truly loves melife can be tough sometimes
Comment from : @Ann_Z

This made me cry, it makes sense now Prob contributes to why I don’t want children, why I always feel alone even when surrounded by people and why I feel like the world is against me
Comment from : @katieklein-i5h

When will my wife ever see that I’m not her father? It’s so painful to be projected on, told what a bad, untrustworthy, selfish, inconsiderate guy I am I’m recovering from my own trauma and as I work through my own pain I find myself able to stay more grounded in myself when she turns against me but she has so much power to hurt me so deeply, even make me believe that I’m the guy she sees me as I keep trying to love her through it since I know she is in pain and just doesn’t see that she’s acting out of her trauma But sometimes I worry we’re not going to make it because at times she’s just so insistent on her seemingly distorted perspective I worry that it will lead her out of our marriage It can be so hard to keep my head on straight and equally hard to find good advice Maybe it’s just that no one knows how to navigate this stuff very well I love her and I do trust that eventually she will let down her guard and let me in, and we have made some slow progress over time, but it is so painful when she puts up walls and shuts me out especially without any awareness of what she is doing What is the way through? Just time and faith? And continuing to work on my own healing? I’m often at a loss but about as committed as I could possibly be
Comment from : @midlifemystic

i have bpd and cant think what triggered it i have shut off
Comment from : @kimmaddison8686

The fact that I relate to the first and third one hit close to homebrbrAs a young kid, my parents fought alot And that caused me to in a stressful situation which caused me to dissociate from reality and imagine myself in a safe space brbrAnd because now I'm often spiritually neglected from dad due to him spending time with his gf, I tend to overthink that I'm not important to my friends and that they just see me as the "annoying sunshine girl" or something like that
Comment from : @dokidokiloverkitty6806

This is really important information, especially when you get in a relationship with someone who was severely abused
Comment from : @Squishy876

I got all these problems 😭
Comment from : @LucasAnderson-cl2cm

Been thru all 3 traumas 😢
Comment from : @aycaerakbas980

The thing is I have all these symptoms, but I'm still unsure what I have is childhood trauma or not because articles only talk about the effect of parents in your childhood My parents were amazing, so the other aspects that may cause childhood trauma are underdeveloped So I'm not sure anymore I wish there were more research regarding something other than parents' effect on children, but other effects Ofc there are, but I wish there were more, and more often
Comment from : @thedying_insidelady

Oh cool all of them
Comment from : @amaz0nsmash

I'm the 666
Comment from : @magoshyyem7436

all of the above am i cooked?
Comment from : @This_not_a_robotRobot

I just think these are interesting lol
Comment from : @blankinganimals5393

🥱 This is some disingenuous nonsense Straight up lies
Comment from : @happythoughts3423

My parents fought a lot when I was a little and they still do but I can only remember that I was a very hyper kid Does that count as a coping mechanism? Was i trying to distract myself?
Comment from : @kingsleyemeka8792

A vídeo about all of my trauma
Comment from : @TATZELWURMFORSAKEN

Mmmmmm yep, Rejection Trauma would explain a LOT about why and how I handled my last relationship Well, at least I can put a name to it now and add another thing to work on in my therapy session today
Comment from : @Nocturnis

this video helped me realize the type of trauma I have after years of trying to figure out what the hell happened to me and why I cant the way I do Thank you
Comment from : @force2162