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The Impact of Trauma on Victims of Domestic Violence

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This is me right now I reported lots I lots so much I'm scared it's made me very anxious and flashbacks 😢
Comment from : @Sam-s8v9t

Quite the story as I showed up to sb YWCA and turned away numerous times when it stems for the reason I showed up the previous year mind you orders in hand I stared at them to be put on the street after a few hours on the couch as I was not criteria nor upon trying to speak to one an appointment for them to speak to the others YWCA of fort Wayne as well as Washington I was denied
Comment from : @Jessicah-u4w

Police officers are not that nice But still worth reporting if you have proof like a bruise
Comment from : @802sti

I called the police they done nothing even though she has a record not all police care
Comment from : @paddysheehan5412

This should be sent to the police brThey need educating
Comment from : @seg6629

what if you dont have the energy to get the help? how do you reclaim that part of yourself that cares enough to get help?
Comment from : @sussosi8302

I was afraid it would made my life worse and afraid my son would be harrassed so i went to court, or he used forgiveness thing, whats worse its destroyed my life to the point not getting believed, he knew what to say or do certain ways certain places, and , went through this twice, had so many losses, trying to movenot being believed, or teying to speak up, only to feel alone back to silence, sometimes because i didnt want to think about it in the past, I dont think I will ever get into another relationship, trust, or let any man that used my faith for his use, or fun again
Comment from : @Leannot35

Wtf 😮 Soooo not real
Comment from : @simplypositiveme

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Comment from : @BenOrtizeGreatestHits

No You did
Comment from : @NoOne-qj8mg

Sorry, but POLICE ARE A HUGE TRAUMA TRIGGER
Comment from : @Dee-JayW

I can guarantee you that in real life the police will laugh at you, shame you and tell you it’s a civil matter and not a crime and make you feel even worse than before you called Especially if you’re a man Cruel world but I’m saying this from experience Doesn’t matter if you’re bloody, bruised, stalked, harassed, loose everything by way of what the laws ‘claim’ to be a crime like making someone loose multiple jobs based off lies meant to blackmail, threatens your children, your reputation , talked to like a dog until you literally feel like nothing This country seriously needs to do some work because going to a judge for a TPO is not feasible for most people who live through this Emergency means help now! In fact, a TPO could only put you in more danger from the person the way the system is now The abuser will only use that to threaten more pain and God forbid they feel empowered by having destroyed your defenses…
Comment from : @Ben-eh2bq

I am on watch to dv He started pestering my ex girlfriend because I had new partner I had major sib episode
Comment from : @soniczforever5470

None of the police officers i encountered ever acted like this, and actually the worst one i encountered was the only woman police officer i encountered She made me feel so ashamed and stupid
Comment from : @aliciasavage6801

My husband drugged me with date rape drug what I woke up all I could move was my eye balls ,my babygirl was screaming for me and to try wake my husband up all I could do is try scream loud enough he wake up I was paralyzed I found the lil piece paper on the drug he drugged me with ,I went to battered woman's center and nothing was ever done to prosecute him no help or charges for what he did to me ,another time he punched me behind my ear cause if I would not have turned he would have punched my baby in my arm in her face if I wouldn't have turned he would have punched my lil girl in her face he would have broke bones in her face and knocked her totally out probably destroyed everything on her beautiful face ,and still he got nothing got away with it no one no cop press charges on him I'm still devastated over what he did to me my baby
Comment from : @aprilyoung3903

Not only do we live with the trauma from the abuse, the police and family court has made us suffer more and more trauma including new abuse from the same person for years 😭
Comment from : @AM-re1jy

Lol if only the police were this supporting and understanding
Comment from : @annedio2828

I live in Seattle The city with more social services than streets 75 of them are useless Seattle has one of the best police There is NO WAY they would sit down with a DV victim like this because they are short handed and they told me the worst calls are DV because the victim will suddenly attack the officer trying to help DV causes extremely mental illness I survived because people in my community gave me directions, support, and work This video makes this look like it’s so civilized It’s not
Comment from : @jocelynnowen3078

Yeah nothe police were the trauma
Comment from : @ReinaLovesLaw

I had someone help me slow down my breathing it does help 🫂
Comment from : @MummifiedKitten

