Title | : | 4 Types of Trauma u0026 How It Impacts Your Relationship |
Lasting | : | 7.36 |
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Views | : | 375 rb |
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I would love to watch this without that awful background music Comment from : @tkmfischerman2582 |
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You know your cooked when your all of these💀 Comment from : @hisui-mw6wm |
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i mean they got well ok ok shhhhhh ill just be ok Comment from : @matthewnelson9809 |
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a time a hour we got Comment from : @matthewnelson9809 |
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hummmm seem Comment from : @matthewnelson9809 |
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In kind worse screw ypu i didnt think id hear my own words "fear of being alone again" being used lordy that ahouldnt of hit so hard Comment from : @brightplaysgames8760 |
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haaa if only being in a relationship was anything i could have in this life Comment from : @diladrin3733 |
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My partner… Comment from : @ReshiramMage1992 |
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Im scared my twinflame is scared to meet me because i have not been acting in the best manor I keep have troubling communicating with just regular people that are physically in my life now I dont want that to affect his opinon about me Im on a spiritual journey and my third eye is open I just dont know how to get past all the trauma No matter how many times i go to therapy it dosnt help it just makes me more upset I even written over 200 pages journaling and it still doesnt make the pain go away How can someone love someone so broken Comment from : @KristyannBurgazoli |
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Amen we will over come Comment from : @SonicFromNorthCounty |
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idk why when i watchbthis video i start crying :")brbecause i realted to all of the trauma Comment from : @faizahfitriah9124 |
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We’re all wounded but some are not aware or wanna do the job Comment from : @TathjianaIslas |
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Why was i feeling like the whole video was talking about me ahah😅 Comment from : @alyssia_Rousseau |
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I can't Comment from : @damnablethief |
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I am suffering from the rejection and betrayal trauma and I just have to put more efforts into anything I'm very tired, if I'll talk to my partner today I'm gonna tell him about these but now also I'm afraid to be rejected 😞brJoy Maa❤✨ Comment from : @vaishnavi09876 |
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I feel like I got all of those Comment from : @MLFv2 |
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Middle child attendance 🤚🏻brbr( I'm a middle child and I have felt these things ) Comment from : @TishaPatel-nr1mw |
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Damn I got all 4 Comment from : @jjlee9316 |
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you should build (( emotional mental strength )) that’s all Comment from : @Sara-cf8xf |
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Got diagnosed with ptsd and bpd tdy Literally all 4 forms of trauma Comment from : @BorderlineCrashOut |
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Bingo! What was the prize again? Comment from : @averyexe9809 |
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i’m so sorry Havana Comment from : @MasterMarble |
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wow i wish i knew all this before:( Comment from : @MasterMarble |
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Why did I watch this video, I don't even have a relationship yet XD Comment from : @leiocerayt |
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I find this topic very interesting since it is good to spread this information, in my psychology class it is very useful Comment from : @cielodimas1960 |
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Well I have everyone of these Avoidance is the key to survival until death comes Buncha bipedal monster walking around out there Comment from : @BigSadSky |
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Rejection trauma ✓brAbandonment trauma ✓ → anxious attachmentbrBetrayal trauma ✓brHumiliation trauma ✓brHow can I live?:) Comment from : @theblackest0 |
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Have all of these, some more than others Great video too Comment from : @Allie-bc6ff |
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Jesus… I’m screwed 😔brUghhhhhh Comment from : @lilibby1844 |
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im not supposed to have all of these right? cuz I definitely do Comment from : @whokilledrox |
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Damn im glad im not alone, I've have experienced all of the traumas 😢 Comment from : @medusa3439 |
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I'm still trying to heal from childhood trauma #a4bquadzi Comment from : @QuadziFbaby |
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Watching this hurts Comment from : @seamusewell-lw2rg |
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I have betryal trauma Comment from : @rishikaagarwal4526 |
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Drinking and over eating is what gets me My father would tell me things he was doing behind my mom and i would tell her and he would not acknowledge the cheating he told me about or the date he took me on disguised as a daddy son day Comment from : @kendellhernandez238 |
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Why do I relate to all but humiliation trama Comment from : @Fruitloopps |
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When you realize you suffer from all of these Comment from : @Jasonslittlesister1 |
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Well, this explains mebrSadly, I did this to my kids I hate so much that I can't change the damage I've done I'm sorry, isn't enough Comment from : @angiejones968 |
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I wish I could time travel Comment from : @Wildbat24 |
