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We Do Not Build Men: 3 Things NO High-Value Woman Should EVER Do For A Man

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Thank you God bless you … I saw this video after I ended a relationship of 1 year because I was so exhausted of building a structure for him i learned a good thing
Comment from : @tsionfeleke3727

Thank you so much for sharing this Im a young lady navigating the dating world 🫠 this is so insightful ❤❤❤
Comment from : @obsessedbsyarn

One hundred percent truth🎉
Comment from : @OriginalsByBenji

It is good to be here and watching some of your videos Thanks for sharing this knowledge with us
Comment from : @erhuvwulisa549

This video is no coincidence Thank you Lord Thank you Ayanime
Comment from : @LoveChukwukere

This is very enlightening,and the fact I can relate to every bit of information makes it even better❤
Comment from : @preciiousofficial

This was a great video!! But man it is soooooo hard when you like someone
Comment from : @cletang88

So u pray to God to fornicate? Na wa o
Comment from : @oyinsunday4230

HibrDo you offer mentorship sessions brI'd really love to be mentored by you
Comment from : @tellastorytat

Fantastic video Thank you
Comment from : @abifernandes6164

I love your Videos!!❤
Comment from : @eminaemi7854

This is a wow 🤩 ❤
Comment from : @liliansblog

I am 1000 in support of this statement
Comment from : @MzEurosia

So impactful, thank you
Comment from : @MbuChristabelTohnain

I wish I heard this message 8years back
Comment from : @cynthia5252

Point one is too painful 😢
Comment from : @StylishTna

Wait, I heard my name😀 but for real, thanks a lot babygirl for always showing us how it's done and sharing from your experiences
Comment from : @financialjennifer

9:08 period
Comment from : @theempressmak

You're Very Beautiful 🌸🌸💗🌸💗💖🩷🙂
Comment from : @Holagracias1

So true, I got the shock of my life when he told me he's not my child That I was being controlling Gosh! It's been exhausting trying to build a man Allow him struggle in peace sisters ❤❤❤ Not all men want your opinion
Comment from : @adaobi_elegantfashion

Off topic,could you please tell is what hair you are wearing? It is lovelyThanks
Comment from : @babs1913

Whew! This is all facts! I had to learn this the hard way Thank you for reminding us of this!
Comment from : @jayhoytt2644

Listen! 🙏🏾❤️
Comment from : @iamabundant777

You were absolutely amazing❤thanks so much for all you do for this community U are loved❤
Comment from : @bridgetajari297

Ladies don't ever allow your your energy to be harvested
Comment from : @MarieN8959

Bob the builder!! 😂
Comment from : @kaburagitonga

Thanks ma ❣️
Comment from : @AbigailSaidu

The title of this video alone got me
Comment from : @uchevania8250

Thank you ma
Comment from : @EjikemepeaceChinyere

I almost settled again building up the wrong man Thank you for this video It confirms that I made the right decision by ending that relationship
Comment from : @kamidarling

All those 3 things youve mentioned I did But God took me out
Comment from : @naongakalumbi8670

I did the opposite of everything said in this video, I lost my faith, myself my finances almost my life everything I was asking and helping him work on he gave in his new relationship, right now I’m struggling to find myself back I know I may sound stupid to so many but i didn’t know better😭😭😭I pray I heal take the lessons find myself and hope for a better life Thank you ma’am for always teaching and helping us become a better version of ourselves 🥰🥰🥰
Comment from : @lifestylewithmichys9168

I am not the balm of gilead indeed ✌️✌️✌️
Comment from : @Ayimifaithful

This video was nothing but straight fire 🔥 brA woman should never build a man because if she does so, how does she evaluate his capability for his future masculine roles as a husband and father?brbrJust the same way a woman learns femininity and everything that comes with womanhood from the female figures in her life (mother, grandmother, aunts, female coaches, etc), a man should learn how to build himself from the male figures in his life, or if he had none growing up, there are plenty of male-centred life coaches around that he can tap intobrbrAll of this should happen bbefore/b a man decides that he's ready to settle down
Comment from : @kim1570

