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Societal Expectations and Inner Desires: The Complex Dynamics of Motivation

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Help us to reach more parents and teachers: patreoncom/sprouts Comment from : @sprouts

Do things out of intrinsic motivation But also be sensitive enough to know what others seek from you After all, it is an opportunity to bring smile to their face 😉 Comment from : @nothinginteresting1662

Very nice Comment from : @NehaMishra-ok9yx

Heart Comment from : @lio9330

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Need to balance both Comment from : @vijendarnandimalla1383

Wow i feel like Tom Comment from : @RoshawnRoshawn

The third option: do everything for Ai 🤖 Comment from : @SleptDeadA9

Who's both? Comment from : @ledhicks

Informative Comment from : @charmainesewellrichards1676

How do parents expose their kids to multiple expressions and creativities? Comment from : @BZ007

Mira being every asian kid ever😭 Comment from : @abby4679

Very helpful video Appreciate the work! Comment from : @41RADON14

I'm invigorated by the transformative essence of this material A book with like content inspired change and growth "Dominating Your Clock: Strategies for Professional and Personal Success" by Anthony Rivers Comment from : @CandyLemon36

This is vibrant content A book I read of the same vibe was equally dynamic "The Art of Meaningful Relationships in the 21st Century" by Leo Flint Comment from : @JoeM370

I'll tell my kids do your best or try or try your best, you don't have to be the best or top of the class or have amazing grades, you can have from really good to good to average grades or whatever and it'll be cool Comment from : @utilisateurutilisateur6800

I was the 2end girl😊 I was alone and as everything has been choosen for me by others I could never learn how to impose my opinion and choose Comment from : @YuliaGrushevskaya-bi6he

really really Really REALLY GOOD ONE! Comment from : @lucasmin3757

This is such a good videochef's kiss Comment from : @farmcottage5404

I’m Tom Comment from : @maloneaqua

I relate to Tom Comment from : @deepwaters7242

This is great! Thanks for the video!brWhat application do you use for this? Comment from : @veranath6062

Hooray! Comment from : @bentadog

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No mountain retains glory Unalike the power and Majesty of asubway Comment from : @gavin4981

I grew up by single parent and don't know about socity need Attitude, little bit connect with socity but lern from 💓 Still I grew by inner strength Comment from : @saileshy3050

why i feel like fit into both stories yet not lean on one side fully ? Comment from : @ashwinikumar1946

Verbal praise that is not expected by the recipient improves motivation Material rewards do not Comment from : @glenc5185

That first quote their is brilliant, perfectly summing up the reasons why people work Comment from : @Danthatsgoodmusic

How Extrinsic and Intrinsic Motivation are the same process brAlthough the metaphorical reality of need states and intrinsic and extrinsic motivation is accepted in personality psychology and allied disciplines such as social psychology and economics, in learning theory, it is not Indeed, modern neurologically grounded learning or incentive motivation theory has long abandoned concepts of need or drive, and unified theories of reinforcement of reward reject the bifurcation of motivation into intrinsic/extrinsic, operant/respondent, voluntary/involuntary processes in favor of single process models which can explain all behavior without loss brThe position is epitomized by the research of the distinguished learning theorist and affective neuroscientist Kent Berridge of the University of Michigan, whose article on reward learning is linked below Also linked below is my version of this article and its practical implications for a lay audience, reviewed and endorsed by Dr Berridge in its preface A precis of my argument is on pp 57-63 br‘A Mouse’s Tale’ Incentive motivation theory for a lay audience from the perspective of modern affective neuroscience wwwscribdcom/document/495438436/A-Mouse-s-Tale-a-practical-explanation-and-handbook-of-motivation-from-the-perspective-of-a-humble-creature brBerridge article on history of learning theory wwwscribdcom/document/447163649/Berridge-Reward-Learning-Incentives-and-Expectations brBerridge Lab, University of Michigan siteslsaumichedu/berridge-lab/ Comment from : @ajmarr5671

A balance of intrinsic and extrinsic motivation is definitely needed Comment from : @lookinsidecreativity

