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Building a life from ZERO - Married without Wealth - Mufti Menk

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what is your job? what is your salary? your education level? how much savings? car's brand? own house?
Comment from : @TReX88147

zina is halal and marriage is haram
Comment from : @umarhassan896

The person who I want to marry dosent have a car or a house He is under parental care like me
Comment from : @ZahrahYoung

Whats wrong ya sheikh how do you allow to post a woman
Comment from : @jelebiaofficial9977

I live in big city and can’t get over the mindset if I can’t afford certain lifestyle I can’t get happily married
Comment from : @TraPortal007

Dear Mufti, You really know the reality by the mercy of Allah, you have stolen words of my heart
Comment from : @HilalAhmed-cs1ct

Assalam alaikum warahmotuullahi wabarakatuh Please sir I want to marry someone but, am thinking about his education level
Comment from : @ganiyattaiwo

Ugly and broke man should stay away from marriagebrbrbrbrbrbrWhy you want to get married with worldly women if allah will give us hoors in jannahbrbrFocus on ibadah only
Comment from : @zultrax7496

I want to marry a girl and she has good character and follows DeenbrBut the girls comes from a poor family background and her brother's went to jail and have some not so good name in the societybrBut the girls is very innocent and I want to marry herbrMy family is not agreeing to marry with her because of her family backgroundbrWhat should I do ?brPlease guide me
Comment from : @Aryanss5743

Ustad, I've watch many vidoes about marriage by several ustads, but all of them are advice toward young people What about older single people like in their 40s (and financially not stable yet due to many reasons) ?
Comment from : @maxhadrian8680

Many poor people even dont have any manner and conduct, they will ruin you , better you go for who is wealthy and take responsibility, rather than someone who after marriage always keep an eye on the girls things
Comment from : @babydoll9354

Thats not true i disagree
Comment from : @youssefabad2193

After marrying my partner why am I not being able to earn money?
Comment from : @SumaiyaFahmida-h9z

I am a recent revert and my family is not supportive I want to marry but my parents say that i am too young (im about to be 22) and they like him for me but they dont like our financial situation Please make dua for me I dont want to fall into temptation
Comment from : @makeyahguy2538

Perfect!!! 🎉🎉🎉🔥🔥🔥 most of the woman who hear this !!! There hypocrossy harts Burnsss 🔥🔥🔥
Comment from : @kandaharanar2091

Assalamualaikum brAlhamdhulillah at marriage time we are together with hope in Allah that he will provide rizqbrbrAlhamdhulillah now our life far better than before 2 yearsbrOur life is progressing fastly which we ever imaginedbr Always I'm thankful to Allah for these blessings
Comment from : @studybuz

With out money its very difficult sheikhdeen and character alone will not help
Comment from : @RFALI7

Assalam alaikum I have a question brCan u marry a guy who is not ready to spent in your wedding day
Comment from : @JainabaSonko-hl5ym

quran requirement kursi at least
Comment from : @KOl-xj4jt

There this guy i met who is very religious and prays and knows alot about islam and i see him as a perfect future husband and i think he would be a pefect father figure he respect me very much he is always respectful and sweet and he has an amazing character and i do wanna meet him he live in a different country he can’t visit my country which is an issue and my parents are kinda very strict with me i wanna to get engaged to him and marry him but idk how to tell my parents i know they would never let me move abroad and get engaged to him and the fact that he is not well off either would be big no to them i truly do not care about the material stuff i really want a religious man so badly in my city there barely in religious man and i want a man to push me to my deen and i want to practice with him our deen i see him as a perfect husband and i truly want him so what should i do? I do want us to work on the money thing together i dont mind but i know my parents would be extremely against it
Comment from : @Adashisan_1

BismillahbrWe should accept anyone who was destinied to be our spouse that has been written in Lauh Mahfudz The important thing is deen and akhlak (1), responsible to us (0), we like him/her a lot (love for the sake of Allah)(0)
Comment from : @elvirawidyatiofficial6247

95 percent of parents are gold diggers
Comment from : @ahmedmohamed-on9lf

the vast majority of the older generation is like this I've accepted marriage wont happen for me, I'm too poor
Comment from : @Mike-eg3he

Hmm its ❤broken & 😢 sad &anxiety your a good brother but not good for my daughter😢 but god knows turn me away today but mabe tom i might find my resting❤
Comment from : @DannyRahim-kk4lr

