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Attending a Bar Mitzvah or Bat Mitzvah - What to Expect as a Guest

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thank you so much! my super close friends bar mitzvah is soon,and i'm not Jewish,so i had no idea what to do now i feel a little more prepared and know what to expect
Comment from : @AveryEmenheiser

Wait what did you mix with the salmon? Saracha sauce and mayo?
Comment from : @mzdragon2955

Looks delicious but would be a lot less intimidating if the background music wasn’t created because of a murder crime
Comment from : @mzdragon2955

I know you talked about it, but I’m still unsure about what to wear I’m going to my friends bat mitzvah ceremony and party Do I wear the same thing to both? Please someone tell me what to wear for each one!
Comment from : @abigaildoyle4634

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Comment from : @jermainelindo6944

Thank you! Daughter just got invited to a Bat Mitzvah We were clueless until we watched your video
Comment from : @lburg3780

My best friend (she's a girl) invited me and i don't know nothing about it just the fact thay si when they turn 13, ao im looking at videos to see what to expect
Comment from : @Mrbomber17

Thank you for sharing This is very helpful
Comment from : @EdmundAlynJones

I'm not Jewish but I'm attending one of my friend's bar mitzvahs, and I have no video what to expect, so thanks for the video!
Comment from : @m-a-s-e-y

My mother in law said only married women cover their heads
Comment from : @pamelamiller7745

Italians do over the top parties for baptisms and confirmations as well Lots of fun
Comment from : @sheteg1

What if it doesn’t say on the invitation?
Comment from : @bookworm62442

Some strict churches require women to wear doilies too I would certainly dress up to attend Synagogue
Comment from : @darlenegattus8190

I needed this I have one tomorrow
Comment from : @doodlewithaj9503

Thank you! This was so helpful! Our son is attending a bar mitzvah in a few days I so appreciate your informative video
Comment from : @laraalami9114

I Want Moshiach Now!!!
Comment from : @johnduke4120

I’m a 13 year old girl and I’m not Jewish but my Jewish school friend invited me too one and I literally only have t shirts Andy parents never met her but I really wanna go and I havnt even asked them yet and I’m supposed to rsvp today and I’m so stressed
Comment from : @elinbird00

My bat mitzah is in 18 days and im soooo excited!!!🥰
Comment from : @judithcorona3438

Would it also be pretty weird if Bar/Bat Mitzvah parties are held at Chuck E Cheese's?🙃 Just wondering
Comment from : @megspitzer9406

U ok
Comment from : @chrismorrow4269

Omg this helped me so much Thank you so much
Comment from : @superiorsimon5315

Excellent topic!
Comment from : @biblicalhebrewmadeez1332

This is so helpful my Bat mitzvah is coming up and I’m sending this to our guests
Comment from : @laurynmiscool

You could be literally anyone's best friend, I swear, your happiness just radiates! ♥
Comment from : @JuliehPeglegs

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Comment from : @jermainelindo6944

I grew up in an Islamic country, and these countries used to have very bitter ties with jews as a Christian the only exposure I had to Judaism was the Old Testament in the Holy Bible But now I have gotten to know more about Jewish culture, I hope I get to learn more about it
Comment from : @-Viva-Cristo-Rey

Do a What to wear to look fashionista and appropiate plreeaseee
Comment from : @babylal5i

Does it have to be the eldest children who have a Bar/Bat Mitzvah? Or do his/her siblings have it, too? I'm curious
Comment from : @megspitzer9406

I'm having my bat mitzvah in February next year
Comment from : @janehealeybrown6335

I remember my bat mitzvah My friends asked me the same questions Some of them saved my invitation, too 30 years ago this year!
Comment from : @lilafeldman8630

Welcome to the middle age
Comment from : @danroma8935

I love Bar and Bat Mitzvahs
Comment from : @evanwilson2465

I am going to a bar Mitzvah tomorrow
Comment from : @rmb5163

Omg I’m going to my bffs party and service! So much pressure
Comment from : @Kate-st4hx

I grew up orthodox, so seeing bat mitzvah services, women wearing kippot/yarmulkes and tallitim, and everything being in english often makes me laugh
Comment from : @heythere8318

Thank you so much for this video! My classmate invited me to her bat mitzvah and I was nervous at first because I had no idea what to do or wear or what to expect at a bat mitzvah But know I know! Again thank you
Comment from : @yodamaster8571

I have a question, or well I have two, in a synagogue what do jewish people pray to? Do they pray to the star of David like Christian's pray to a cross? And also do synagogues have choirs?
Comment from : @michellemarie1197

Thank you so much for making this it was really helpful I'm attending my gf little sisters And I'm super anxious about it since I know little to nothing about it
Comment from : @kaytlinw3850