This shit is annoying When I started getting organized and scheduling , he wasn’t following along with it
Comment from : @Ren_reviews

Love love love this topic Seeing another woman talk about your experiences is truly intriguing And the no wig and no makeup😅, even the no high heels shoes 😂, br I learned the hard way never to build a man cause they will only see you as a ladder to climb and not as a partner God bless you ❤
Comment from : @tessypeters2829

Thank you so much for this spirit lead and confirming video I have been this woman!
Comment from : @KarenHubbard-h5b

Thank you so much I have learnt a lot Please when is your next wardrobe class coming out this yr, I want to be a part of this
Comment from : @IsiomaObiora

Hmmm”The Holy Spirit was silent “brThank you for sharing
Comment from : @fingerstouch5975

100 agree! I’m 49 and was a slow learner only took me about 43 years 😂
Comment from : @kimpossible5939

❤❤❤ God bless you for this
Comment from : @GraceDike-vf9gl

Love your videos! You looked beautiful before with braces Even more beautiful now! I’m a fan ♥️ so so pretty
Comment from : @amimbipa

Thank you so much for being this vulnerable to help liberate some persons God bless you
Comment from : @theresaodey3355

Shout out to women who are choosing to abstain! Ladies this journey is not easy especially someone you like! May God continue to bless you on this path
Comment from : @its_cynthiandaipa

Very true sis , and am in it
Comment from : @ayishabawa4465

Everything you said is true,I have experienced the three things you said
Comment from : @ojogodwin4163

A great message
Comment from : @somyiheji5606

This is very true, I can relate I did it for my partner and now, only God knows who he is spending his money on
Comment from : @veronicamaameserwaabadu-pr3659

This was so inspiring thank you so much
Comment from : @bioweigracious3218

You are so amazing mabrThank you so much ❤
Comment from : @peacebella7273

I will never step in the role of life manager!!! Love you Miss ❤
Comment from : @ReginaWealth

I made this mistake and am regretting now
Comment from : @NkwochaVictoria

wow i loved this
Comment from : @lornanzivo6698

Please make a video on types on sunglasses to buy wear to elevate dress looks :)
Comment from : @shwetadev6028

This message is spot on 👌brThank you for sharing
Comment from : @blessingasuquo6881

I did all you said to fix my 'husband' I did it for the kids cos I knew as humans he may still hurt me, talk to me anyhow, etc I rearranged his CV after prayerfully talking to someone for a job for him He got the job from 80k to 6 zeros But do you know he still ask me to buy food for the house Lolz of course I told him I wont I have been carrying the burden for 10years even before he go the 80k job, of which it was my brother that helped him He hasn't spoken to me since 2 days cos he told me to pay for our new meter which o refused I spend for the home don't get me wrong I still do a whole lot His pay is now wayyy bigger than mine In all, I am happy for my kids and for him It's well
Comment from : @beatriceiheonu4929

As soon as i would've heard him say that I would've been gone I know God wouldn't want me to be intimate with a man I'm not married to Praise be to God!
Comment from : @poppy77777

Why the men hate, I happily do all kinds of stuff for my husband and there is nothing beneficial for my husband that I would never do for him Caring for my husband is also caring for me, and that has no limits Advice about never do for men keeps many women single or destroy their marriage
Comment from : @may-fz3tn

Your helping and shaping me brGod bless you for us
Comment from : @princesssuvikarungi6547

That brand of madnes😂😂😂
Comment from : @toluwaladeakintunde9653

You are gorgeous I love this hair style ❤❤❤
Comment from : @myshaajayy

"you are not Bob the builder" cracked me up 😂
Comment from : @Gracie0609

You're so correct, 100brWomen should be with a man that allows her to stay in her feminine energy Be with a stronger, richer, better manbrAnd if you dont, after helping them build the structure, they will go and meet a woman that 'makes them feel like the man'
Comment from : @toluwaladeakintunde9653