I don't believe this individuals dont find task's either inherintly or intrinsically motivating, br brI think intrinsic motivators are more like Maslow's heirarchy of needs brMeanwhile extrinsic motivators provide value to the ones around you br brWhat happend is Tom completly disregards his psychological needs brdilludes himself into getting esteem from selfish tasks which only build softskills br brMira neglects her basic needs (mostly rest) and saftey needs (never feels secure) brpushing herself too far to please others thinking she can achieve anything she puts brher mind to br brThe idea that we acomplish tasks via intrinsic/extrinsic motivation is more like:br brTom sees somone that is great at something reciving external reward, believes brhe can get 'that good' He does that task irregardless of external motivation as brif he has reached that skill level: its as if he recived them rewards - giving him a feeling of brfaux self esteem However he neglects his psychological needs as noone actually showsbrhim love / gives him a sense of acomplishment Thinking when im 'X' good ill do thisbror that br brMira knows that people will reward her if she acomplishes x or y so she does all brshe can to execute it and for them to notice Sacrificing her basic needs for physilogicalbrneeds Thinking i can rest later ill be safe laterbrbrTom ends up selfish and mira ends up selflessbrSo if maybe we just make sure our basic needs brare met and we do all we can to enrich the lifes brof others in the left over time weyll be fine, meeting our full potential Comment from : @madhousemusic3

John Holloway here I been working with Shirley Clay and she been motivating me Comment from : @johnholloway1363

As a new parent this was great Comment from : @thomasshakelton

It's like the nature of goalsbrIt's nice to have both mastery goals (aka the willingness to learn from an activity) and performance goals (aka the willingness to prove your ability) brAt the beginning i couldn't understand the importance of performance goals and the impact they have on our behavior, but i realized that we live in a society so our behavior is linked with our society in some way Comment from : @ESC-ju8xr

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Can someone explain why and how money undermine motivation? I thought it boosts it How can one balance it if it truly undercuts motivation? Comment from : @pardesipunjabi1493

I was hoping they would end up together , and they DID! Comment from : @yuiitodoro7791

Mira is a good girl, Tom is a bad boy So says me, an Asian man Comment from : @John_Smith_86

Can we just appreciate the little story about Mira and Tom real quick? XD That was really cool Comment from : @cameronsanchez2204

Thanks for the review Comment from : @muskduh

if you learn do what you have to today , tomorrow you'll be able to do whatever and however you wantLEARN TO ENJOY LEARNING AND YOUR LIFE WILL NEVER BE BORINGSOCIETY IS JUST A GAME, TO TAKE YOUR ATTENTION OFF THE OBJECTIVE ATTENTION PAYS THOSE WHO PAY ATTENTIONnot tuition lmao Comment from : @stevendelgado5654

I am a lot Like Comment from : @warai309

My heart Comment from : @khatabomar5141

When they got together🥺 Comment from : @mariamelshayeb6734

PAYYYY YOUR GAD DAM EMPLOYEES SPROUTS Comment from : @cjwarrior16

Its a balance of them, to be creative whilst understanding what society expects and also find what interests you Its not an either or situation, its more complicated than that Some people are more creative than others and some are more grounded than the rest Comment from : @thepvporg

Wow, you're one video taught me more about my workout problems than a million workout motivation videos Comment from : @senister14

I deeply sympathize with Mira Comment from : @ElleanneCirci222

So now I realise I’m more extrinsically motivated in doing my physics and maths degree, because I needed to do well in it and get the good feedback to get my degree; but I can be intrinsically motivated to solve puzzles (including maths problems), and even more so in learning random facts (mostly about video games, board games, fandoms, train routes, etc) I’ll search this up by myself, even at the cost of my time that I needed to spend on my degreebr…which can be quite the issue, especially when I know I should fulfil my responsibility, but I’m more motivated in my interestsbrAlso it’s interesting to note that one might be more extrinsically motivated to do something than intrinsically motivated to once rewards are given and there are responsibilities to bear, which might be what happened to my degree subject for me One would start to do it for the reward instead of doing it out of pure interest, and when the reward’s reduced, so is the motivation Is it hard to find that “sweet spot” in the two? Comment from : @cappilau7448