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Wow experienced all of these and the wounds are felt like being revisited till date in certain situationsbrThe responses are so chaotic and I end up hurting myself and feel unworthy Comment from : @saswatisasmal |
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This is so interesting Comment from : @GrubKiller436 |
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All of them and I just want it to end! Comment from : @trwn87 |
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What’s the music in the background called at 0:00? Comment from : @rayhaanmohammed3350 |
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The music is very scary It's 11pm and I'm really creeped by the music Comment from : @themintygreensdiscoveringy2655 |
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I feel so heard ,for the first time in my life! Comment from : @qwertyyuiop7023 |
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Is It normal that i relate to all this descriptions?? Comment from : @JoyCat333 |
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Im so tired Comment from : @Gentlesoul11 |
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It's actually not a parent who made me feel this,, it's a teacher and my siblings well maybe my mom because she was saying that I should've study hard because I only got a 88 total grade last year Comment from : @user_dumpydump12 |
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I’m watching this to understand my partner and make them feel uncomfortable and accepted around me Comment from : @Kitty_Sana3 |
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When I was 3yrs old,I remember that my dad had serious alcohol problems,and my mom told me that he and my mom argued A LOT about it(luckily,he don't drinks alcohol anymore🥲🥲🥲)but I didn't have a relathionship yet,so if you're right,maybe it's gonna affect my relathionship,but let's hope not Comment from : @AlzbetaBodzarova-ot9qc |
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I recently got eith my first gf and she always says im the nicest person shes ever met im surprised by how willful she is based on the things shes gone through they are some of the worst things ever Im so happy she is such a nice girl Comment from : @LlamaGaming4 |
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38 years old, always felt rejected and abandoned by the girls I dated Being myself was never enough for them regardless of how I treated them or what I could bring to the table Now I've just given up on the idea of love Comment from : @covidoff |
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You know it's serious when you got 3/4 of them Comment from : @jtytgt2 |
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hearing that people that suffer from betrayal trauma tend to justify their abusers actions reminded of some one close to me brand my first reaction was "no, what they were doing to me was not bad, why would you think that"br"they gave me good things, it was not bad" Comment from : @Pasta_bath |
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I have serious abandonment issues I'm afraid of starting therapy Comment from : @rustyfox5261 |
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I have 2 of this Comment from : @Isaiah-y6y |
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This was all about those who had parents, who got to stay with their families but what about those who went into the system? Those who never had parents/had parents but had a brief time living with them before leaving ie 2 years after becoming conscious at age 5 with no knowledge of anything?brbrEdit* I like the video about the trauma and relationships but I feel that those who went into the foster care system were kind of left out but maybe abandonment can explain it a bit but still feels like that aspect was left out maybe I'm just overthinking and overanalyzing it Comment from : @xanthekeyblademaster6968 |
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Thank you kindly for making this video I am trying to research and understand my own trauma This helps and is informative brMay Jesus bless you Comment from : @jessicaruth521 |
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This video really helps me see childhood with an unbiased frane of mind As I compare my experiences im not seeing myself as a victim but as someone who can overcome which has been my goal at every point of my journey Thanks so much for these videos!! Comment from : @jmcalpine8421 |
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Kurna szkoda że traumy są strasznie trudne w pokonywaniu ich Comment from : @janwojtusiak6145 |
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The Pokémon badges at 0:27 Psych2go artist has got TASTE Comment from : @Original_t31 |
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what if i dont have any trauma but i relate to most of these things Comment from : @jackryddd |
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DAMN, i have all these trauma's That's maybe why i feel like i am going insane Comment from : @M4dness_72 |
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Thank u sm for making these videos, i cry during them bcs i can finally feel understood Comment from : @dahy8040 |
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My mom feels she has too control my finances even though I'm 52 years old recently I started getting very sick of her having too know everything about my finances even though I'm soon too become a billionaire but my mom will never know because of all the abuse I suffered from her Comment from : @Adam-l5o5f |
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give us solution not problems😣 Comment from : @RaviWasnik-sm5ib |
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Wow I went through all that at tbh I totally hate my family 😢 Comment from : @Fkisa04 |
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Bloody hell it's so right it's not funny Comment from : @landonaustin711 |
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Rejection Trauma You feel jealous, guilty, ashamed and socially embarassed You feel socially unacceptable in some way 2) Abandonment Trauma Did you feel unsafe at home as a result of neglect or abuse? Lack of supervision? You felt abandoned Results in the formation of an anxious attachment style Hypervigilant Worrried whether your partner will stay Personality disorders that include feeling such as anxious, fearful and angry 3) Betrayal trauma You feel deeply betrayed by someone you loved and depended on A friend, parents or partner cheated You may have trouble accepting it or believing it so you disassociate, become dependent, too afraid to leave 4) Humiliation trauma Toxic shame Did your parents make you deeply ashamed of yourself? Did you feel mocked? humiliated? You may have developed coping mechanisms i) Moving away, (Isolating, keeping secrets) ii) Moving towards, iii) Moving against shame Comment from : @Dorothy35 |