Ayani, if i start to tell you the mind tricks men(off all races) have tried to pull on me, eh, you'll laugh😂 Some of them even say: ' I've been hurt before, i'm scared to put my heart out there again' and i'm like: ' Oja, big princess of a scamming man, get out joh! Shebi is me you're trying to scam,abi? After several months of dating, it is now that you're afraid of getting 'hurt'😅😅😅😅 They will do all sorts of things to get you to prove yourself to them I will never prove myself to a man who approached me That's why i attract, i do not chase
Comment from : @ninawestlake14

Thank you for always ❤❤
Comment from : @livewithmymah

" Brand of madness " 😂😂😂😂😂
Comment from : @Damilola_Adesina

This is profound I have seen it in other relationships time and time again and mine Dropping gems 💎 Sis 🙏🏾
Comment from : @thevirginhaircompany

Great video, keep the good work rolling
Comment from : @jedidahlawrence7014

Thank you for pointing these things, it’s really enlightening and encouraging, I’ve made a lot of mistakes without realizing it but now I’m beginning to have that strong will, and coming across this is amazing, and helpful thank you ❤❤
Comment from : @ukwagrace3117

Thank you for sharingbrThe issues discussed were very real
Comment from : @debraphillip6740

Thank you for that encouraging WORD! 🙏🏽 His strength is perfect in our weakness!
Comment from : @coleenbrebnor9705

All I can say is thank you so so so so much ❤❤❤❤brKeep Sharing and blessing lives Always always honor your self, your dreams and your values ❤❤❤
Comment from : @hephzibahnationinternational

Always honour yourself, your dreams and your values Thank you Ayanime☺️
Comment from : @obiriyeboahjudith2495

Such a lovely video, as always! I was wondering if you could create a video featuring feminine TV shows and movies to watch
Comment from : @Prettyuser07

"You are not Bob the Builder" 😊
Comment from : @karenbernard5616

Thanks
Comment from : @angelamartekimarkwei8608

This is really bold but I really resonate with you
Comment from : @rebeccatotimeh

Very useful videobrThanks ma'am ❤
Comment from : @StellaPaul-bh3wk

Great advice I totally agree with everything you shared❤
Comment from : @nklynworld1612

I like the fact that you get straight to the point
Comment from : @maggyviews2555

Facts Thanks for sharing
Comment from : @rosemaryomeni6961

Thanks for being vulnerable enough to share your beautiful relationship with Holy Spirit👏👏👏
Comment from : @RunToksRun

I made this mistake and I regret every bit of it Thank you for educating women!
Comment from : @naijalawyer7690

First of all, i cannot believe i wasn't subscribed yet Well i just did🤭brLadies, listen to every single word of this video and take it as the TRUTH This was my reality from July 9th 2021 to July 11th 2024 I was bob the builder for a man who had absolutely no clue what he wanted to do with his life His dreams were larger than the Pacific ocean, but he had absolutely no clue how to get there I pushed him so hard he started resenting me and i slowly started resenting him too He felt i never saw his efforts and i felt his efforts were never enough brFast forward to September 2023 he got a decent job and I thought life would kick off from there January 2024 i moved abroad and we started planning June 2024 he lost that job due to his fault I was soooo mad at him and i saw everything collapse I had to call off the relationship and I felt no remorse at all That was when i realized my mind had left the relationship 1 year prior to me calling it off This man was kind, loving, patient, great and all but love alone is never enough brLadies find a man who knows what exactly he wants and how to get there If u must build with him, it should only be from the sidelines
Comment from : @mbamemarieclaudine1628

wooow am speechless i have watched ths video more than 3 times
Comment from : @saudatbello

A woman who does not build a man will be an ugly mother to a son Avoid
Comment from : @Harry-d4n

Please ma'am,brThere's this guy we have been dating brHe opened up to mebrWe get along together brHe introduced me to his family, they're loved and welcome mebrHis next plan is to come and visit my peoplebrBut all of a sudden he started acting strange brStop texting,no call's, going silentbrI asked him what going on he said he can't place his hands on any good reason why he feels disconnected with me from the most part brIt kind strange he his trying to process it himselfbrI need your warm advice and encouragement please
Comment from : @itzAmara-j6b