Besides motivation being intrinsic or extrinsic, it call also be positive or negative Both negative intrinsic and negative extrinsic motivation can affect self-esteem In the case of Tom getting no feedback from his parents when younger, this is effectively negative motivation, for example There is a saying that goes "the beatings will stop when morale improves!" Comment from : @williamfleming1386

Good Video Comment from : @bradalexander6252

Oh my god I am Tom Comment from : @maillardsbearcat

Mira is like me, and tom is like me, too Comment from : @zakitasnim

Why be happy when you can be interesting?- Slavoj Zizek Comment from : @charlesdahmital8095

And thank you for all your efforts Comment from : @satyamgupta165

I really relate to Tom I spent a lot of time alone as a child playing with simple open ended toys But received little feedback on anything and didn’t socialise with other kids because my highly religious parents believed we needed to separate ourselves from society to not be influenced by "the world" I consider myself intelligent but struggle to fit into society and the things I do or enjoy seem weird to others I’m reasonably happy as an adult but I don’t care about other people unfortunately Comment from : @charliepeterson1745

Both heart and society Comment from : @saksho511

This video is so thought provoking but what can one do if they have somewhat grown up like Mira and are clueless about their interests and future? It's not like they have the same amount of time to explore and have Tom's childhood with some genuine feedback again Comment from : @kazutok7782

Me : never been to school 😭😭😭brbrbrbrbrbrbrbrbrbrbrbrbrbrbrbrbrbrbrbrbrbrbrbrbrbrbrbrbrbrbrbrbrbrbrbrbrbrbrbrbrbrbrbrbrbrbrbrbrbrbr😜 Comment from : @NatsJoji

21 years old tom is exactly me Comment from : @hassaankhan5964

When asked what is the most difficult thing in life, my ans has always been the same: Finding a balance Comment from : @mrtransmogrify

I do believe balancing both is an ideal but most times one tends to override the other hence some people are more extrinsically motivated than intrinsically vise versa great video gives pure insight Comment from : @Kingm77i

Extrinsic motivation is basically the Asian society, for kids before university at least Comment from : @wolfy8006

I wanted to go into accounting but my father told me to take biology and now I am in med school The experience right now is just uncertain I am starting to have second thoughts as my mind diverts when I am no longer around the books After my own assessment, I have to be honest at least for the readers of this comment, the decision to study medicine was more of driven by the social voices and the interests of my parents Despite this, I am very much satisfied when I quench my inherent curiosity and expand my mind through aquiring the information pertaining the inner mechanics around me It is like exploring a whole new system of pathways that I personally believe humans could never have progressed to design themselves Comment from : @daniyalfarooq4475

I am that boy Better for me but not for my mother Comment from : @periodpiece8495

I have been a Mira in my life Comment from : @AK-be9gn

Currently holding a Phd in motivation 🤌🏻 Comment from : @bagyaaluthge3111

I’m like mira ): Comment from : @justsarah8573

I am in this situation now Inshallah i can listen to myself Comment from : @aservant1284

2:00, 3:42 Nice ending The elaboration of opposites! :) Comment from : @selfelements8037

Gosh, i hate being a Mira because it feels like you are sentenced to a prison you want but can't leave Comment from : @crios8307

I listen to my heart and use society to get what I want in life Comment from : @waterishardcore101

I listen to my heart, but I know how to appear to adapt to situations that societal “normalcy” Comment from : @nellyt3926

Dude that was dark, don't use this channel as your public psychology treatment Comment from : @444haluk

Did you just steal my identity? Tom is me lol Comment from : @BrandonNinja

Balance, balance in everything! Comment from : @Anglaide

Is my smartphone broken? Comment from : @shoos4785

now my life makes much more sense! Comment from : @micheldanghong5150

This is so relatableI think this channel deserves much moree! Comment from : @drmrenalk7873

May I ask which app or website can make this kind of video, plz? Comment from : @changwayin6801

I'm all heart, but understand there are societal demands Comment from : @nicolethetrainer3871

I relate so much to Tom, still, I don't find not fitting into society bad Comment from : @nouraa9958

Totally relates to mebut not very intelligent brbrAmazing work from the team Comment from : @sanjubhargav767

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