Well, technically, I'm not a jewish But I'm learning about their culture
Comment from : @evanwilson2465

A year late but I just found your channel Just wanted to mention an additional custom I dearly love That is the passing of Torah generatonally winding up with the young celebrant Thanks for doing this! I love my Jewish journey so much You help to show others why!
Comment from : @JessicaWicks

Thank you This was really helpful!
Comment from : @user-pr8ln4pz1g

OMG THANK YOU THIS HELPED ME SO FREAKING MUCH!!!!❤️❤️
Comment from : @lilyfigueroa9087

bullshit, I've watched several bar mitzvah and there are no women present there as they are excluded in jewish culture
Comment from : @ThomashowardX

I would love to go to a Bar or Bat Mitzvah one day!❤️
Comment from : @LeafInTheWind88

I never had a bat mitzvah in my life though my 3 siblings did (one is a boy so he had a bar mitzvah) I just wanted to have a pool party instead I do regret it but it is too late because I am 16
Comment from : @sarathehighschoolmusicalfa4769

Hello!brFirst of all this video helped me SO much with the gift portion! My best friend is having her’s in May and she is really nervous/excited I do have one question though, compared to the dinner/dance part, how fancy should my dress be for the ceremony? I currently I own 1 dress, I am a sort of Tom boy, and I just don’t know what to shop for!
Comment from : @annariffkin9831

i really want to convert into judaism i hope i get the chance to one day
Comment from : @blocpartyrocker

This was so helpful for our family as we are attending our first Bar Mitzvah! You are adorable and we enjoyed watching this!
Comment from : @brookemenoni1160

I’m so non-social It’s going to be hard
Comment from : @danielneymer5660

I love this video! My really good friend is having a bar mitzvah in 18 days do you bring gifts? And what type?
Comment from : @isabellaweakliem24

Hello:-)🎀🎀
Comment from : @DianaKazimiera-

Hi!brThis video was so helpful! I’m attending my friends bat mitzvah and I was so stressed on what to wear and what to bring as a gift! I re-read the invitation and it doesn’t specify the reception attire standard! I don’t know what to do?! Please help me I’m not sure what is the “average” attire for the reception or what is to “extra” brMuch love ❤️, brAutumn
Comment from : @baconxxranch6284

Rosh hasana is on 9/9 Do you live in the USA i live in israel so my english is not very good because im young
Comment from : @lisha2108

I did my bat mitzva one year ago
Comment from : @lisha2108

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Comment from : @beautyblast5212

I've learnt so much from your channel! 😍
Comment from : @lifewithlisaonyt

Great video You covered so much good stuff It's hard to cover all the differences between congregations I am a B'nai Mitzvah tutor I'll make a partner to this one from my perspective as a tutor and a member of a Reform congregation
Comment from : @EverydayJewishMom

We are still in "bat mitzvah" season around my house My daughter already had her's, but there are still a handful of kids in her class that have theirs coming up And I agree about the invitations They are so beautiful My daughter's theme was Wonderland and it ended up coming out so amazing I was worried about it all because I made all the decorations myself (with my mom) I think the most stressful and the most fun, was shopping for her dress! LOL And buying her tallit That was when it really hit me that she's growing up That was my favorite part of the day, placing it on her and seeing all the photos of her wearing it I can't wait for the high holy days so she wears it again! LOL
Comment from : @twoweirdoswithkiddos7970

Yessssssssss!! Loving the old pics!
Comment from : @Lizco77

Rosh Hashanah content! Yay! I've gotta get mine in order, but stay tuned
Comment from : @LittleKosherLunch

My mom also kept all the invitations from my years of attending friends Bar and Bat Mitzvahs I recently weeded through them and they were INCREDIBLE!!! Your overview was so thoughtful ps Loved dinner dance parties when I was growing up too! Let's bring em back when it's time for our kiddos :)
Comment from : @LittleKosherLunch

Great video! I always gets so many questions and I’m always happy to answer because they’re my favorite kind of celebrations!
Comment from : @prettyluckypenny8059

The old pics! LOVE!!!
Comment from : @marlahandelman9608

Ah! This was so fun! The kids side of my bat mitzvah was 1950s themed- this totally brought me back!
Comment from : @AlliesBest

Great info My Brother's Bar Mitzvah was awesome I was so jealous I wanted one too Can't wait for the Rosh Hashanah content
Comment from : @nikkikoz4720

Hi Marion! I love invitations (and all paper goods) too! I really like your scrapbook It has a cool minimal style Do you have experience with the mikvah that you would be willing to talk about in a video? I've never been and am interested to learn more And/or, I would really like to see how you prepare for and celebrate Shabbat Keep up the awesome work! Thanks for sharing!
Comment from : @MrsCadillacSavelle