What is even more important than wealth itself is being with someone you see building a future with, even if you're building that future from scratch Wealth is temporary, a person's character is not
Comment from : @SandraStachowiczLtd

My name Is Solomon I am not married I currently have a daughter and I’ve have been ready to get married with my spouse Micah for 3yrs now we never had the money to get married and I always wanted to do it the right way, I was actually thinking of just proposing without a ring until I get the money so that I wouldn’t sin under gods name any longer and rightfully respect him and my wifei cherish my family but I want to do things the right way the way our ancestors did marriage not based off social media standardsalso I live in the united statesbrbrAny tips or thoughts would be very helpful
Comment from : @kingsolomon2402

MashaAllah
Comment from : @SkSk-mo8ll

Probably the best hadith you’ll ever hear 🤯 br brAws bin Aws narrated: brAllah's Messenger said to me: br"Whoever performs Ghusl on Friday, and brbathes completely, and goes early, brarriving early, gets close and listens and bris silent, there will be for him in every brstep he take the reward of a year of brfasting and standing (in prayer) br brAt-Tirmidhi (496) brSahih hadith
Comment from : @DaVHarres

I really want to married, but people in here be likebr"You don't have this, you don't have that"
Comment from : @TheBlackLionTv

💐🌸🏵🌹🥀🌺🌻🌼🌷⚘
Comment from : @nusratunnayem5157

Allah is the greatest!!!
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With all of a good intentions they have taught their children from a young age to be materialistic without even knowing it
Comment from : @suhailballim4159

You r right but I was rejected from anyone because I have no wealthy statuseveryone want money and wealthy status ,no matter they haven't good manners and din😢
Comment from : @zebashaikh6106

Here in our country parents give preference to those who work for minimum wages than those who are way more educated
Comment from : @MohsinExperiments

These type of videos are very important
Comment from : @mariaaziz7442

true the old before start in zero
Comment from : @Irishvlogs37

MASHA ALLAH! Parents look for a much settled person in the Name of Allah as a Safe foundation for them to Grow together
Comment from : @zaharanashiraz2172

Great advice 💪🏻
Comment from : @Aveoplus

Dear Mufti when I got married me and my husband had nothing, and I really do mean nothing We lived above a Chinese takeaway in one room I knew our situation wouldn't remain static though because we were both highly responsible and had a shared vision and goal to better ourselves We have been married 11 years and within the time managed to buy a house, further our careers and have been blessed with a daughter and son I can't say it's been easy and at times it still isn't but we as a couple are strong and remain committed to each other and our children Always remember Allah helps those who help themselves and others God bless x
Comment from : @faree38green

House , car , job certain people still need more dheen and akhlaq , they consider it the last and least Sir Mufti , can i talk to you?
Comment from : @drstrange2907

Marshallah
Comment from : @hajiamadammataanbala1121

Allah Hu Akbar
Comment from : @asifiqbal9607

Subhanallah
Comment from : @Adam-sp4hu

Sometimes even good looking matters
Comment from : @AkramBaig2689

A girl from Dubai fell for my younger son When he put b4 her his (fairly decent) income she took a U-turn! Cuz she's into fashion shows & modelling & shops without checking the price tagsbrAlhamdulillah good riddance!!
Comment from : @nahidsyyed906

Alhamdulillah my elder son married a girl whose fmly is well off but she was welcomed into our home without a penny or a pin!
Comment from : @nahidsyyed906

Exactly well said
Comment from : @suhaymahali815

Yes that's true married with Northington is better than sitting without marry n god will always bring good things because u waited Allah may Allah always bless us for what we have from him
Comment from : @fatounjie1998

This my point When you get married you get rizq automatically Don't just look for a guy or girl who has wealth or settled Life always starts scratch
Comment from : @AkramBaig2689

Salaams excellent topic be down to earth with wealth in your heart not wallet and enjoy with spouse today if no bank balance, car and fancy cell phone woman don't fancy you to marry a poor person you live a better life
Comment from : @adamkhader3326

Key words here are make sure he has iman and ihlaaq Ensure he does it’s hard to tell when you are young parents should be very active and careful Don’t marry a lost hope loser because he convinces you he will be able to build a life Money is import and should be looked at When u are young you hear what you want to hear Suitable men and women MUST have fear of Allah and awareness of Allah and this must be tried and tested by the girls family Also check has he been active or passive is he actually trying or using you to build a better life With women working more and more a lot of men are using women for their money too
Comment from : @javghyas1945