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I struggle a lot with my relationships and emotional stability often going in panic attacks and lack of controlmy partner is loving and kind but each day i can see him getting more and more exhausted from my burdens I now see i have collected all of these types througout my childhood and i don't know how to deal with it It's like swimming against the currentbrRejection and abandonment were done by my first "friends" when they left me because i was too emotional and later on the same pattern kept repeating Betreyal done by my parents' divorce that wounded the child (for years i blamed myself for it too) and humiliation by people from school and my own father's harsh way of "fixing me" and my mother's constant desire to always be "the best and perfect"brNow here I am 20 years old almost an adult failing university because of this fear of betrayal and humiliation and constantly needing too much and worrying a person who truly loves melife can be tough sometimes Comment from : @Ann_Z |
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This made me cry, it makes sense now Prob contributes to why I don’t want children, why I always feel alone even when surrounded by people and why I feel like the world is against me Comment from : @katieklein-i5h |
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When will my wife ever see that I’m not her father? It’s so painful to be projected on, told what a bad, untrustworthy, selfish, inconsiderate guy I am I’m recovering from my own trauma and as I work through my own pain I find myself able to stay more grounded in myself when she turns against me but she has so much power to hurt me so deeply, even make me believe that I’m the guy she sees me as I keep trying to love her through it since I know she is in pain and just doesn’t see that she’s acting out of her trauma But sometimes I worry we’re not going to make it because at times she’s just so insistent on her seemingly distorted perspective I worry that it will lead her out of our marriage It can be so hard to keep my head on straight and equally hard to find good advice Maybe it’s just that no one knows how to navigate this stuff very well I love her and I do trust that eventually she will let down her guard and let me in, and we have made some slow progress over time, but it is so painful when she puts up walls and shuts me out especially without any awareness of what she is doing What is the way through? Just time and faith? And continuing to work on my own healing? I’m often at a loss but about as committed as I could possibly be Comment from : @midlifemystic |
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i have bpd and cant think what triggered it i have shut off Comment from : @kimmaddison8686 |
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The fact that I relate to the first and third one hit close to homebrbrAs a young kid, my parents fought alot And that caused me to in a stressful situation which caused me to dissociate from reality and imagine myself in a safe space brbrAnd because now I'm often spiritually neglected from dad due to him spending time with his gf, I tend to overthink that I'm not important to my friends and that they just see me as the "annoying sunshine girl" or something like that Comment from : @dokidokiloverkitty6806 |
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This is really important information, especially when you get in a relationship with someone who was severely abused Comment from : @Squishy876 |
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I got all these problems 😭 Comment from : @LucasAnderson-cl2cm |
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Been thru all 3 traumas 😢 Comment from : @aycaerakbas980 |
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The thing is I have all these symptoms, but I'm still unsure what I have is childhood trauma or not because articles only talk about the effect of parents in your childhood My parents were amazing, so the other aspects that may cause childhood trauma are underdeveloped So I'm not sure anymore I wish there were more research regarding something other than parents' effect on children, but other effects Ofc there are, but I wish there were more, and more often Comment from : @thedying_insidelady |
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Oh cool all of them Comment from : @amaz0nsmash |
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I'm the 666 Comment from : @magoshyyem7436 |
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all of the above am i cooked? Comment from : @This_not_a_robotRobot |
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I just think these are interesting lol Comment from : @blankinganimals5393 |
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🥱 This is some disingenuous nonsense Straight up lies Comment from : @happythoughts3423 |
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My parents fought a lot when I was a little and they still do but I can only remember that I was a very hyper kid Does that count as a coping mechanism? Was i trying to distract myself? Comment from : @kingsleyemeka8792 |
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A vídeo about all of my trauma Comment from : @TATZELWURMFORSAKEN |
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Mmmmmm yep, Rejection Trauma would explain a LOT about why and how I handled my last relationship Well, at least I can put a name to it now and add another thing to work on in my therapy session today Comment from : @Nocturnis |
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this video helped me realize the type of trauma I have after years of trying to figure out what the hell happened to me and why I cant the way I do Thank you Comment from : @force2162 |
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i have all 4 traumas and i dont know if i'll ever be able to address them Comment from : @wendiwillziz |
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thank you 🙏♥️ Comment from : @Ammar_369 |
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