Life 💟
Comment from : @MummifiedKitten

Which police station do i call to get police like this? Because in my experience, not one police officer (in the usa) in the last 12 years has been kind to me I am questioned and reprimanded for having contact (that i didnt initiate) with him There has been a local warrant for his arrest for 7 months, and another in a different state for 2 years I get better results calling my local crisis center for help
Comment from : @aginggenxer

Cops arrested my daughter when she called for her and her toddler daughter,major attempted murders by daughter's❤
Comment from : @Kasper-rf5mn

Fearing my husbandstill after I left 4 years agotwo black trash bags is all I left withknowing his potentialmy fear is palpable
Comment from : @annrodriguez2891

I didn’t know this was something other women go throughthe triggers, the traumathe guiltthe depressionthank you for the advice and video
Comment from : @MoniqueConnor-jr6np

The demons help the demons
Comment from : @richellepeace4457

Thank you for helping me to understand so many things
Comment from : @dilciaseecharan2146

Our mother was a horrible abuser She was able to get away with absolute evil due to the lack of accountability society holds women to It’s truly terrible
Comment from : @Stoviecakes

No Way😢
Comment from : @Stay100chicago

Abuse is 50/50 Why is the thought process to not include men when men are the ones not likely to report This is weak bs
Comment from : @Craterface666

The said roommate also elaborated on how she can manipulate her makeup to look like real bruises How many men have gone through this
Comment from : @johnsexton7621

It’s been 7 months since I left my ex and some of the emotions still linger 😢 Recently diagnosed with PTSD, Anxiety, and Depression from it This video helped a lot
Comment from : @mariahrucker

Thank you for this video I really needed this right now
Comment from : @blakesbabyx

I grew up in a domestic violence home and I still feel the effects of it from 51 yrs ago Horrible memories
Comment from : @waltporter7707

Everyone abuses me its been a lifetime of it n im sick of it includn my unwanted adoptive reject existance
Comment from : @TinaLouise73

That police officer as a man did not rape you man Don't even dare try to threaten me is what a a victim thinks
Comment from : @aimeeseek

But mine was a police officer
Comment from : @stephaniesoto3154

The police made my abuse soooooooo much worst
Comment from : @mandyporras07

❤❤ proper training is imperative Thank you for making this 🙏🏽💜
Comment from : @stephaniesoto3154

My family doesn’t understand why I stayed with my abusive husband, until I left a year-ago Abusers “brainwash” their partners Slowly, you begin to believe the abuse is normal It doesn’t matter how many friends and family members try convincing you otherwise, a precipice has to occur before the abusee leaves It took me almost eleven years What was my precipice? Sadly, watching my puppy being abused by him Thankfully, we’re both out of the “relationship”
Comment from : @denisek292

Of only the police acted like this lol what a joke
Comment from : @Meleray1

LoL "If we are nice to you for ten minutes after you've been battered for 6 years, it'll make all the difference in the world!" Not really how it works and therapy didnt help me What DID help me break out was a network of friends available through the computer 24/7 and the police officer putting her arm on my hand and telling me after my questioning "You can NEVER see this guy again" That and the receptionist who said "If you continue seeing him, you will sit here beaten black and blue next time" I obeyed them both and never saw him again He turned out to be a schizophrenic with introverted psychopathy, I'm still afraid of him to this day and he lives across from me
Comment from : @Vixinaful

Now, get cops to act like that IRL
Comment from : @anitareasontobelieve378

This is no joke i an working on getting emotionally stronger I lost eyesight due to domestic violence br I hope that I can help someone with my experience
Comment from : @XicaD

I can tell you with 100 no police officer was contacted before doing this video Definitely a civilian perspective
Comment from : @ebrooke4632

This is so typical of how white, privileged, liberal women have selfishly and simplistically taken over the dialogue of IPV and portray themselves as the victims who suffer by the hand of men You are behind the curve It is NOT about you, it is about power dynamics and violence that affects men and women, all races, identities, classes and educational backgrounds It is way bigger than you Wake up and get over your victimhood and work to end violence against all beings
Comment from : @Overthetop242