First time ever i see this man talks in favor of men
Comment from : @designcalligraphy7395

excellent points in these times, ma sha Allah
Comment from : @nazarasaid8645

I was just thinking about this as I've heard that people are married to others of they're financial status, and my thought was what I some one loves some one whom has Money, and or financial status and are they forbidden to Marry ? Now I ran across this at that exact time Let's See what you say on this subject
Comment from : @kayesmith9414

May Allah make it easy for all of us
Comment from : @ebuqble33

please make dua for me (Asma) i am a mother of 4 children, i need ur dua for me and my children and my husband brmy parents and my 2 brothers🤲🏻
Comment from : @AsmaAli-mq6xe

I want to talk with imam please if you can contact with me please
Comment from : @bellatylar7885

True love is the greatest wealth
Comment from : @wandaprock1015

I'll be honest I'd want from a girl someone who works and is bring in income along with myself Living in western countries like the UK it isn't easy getting a property on your own I do aim however to have a house as a investment and nice car for myself before marriage as I feel after marriage I might not have the money for it Main thing though is a good stable job which again ain't easy during this hard time with covid
Comment from : @zaink7037

Ya idk how u can expect some 1 to own a house in their 20s these days when houses are going for 500k to 1million plus, it's crazy
Comment from : @cyberspiral

Ya Allah Forgive Us
Comment from : @MuhammadFarhan

I really wish I had gotten married before building my wealth Once you make good money, you have to also look out for the women who only want to marry you for the money or lifestyle
Comment from : @ahmedalmahdi9254

100 brother and sister
Comment from : @Karodia786

I needed to hear this, I'm looking for a spouse, I have very little to offer material wise, I don't even have enough mehr, in sha allah I trust in Allah swt
Comment from : @nonsense9911

That was so beautifully put
Comment from : @Taqwatrain

Mufti Menk is somewhat on the right track here Houses truth be told are not meant to be owned as they become giant liabilities under the pretense of it being an inflationary hedgebrbrThe deeper problem is that 90 of the planet are barrelled into higher education and onwards to jobs placing them in earned income and the highest taxable position meaning whatever they get net, net gets dissolved in liabilities like houses, cars leaving them in a completely marginalised position and this is what brings the pressure on familiesbrbrAlways remember, your life is on lease, structure everything you know around thatbrbrAll the best
Comment from : @DrAAAli

Thank you sirbrMay Allah protect us all brAameen
Comment from : @esmanurcebe7054

Jazakum Allahu Khairan Shaikh Allah swt says: "aiyakunu fuqara yughnihumullaho min fadlih, wallaho wasiun saleem"
Comment from : @drmobarakali255

❤️❤️❤️
Comment from : @azakirdaudasejere3118

Maashaa Allah sheikh thanks so much
Comment from : @islamicyouthfoundation1039

Ya Rabbi, grant us a deeper understanding ameen
Comment from : @jusranada

Unfortunately people don't see iman and character of a person today What everyone want are looks and money not only in marriage but all worldly matters This is unfortunately the world we live in
Comment from : @adn7271

Each time i do a depression test on google the results are: severe depression brbrWhy ?brAnd i struggle so hard to seek help it’s really difficult for me
Comment from : @hayatelmernessi3737

That's true married with out wealth, it's good for everyone because Allaah gives you more riziq Some people don't do that a few people do that masha'allaah mufti and this women❤👏
Comment from : @othmanabdulkadir4030

It doesn’t matter what the women wants, her father won’t accept someone who is young without money!!! 🤦‍♀️ parents really ruin their kids life!!!!!!
Comment from : @lisal440

بہترین لوگ بہترین نیت رکھتے ہیںbrجسکی وجہ سے اللّٰہ تعالٰی انکے سارے کام سنوار دیتے ہیںbrاور جسکے کام رب سنوارتا ہےbrاسکے کام کوئی بندہ نہیں بگاڑ سکتاbri________________/i
Comment from : @sahibulamama

السلام علیکم
Comment from : @aayeshajahan1295

Who is she
Comment from : @yaarali7828

There should be a balance between spirituality and materialism Money is an important part of life but money is not life
Comment from : @khalidanoor8264